I wouldn't say that I've grown to care about any of my clients for "all the wrong reasons".
I care about them because the time we spend together is filled with more than just physical activities. That's just the type of provider I am and have always been. And spending 2-5 hours one and two times a week over a span of years with someone, a certain amount of "feels" is bound to happen.
We are all still human beings.
I wonder about those Gents. I think of them sometimes and wish them well. That's it. I don't "pine" for them or let it effect my day to day life or my business practices lol
Well....not anymore. Not since I made the colossal dumbass move of falling head over heals and actually marrying a client.
SMDH @ myself for that shit
So...yes. If you don't wanna catch feelings for a provider or client, make sure you never become that much of a regular, see many different providers, & keep strict boundaries that are clearly defined and never blurred.
Then, no one will be hurt if you just drop off the face of the Earth.