GFE?

[When You Are Ready]

What activities must a meeting have for it to be a GFE for you?

For me, it needs to include kissing and a BBBJ.

[dougdoug]

good ole conversation and cuddling in-between...

[JustaGuyinMS]

WYAR and DougDoug - what you said!

JaG

[dj8rocks]

For me also, must include at least LFK, bbbj, good eye contact during conversation. Start with a little foreplay, rubbing, kissing, good b2b contact, her leaning down while in cg, to kiss, because she wants to. After the pop, love the warm wash off while I am still in la la land. After we have gone our separate ways, I like for her to send a "I had fun, enjoyed our time together" text, that's like the cherry on top for me.

[Moonchild]

For me, GFE is the connection one makes as if we had known each other for a long time. Any person can go through the motions and have the physical aspects of sex, but it's more meaningful when there is a mental intimate connection with another

[JustaGuyinMS]

Originally Posted by Moonchild

For me, GFE is the connection one makes as if we had known each other for a long time. Any person can go through the motions and have the physical aspects of sex, but it's more meaningful when there is a mental intimate connection with another

+1 - important!

JaG

[Guest062317-1]

Well moonchild and I agree! It's not about all the acronyms.

[Bigal103]

Originally Posted by Moonchild

For me, GFE is the connection one makes as if we had known each other for a long time. Any person can go through the motions and have the physical aspects of sex, but it's more meaningful when there is a mental intimate connection with another

I agree, very important. I must admit though, I got too close one time and it was
difficult for me to let go.

AL

[Stella Dearborn]

I think the girlfriend "experience" is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy your company and WANTS to please you, make you feel good. She wants to know about you, listens and laughs with you, gives you neck rubs, likes to feed you… and rocks your world behind closed doors. A GFE is like your girlfriend for a few hours at a time; a quiet, private friend that doesn't cling or have expectations.

I call the hobby "the no strings attached clause", its not that we don't like each other, we just know our boundaries.

[Ninotsugi]

I believe all the responses here are Superb…I suppose what you Gentleman desire in the Girlfriend Experience
is more personal interaction, not merely a focus on Sex but having an All-Embracing Experience.
Just thought I would add some Serenity to the Thread…keeping the Board Judgment Free.

[Carolina Girl Holly]

Well First, You're dressed to impress, you are happy to see them as much as they are to see you, take care of business quickly then make them feel comfortable and "at home" (personal private home tour); then a nice sensual massage (FBSM) to talk and ease nerves between two of you as you have great CONVO and connect maybe on a certain subject/topic and then the two of you catch up quickly where each are in life. Then of course CONVO on what they like/don't like/ limits for each of you. Then the lfk, dfk, THE EYE CONTACT "bedroom eyes"; etc...etc...etc... cause naturally one thing leads to another. I'm always in the mindset of 1st base, 2nd base, 3rd base and then HOMERUN! (SORRY former softball catcher here)...what works for the guy - they're the boss and have their limits but sometimes if they are pleasers, what works for the girl is found out or explored. Ends in hugs and kisses good-bye and "see you next time" or "I WILL BE BACK! (Like I got today)"

[Brer Rabbit]

For me it is an experience that does not fit any simple formula. I've had some pretty bad experiences with REAL girlfriends!

It's all about the chemistry. No combination of acronyms or presence or absence of some of them equate to GFE for me. Yes, I like DFK and BBBJ, but some of my best overall experiences have had neither. There is a lightness, a spontenaity, a sense of sensual joy and mutual expression of relaxed intimacy that heats up into something torrid. No way to explain. Again, its the chemistry, and that is either there or it is not. We guys need to know that half of that chemistry is us . . . how we dress, how we act, how we behave, and how we pay attention to and learn from the lady what her own pleasures are. That's when a hobby encounter turns into GFE, at least for me.

[Guest062317-1]

To me, a list of acronyms cheapens the experience all together. I mean, we all know what's going to transpire...but nothing is 3 very the same. I love getting to know an individual, what makes them tick. Allowing them to get to know me personally, my playful and carefree attitude. Take it from there.

[When You Are Ready]

I would like to thank everyone for their input into this discussion. I agree with all who express the belief that the experience is more than just acronyms. Its an adventure in which both partners are pleasured.

[hotrix1]

Originally Posted by Stella Dearborn

I think the girlfriend "experience" is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy your company and WANTS to please you, make you feel good. She wants to know about you, listens and laughs with you, gives you neck rubs, likes to feed you… and rocks your world behind closed doors. A GFE is like your girlfriend for a few hours at a time; a quiet, private friend that doesn't cling or have expectations.

I call the hobby "the no strings attached clause", its not that we don't like each other, we just know our boundaries.

I have to agree with Stella, but for the most part I wind up being the giver and not the receiver. Unless it's with someone like Flora, then it's a give and take proposition. I guess she and I just have a connection that goes beyond the chemistry or activities. Not with any others I've had the pleasure of seeing in the past. Some have better attributes than others, some have lacked all of the above. Few have come close and plenty don't even bother to try.

A GFE? It's a true desire to please and be pleased. A GFE builds a bond of confidence, trust and respect by satisfying pleasurable desires and stimulating both body and mind. One who gives of herself to devote the limited time on hand to the best she can give and is willing to graciously receive and let the time be spent on something memorable rather than just be something ordinary.
Something a RL gf would be not just willing to, but be happy to give and receive as a mutually enjoyable experience.