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				 tips for newbies 
 
			
			Saw this in another thread. Figured it could help those new here:
 The day of your appt.
 Text her several hours before
 your appointment to confirm
 you are still scheduled
 with the exact time of your
 meet.
 
 She should give you the cross
 streets, area, zip code or
 the name of the hotel in her
 reply. So you know where
 to go.
 
 When you leave to meet her
 I usually text then to let
 the girl know I'm on my way.
 
 Leave early, show up early.
 Watch the traffic around the
 hotel or apartment.
 Keep an eye out for shady
 characters lurking outside
 (pimp or accomplice thief)
 and undercover cops.
 
 Park in a safe area away
 from the hotel.
 If it's a house/apartment
 I usually park about a block
 away.
 
 About 5 min til appt time.
 Text her that you're there.
 She should give you the
 hotel room number, apartment
 number and instructions
 on where to go and what to
 do to get to her door.
 
 If she asks to see your car
 this is a red flag.
 Some want to know for their
 safety but be on high alert.
 By parking far away, you will
 be out of range for her to
 hit your key fob while you are
 otherwise distracted to give
 an accomplice access to your
 vehicle.
 
 Take only what you need for
 the appointment.
 The exact amount of money
 in an envelope or card
 rate and duration of visit
 should always be agreed upon
 before you see her.
 Always bring your own condoms.
 
 When she greets you at the door
 if she is not the girl pictured
 in the ad, walk.
 If she likes about who she is
 she will lie about anything/
 everything.
 It also sends a message to her
 to stop catfishing people.
 
 She should hug/kiss you when
 you meet her. It sets the mood
 and is a step towards LE checks.
 
 Excuse yourself to go to the
 restroom to wash up.
 If your gut feeling about the
 appointment is good, leave the
 open envelope with the money in
 it in plain view.
 DO NOT DISCUSS THE MONEY AT ALL.
 
 Inspect the restroom for signs
 of a 2nd person or an accomplice.
 Look behind the shower curtain
 and under cabinets.
 Wash your hands.
 
 When you come out, check the
 door to make sure the latch/
 deadbolt is closed so no one
 can come in the room from
 outside (even with a key card).
 Make sure the door to the
 adjoining room is locked.
 
 She will tell you to
 "Get comfortable" this is code
 and the last LE check.
 You need to get completely
 naked at this time.
 She should also be nudging up
 as well.
 A female cop will not show her
 tits or kitty at all.
 If she isnt wearing negligee
 you need to ask to see her
 breasts before you start
 getting naked.
 NEVER DISCUSS MONEY.
 Just to be sure, do not touch
 her until you are both nude.
 
 At this point the girl will
 usually take the lead and
 ask you to lay on the bed
 for a BJ or massage to start.
 
 Once you get this far you are
 good to go for fin activities
 but if you shower before
 you go, take your clothes into
 the bathroom with you
 and leave the shower curtain
 open enough to see your clothes.
 
 Just be polite and respectful,
 shower before your appt.
 Ask before you DFK, FIV
 or CIM/COF/COT.
 
 If she has an attitude,
 poor service, or refuses
 to do promised activities
 dont try to get a refund.
 This will only escalate the
 situation.
 It is better to take a 300 loss
 than to be beat up, kidnapped
 or robbed of everything by her
 calling a pimp, body guard or
 partner in crime.
 
 Just trust your instincts.
 If something feels off, its
 better to cancel the appt or
 walk than it is to get
 beat up or arrested.
 
 If Shes been a provider with
 ads for awhile you should
 be ok. If she were a RIP off
 artist she would always be
 changing her handle, phone
 number and city.
 
 Also cops doing stings will
 want to see you TONIGHT.
 They will not reschedule.
 If the ad is new and the pics
 seem TGTBT, it's usually a
 sting/rip off artist.
 NEVER DISCUSS MONEY.
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