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maint729 · 09-22-2025, 07:06 PM

For all the guys that go to the massage parlors and meet some of the beautiful therapists.Don't fall in love like I did.

Get your massage get your hand job and go home. I made a mistake and married one of them.

I've spent a ton of money for all her needs And it's non-stop of wanting more. If you spend $2,000 today she'll love you to death 3 days later she dreams of something else she needs and you're supposed to take your money out of savings. So do not feel sorry for them. I married her so she didn't get kicked out of the country.

Once she got her green card she doesn't need you anymore. Up until then she's the most wonderful wife you'll ever have.

You read it in articles everyday They are using you and you would spend money thinking there's no way she doesn't loves me, until they get their green card. I argued with people over the past year to mind their own business She's not like that. Oh my God was I wrong.

Well guess what they was not lying to you. There is a night and day difference. Now she treats me like dirt. Now I'm going to have to spend a lot of money to get a divorce.

I know I spent at least $20,000 for things to get her green card and she wasn't working sending money home because her mother they don't have social security over there. What a fool.

Don't make the same mistake please.

HDGristle · 09-22-2025, 07:20 PM

Sage wisdom. Learn from this man's mistakes

eyecu2 · 09-23-2025, 10:48 AM

Sorry Maint that you got caught up in the game. Yellow Fevah has taken down a lot of guys and while I've never made a mad leap into a relationship with one, I did end a civilian relationship due to better sex and fun with my little Asian persuasion.

Remember what the payment and tip are for. Payment is for service and the Tip is to be able to leave without any further commitments. Keep it business and if you ever find yourself caught up in your feelings, just go visit a new shop. Another reason to have 2-4 places in rotation.

Good luck out there

Jacuzzme · 09-23-2025, 11:01 AM

The whole point of providers is to not have to deal with the drama afterwards. Definitely a mistake getting in a relationship with one, Asian or otherwise.

Devo · 09-23-2025, 12:56 PM

You don't think with your dick.

I haven't heard a case of severe White Knight syndrome in years.

maint729 · 09-23-2025, 01:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jacuzzme

The whole point of providers is to not have to deal with the drama afterwards. Definitely a mistake getting in a relationship with one, Asian or otherwise.

Thank you J. I hope other people read this that ever have any ideas once they get the green card WOW And I actually got an arguments with my friends before I got married. Thanks Devo

Devo · 09-24-2025, 09:06 PM

I had a family member fall into the same situation with an Asian Twink.

Him in his fifties, doing well, booze and bad decisions, dumped his long term partner, a great guy, for a younger twinkish Asian.

Think straight male buys an a 18 year old Asian wife scheme.

Terrible, he should have known better.

Part of the reason was, he never ACCEPTED, that we ACCEPTED to support him, rather than talk to family, he still wanted no input on his choices.

Just very sad.