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ElisabethWhispers · 02-07-2013, 02:44 PM

I'm pretty experienced with guys liking to dress up a bit and just enjoy the feel of lingerie.

And although I've done short term sissy training in the past and have enjoyed it, I have the opportunity (if it works out) to do some long term sissy training.

This would include teaching someone to be a good little girl, how to dress like a girl, how to act around boys and much much more.

Are there any books, or suggestions, that you can share with me?

I'm looking for provocative ideas. Anything that you wish to share would be appreciated!!!

Thanks,
Elisabeth

DallasRain · 02-07-2013, 04:27 PM

MsAthena is good at that kinda stuff!

Lhornbk · 02-07-2013, 06:16 PM

My mistress seems to be training me to be a sissy, at least somewhat (or just enjoys having control of me over a long distance and is coming up with inventive things for me to do for her.) It started out innocently, with her telling me to get some stockings to wear after I bought her some stockings and asked her if I should get anything else, either for her or myself. She then told me that I would have to wear them under my clothes the next time I came to see her. I asked if I should get panties too, and she told me yes. After telling her that I had the stockings and panties, she told me to wear the panties to bed one night, which I did, and then she told me to wear them under my clothes a couple of days later. She has also told me to shave my legs and chest and crotch. She now has me wearing panties and either stockings or pantyhose under my clothes everyday, and has also told me to paint my toenails. (she gives me all these commands over text message.) I do love the feel of both the panties and nylons. I've never really considered wearing any other women's clothes, either bras or other lingerie or dresses and so on, but I would probably do so for her, as long as there was no chance of me being exposed in public (I live in a very small town and that would be dangerous for me.) She has also had me buy a dildo and butt plug to train my ass with, because she plans to take me with a strap on. I'm not entirely sure how far she wants to take it, although I will draw the line at doing anything with men.

Anyway, despite just telling my story, I wrote this reply because I thought that might be a place for you to start, by having him wear panties and stockings and such under his regular clothes.

Guest032514-1 · 02-07-2013, 06:21 PM

Slow & precise. Especially if long term. You could do an entire session on any one of the following: nails, hair, hair removal (be creative here) etc.

How to walk one session. How to talk (think speech patterns and inflections, is she Scarlett or a Valley Girl & vocab is she 12 or 42?)another. Mannerisms expressions vocal inflections...create a whole new persona from the ground up. You are creating a whole new entity completely independent of the persona who pays you.

You have to get measurements. A ladies 14 may be close but not quite. It is very involved. Start with low heels lower priced "dancer type" costumes (easy on/easy off) then get more ..height buttons etc. Always assign homework (very important keep in control/in his head when you're not there)

its great fun.

loverman · 02-07-2013, 10:04 PM

Wow! Babee you really know your stuff. they way your talking it's turning me on ,and I don't even do sissy role play. lol.I just love a intelligent beautiful woman .

GypsyHeart · 02-11-2013, 03:15 AM

EW, visit some of the cross dressing forum sites. I am sure you are already on fetlife. My sissy loves to dress up. I have even had him do voice chat, talking like a chick would.

7071949597 · 02-11-2013, 12:33 PM

Elisabeth, would finding some TG, CD, and sissy-friendly stores to scope out ahead of time for a potential field trip be out of the question? At one time, there was a local service that advertised in assisting budding TG and CDers with makeup, clothing, and the like, including field trips to stores and boutiques that were friendly.

Seems like that service could be of use?

Krunkman · 02-11-2013, 08:50 PM

It's hard to give good advice here because every sissy is going to be different. Makeup may work well, or it could have the entirely opposite effect you are looking for. And that's just one aspect of femininity that just might be applied.

You might think about having him purchase a few girly things to wear on his own (if he can). Sleeping in a nightgown, or babydoll, wearing stockings and garters to work one day, or panties every day for a week could be fun for both of you. Especially if you are able to participate in it with him, like texting him and asking what he's wearing.

Check out Fictionmania.org. It's a very long-running website for tv/tg fiction written by the members. Some of the stories are ok, and others are quite good. Something that may help YOU out is to ask your prospective partner to go there and find stories that THEY like, and then send the links to you so you can see what it is that excites them. That way there isn't any pressure on either of you to discuss it upfront. And it allows both of you some leisure to explore this without your inhibitions getting possibly in the way.

mikkifine · 02-11-2013, 09:26 PM

I get requests for sissy training while at my webcam job. It is better when it is cam to cam that way I can see what they are wearing and direct them how to walk, sit, dress, put make up on etc.

Lhornbk · 02-11-2013, 10:09 PM

I already wrote this, but I wanted to emphasize what Krunkman said. Being commanded to wear panties and pantyhose or stockings under my regular clothes by my mistress is alot of fun for both of us. She especially liked it when I wore them to a basketball game the other night, which meant I had to use a public bathroom, placing me in a situation where there was a slight chance that someone would notice (using a stall instead of a urinal kept that chance very small.)

MsKriss4Play · 02-12-2013, 08:50 PM

Have them wear a skirt while driving down the highway and raising their skirt as a good flirt would for the truckdrivers ; )
This always lifts their spirit and gets them well into the mood before they arrive.

This video is great for changing the voice.. It's called talking in a more Feminine voice and the T-girl on here is sweet and cute!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKNGw...5NVInv5F8edOnZ

Start with smaller heels and sexy underthings.. You can pluck eye brows in such a way that it won't be noticed too much. The drag queens use really paste like make-up and cover over the eye brows... so just start with the normal make-up until it comes the time to be passable.

*GoddessDallas* · 02-13-2013, 06:50 PM

You have to KNOW whom you are sealing with.
Elisabeth said "SISSY TRAINING."
TOTALLY DIFFERENT that teaching a CD person how to be female.

This is NOT "ONE SIZE FITS ALL."
These are human beings with many distinct fascets of who they are and what they are wanting.
A "sissy" is girly and prissy and likes domestic things.
A CD wants to emulate a woman.
A tv is more of a fetishist and enjoys the FEEL and texture of frilly things satin, silks, etc.

YMMV and it definitely should.
I absolutely ADORE T-gurls...and have owned 2.

MsKriss4Play · 02-14-2013, 10:52 AM

You may consider yourself TG, TS, a cross-dresser, a T-girl, a transvestite, transgendered or a sissy, but we all have one thing in common -- that we want to be girls and women.

That was taken from this blog
http://girlieboystevie.blogspot.com/...max-results=10

This blog here has many blog favorites that deal with many issues of men that want/desire to be a woman, videos and fun interactive games.
http://leeannessissymusings.blogspot...ing-guide.html

Everyone is different.. Trainers and trainees are no exception!

I hope I have helped in some way!