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View Poll Results: If you get to the providers door and she is not what you expect ...do you
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stay anyway
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give her $50 and leave
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reduce your session to 20 min.
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other
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04-15-2011, 11:12 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jan 11, 2010
Location: san antonio
Posts: 5,210
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Lets flip the question
If you get to a providers door and she is not what you expect....do you
a.stay anyway
b.give her $50 and leave
c. reduce your session to 20 min,
d,other
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04-16-2011, 11:40 AM
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User ID: 19359
Join Date: Mar 21, 2010
Location: Las Vegas
Posts: 222
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If I was a guy I would just leave I wouldnt need the headache.
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04-16-2011, 11:53 AM
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#3
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Sep 23, 2010
Location: Dallas
Posts: 10,348
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I think it is crucial to further elaborate on " she is not what you expect" as that determines the plan of action. Also, what was the basis of your expectations? If there is a slight deviation from her "advertised appearance" I would probably stay which has happened. A huge deviation or she or her place was a total "disaster" and I would either leave or turn it into a super quickie at a reduced donation although I have never been in that situation yet.
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04-16-2011, 12:48 PM
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#4
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Valued Poster
Join Date: May 22, 2010
Location: On the planet I think.
Posts: 8,728
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I will stay as long as she has not used fake photos. If she is using fake stuff the session will probably be less than expected anyway so I just leave. I have no qualms about it when they lie upfront
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04-16-2011, 02:50 PM
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Ambassador
Join Date: Jan 1, 2010
Location: La Costa Rica
Posts: 8,511
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My answer was "other".
My hobby money is very important to me... so I do the necessary research to assure few chances for "surprise"...
That means:
1. No BP, sipsap, e.com or CL.
2. Previously reviewed on eccie by known member(s).
3. Active on the board to get opinion of proivder's personality and attitude.
4. No drama. Ever.
JMO.
Huck
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04-16-2011, 03:20 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Oct 6, 2009
Location: Balls Deep
Posts: 3,482
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if she is that bad...im leaving...definitely half the excitement is the other side of the mirror. if it is not pleasing to my eye....false advertisement...them im gone. i am of no obligation to stick around and pay. now if she is decent....but maybe a lil bigger or older...im staying to see how it turns out.
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04-16-2011, 03:23 PM
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#7
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Jul 16, 2010
Location: Dallas
Posts: 485
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My hobby funds are for honest providers. Those that use fake pics and upsell from the minute you walk in the door are what ruins this for all of us. I see no obligation on my part to pay her anything if I don't use her service and just turn around and leave.
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04-16-2011, 03:28 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Dec 1, 2010
Location: Leavenworth
Posts: 431
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When the door opens and she is not as advertised I walk away. No use in spending good hobby money on something you didn't expect. Besides, it may be a set up.
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04-16-2011, 03:30 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Dec 12, 2009
Location: near Lake Ontario
Posts: 47,615
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walk
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04-16-2011, 04:40 PM
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#10
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Dec 31, 2009
Location: In hopes of having a good time
Posts: 6,942
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Quote:
Originally Posted by urhuckleberry
My answer was "other".
My hobby money is very important to me... so I do the necessary research to assure few chances for "surprise"...
That means:
1. No BP, sipsap, e.com or CL.
2. Previously reviewed on eccie by known member(s).
3. Active on the board to get opinion of proivder's personality and attitude.
4. No drama. Ever.
JMO.
Huck
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This is a most impressive list and each provider should commit it to memory and follow it explicitly.
I will say that I'm disappointed at how few providers are active on the board. It is hard to judge the personality and attitude without it.
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Originally Posted by elgato111
My hobby funds are for honest providers. Those that use fake pics and upsell from the minute you walk in the door are what ruins this for all of us. I see no obligation on my part to pay her anything if I don't use her service and just turn around and leave.
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I agree with this theory, although, I must say, since I do outcalls only, I personally find it much harder to slam a door in the face than turn and leave. So, I would say it's easier to do this at an incall than outcall.
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04-16-2011, 06:26 PM
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Join Date: Jan 11, 2010
Location: san antonio
Posts: 5,210
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huck .. you left a couple steps out
recent photos.face ..very few have face shots,weight.baby fat,
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04-16-2011, 07:41 PM
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Join Date: Apr 5, 2009
Location: Eatin' Peaches
Posts: 2,645
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Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
I agree with this theory, although, I must say, since I do outcalls only, I personally find it much harder to slam a door in the face than turn and leave. So, I would say it's easier to do this at an incall than outcall.
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The way around this and still having the option of "walking away" is to do the same thing she does: tell her what hotel you are at but not give her the room #, say call me when you are parking and I'll meet you and walk you up. If you live in a highrise same thing. Tell her this way she avoids the doorman/security/concierge/etc.
As I said in the other thread if she is as advertised go with it. If not feel free to leave. What I will add is what someone else mentioned: if you are going to her and her place is just a total wreck, you are allergic to something there (cats, mold, her plants) or there are just "shady" folks lingering around you should excuse yourself without feeling bad about it. Particularly when she bills her incall as "discreet, classy, upscale" or similar verbage.
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04-16-2011, 08:22 PM
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Join Date: Nov 20, 2010
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If I were a hobbyist....
I'd leave/ask her to leave. Give her $50? Hell no!
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04-16-2011, 08:41 PM
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Valued Poster
Join Date: Apr 5, 2009
Location: Eatin' Peaches
Posts: 2,645
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Originally Posted by Naomi4u
If I were a hobbyist....
I'd leave/ask her to leave. Give her $50? Hell no!
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Even though I've done it either out of pity or (my) stupidity...no reason to do so...
If I make a sales call and the potential client declines I don't send him a bill for my airfare...
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04-16-2011, 09:02 PM
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Join Date: Nov 12, 2010
Location: Connecticut
Posts: 13,627
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Right answer!!
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Originally Posted by urhuckleberry
... so I do the necessary research to assure few chances for "surprise"...
That means:
1. No BP, sipsap, e.com or CL.
2. Previously reviewed on eccie by known member(s).
3. Active on the board to get opinion of proivder's personality and attitude.
4. No drama. Ever.
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No surprises!! No last minute or spontaneous appointments....Each of my experiences are well thought out decisions, planned and thoroughly "screened" for personality, attitude and compatibility. I have never put myself in the OP's position, nor do I ever expect to be there.
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