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Eccie Addict · 11-09-2010, 05:45 AM

I've been wondering how you providers would react if a client asked you how to be good at ( blank ) whatever it may be? It could be anything sex related and as long as it was something within your boundaries such as DATY. Would you do it?

I mean I have been told I'm good at certain things by both civie and providers alike but if I realize that a lot of hobbyists just want to be told what they want to hear. I however jet wanted to know a provider's take on this. Lord knows I am not God's gift to women and am always willing to learn.

Guys feel free to let me know what you think as I know you will anyway lol.

Tiffany Cums · 11-09-2010, 07:18 AM

I am not one to stroke your ego..I will just tell it to you straight. This is what you do good, but this is what you need work on....here's some suggestions....you might want to try this....this is how I like it.... ect.

Maggie McNeill · 11-09-2010, 07:23 AM

Oh, yeah, I've done that a number of times (in response to requests, obviously!) My most memorable example was the time a man in his mid-twenties who was still a virgin asked for my help that way; he had sent for his bride and wanted to be sure he could please her before marrying her. I thought that was very sweet on his part!

Kitten · 11-09-2010, 07:25 AM

Yes I would help with pointers . However, everyone is different and likes( blank) done a different way. The best advice i can give any male is to listen to your partner. She will show you the best way to pleasure her.

Eccie Addict · 11-09-2010, 07:49 AM

Oh yeah listening is the key and I'm a great listener as long as I can freaking hear her lol.

I understand that every woman is different in what they like but still. Just a good understanding of the basics is always good

. Like one of the things that hurt us is telling us we are good if we aren't. I am all for improving so that's why I asked how the majority of the ladies feel about it.

WarmNCordial · 11-09-2010, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Oh yeah listening is the key and I'm a great listener as long as I can freaking hear her lol.

I understand that every woman is different in what they like but still. Just a good understanding of the basics is always good

. Like one of the things that hurt us is telling us we are good if we aren't. I am all for improving so that's why I asked how the majority of the ladies feel about it.

I'm glad you asked about this as I was thinking the same thing. I was wondering if I came out and asked a provider how to do (blank) I either would feel a little foolish or she might just humor me and not give real advice/responses.

I know: how about some role playing/reality session. It's a sex-ed class and I'm the student who's done his homework and now the teacher is going to give me an exercise...

LAVixian · 11-13-2010, 03:16 PM

never hurts to ask

burkalini · 11-13-2010, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by AngelOK

Oh, yeah, I've done that a number of times (in response to requests, obviously!) My most memorable example was the time a man in his mid-twenties who was still a virgin asked for my help that way; he had sent for his bride and wanted to be sure he could please her before marrying her. I thought that was very sweet on his part!

And you went for that story

naughtynatale · 11-13-2010, 04:57 PM

Sure I would.

Guest110911 · 11-13-2010, 05:08 PM

that MAY teach you how to get 'her' off....but evey woman is different...oh so different! it sucks when you really get to know what works for one...and you just assume it would work for another...so you try and try what you were doing with the last one...only to find out...you are wasting your time.

Eccie Addict · 11-13-2010, 05:35 PM

True but there are certain things I think for all women. I think and I could be wrong but a good kisser is a good kisser. Sure there are variations but still you can be taught to be a great kisser. And basics are basics.

Guest110911 · 11-13-2010, 06:31 PM

well for the most part...i think 'most' women...enjoy the opposite of what 'most' men like.

kissing... it seems many women (from posts here) dont really care fore the DFK that is a 'must have' for many men here. Hell i dont care for it all that much. Softer is better.

DATY...im willing to bet women would say most men use to much pressure....or too fast. but again, this seems to be where many women are different. some like hard fast pressure with a finger on the Gspot...others...like slow, soft repative motion.

FS...many women seem to like to be in control...ie...CG. they can put everything where they need it for them to get off. the guy just needs to keep his hips in the right spot and keep whatever rhythm she comes up with that works for her.
others like to be pounded away in k9. one girl i was with would only cum if i was choking the shit out of her in mish...

so every women is so damn different...i usualy just ask... usually on a firs date after the first drink is ordered...i kid! i kid!...well....one time.

ladies??? i know the topic here was 'would you teach'...i know we have current threads right now about things men do in hobby that suck...like harry dirty balls...but what about a teaching thread? lets just say all the men here are not selfish pricks only wanting to get themselves off. what advise to you have to offer? what works for you?

Max Rax · 11-13-2010, 06:44 PM

A good time is what works for me and usually for the other person as well.

Maggie McNeill · 11-13-2010, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by burkalini

And you went for that story

It was totally obvious he was telling he truth; any experienced escort would've told you exactly the same thing.

We can tell a lot more than a lot of y'all seem to think we can.

naughtynatale · 11-13-2010, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by bubbaJay

well for the most part...i think 'most' women...enjoy the opposite of what 'most' men like.

kissing... it seems many women (from posts here) dont really care fore the DFK that is a 'must have' for many men here. Hell i dont care for it all that much. Softer is better.

DATY...im willing to bet women would say most men use to much pressure....or too fast. but again, this seems to be where many women are different. some like hard fast pressure with a finger on the Gspot...others...like slow, soft repative motion.

FS...many women seem to like to be in control...ie...CG. they can put everything where they need it for them to get off. the guy just needs to keep his hips in the right spot and keep whatever rhythm she comes up with that works for her.
others like to be pounded away in k9. one girl i was with would only cum if i was choking the shit out of her in mish...

so every women is so damn different...i usualy just ask... usually on a firs date after the first drink is ordered...i kid! i kid!...well....one time.

ladies??? i know the topic here was 'would you teach'...i know we have current threads right now about things men do in hobby that suck...like harry dirty balls...but what about a teaching thread? lets just say all the men here are not selfish pricks only wanting to get themselves off. what advise to you have to offer? what works for you?

Wow I am so glad I am not like the normal women

I don't think a thread is good I think it is by appt kinda thing but that is just me. But I guess you could get the basics in a thread idk.