What Becomes Of The Children?

[jokacz]

I want to preface this rant with the disclaimer that I am no lover of kids. I have always been fond of the line attributed to W.C. Fields when asked if he liked children replied “I like children, if they are properly cooked”. The thing that has been bothering me for a long time is the number of young girls in this business with children, some with 3 or 4. I’m not talking about thirty something single moms trying to raise their kids after a broken marriage or relationship. I mean girls in their early twenties, some still in their teens. I just don’t understand the mindset that equates giving birth to another human life with getting an iphone or a piercing or another tattoo. And the impregnators are equally clueless, usually baggy pants wearing gangsta Prohibited Subject or small time pimps living off these poor ignorant girls’ pussies. What responsibility do we bear in this situation? Are we enablers? But to get back to my original question, what happens to these kids? Are we helping to create a perpetual underclass? Are we allowing it just to satisfy our sexual cravings? For the most part their mothers never had a chance. I think they will have even less of one.

[Jim Fett]

WOW. I love this. Finally someone thinking of the consequnces of our perversions. I live with it by trying to help them out of this life. I recently though I had a sucess story, but her pimp was to strong. (prohibited subject was his name.) Her daughter is almost 2.

[DDarkness]

Jo,

That is a very good question! I guess that is one of the reasons that I chose NOT to use those services!

The answer to your question ... there but for the grace of God go I ... probably!

DD

[Sensei]

I normally don't get too involved in their RL issues. If I had to screen out all the ones with some sort of social issue that may be driving them to this hobby I would need a squad of investigators to look into them all. I do my due diligence and screen out the obvious ones of course but that's as far as that goes. Not to say that I have not listened to many a story and have given them solicited advise but I try and not get too personally involved in any of that. It's the reason I hobby and not look for long term girlfriends.

[taggert]

I've often asked myself those same questions. It is sad that human life has become so devalued in so many segments of society. I do not wish to be an enabler and research as best I can. I hope my choices in ladies reflects that but you don't always know for sure.

[Lexxxy]

I personally think it is disgusting to have a gaggle of illegitimate children. To each their own, some people even have a fetish for it. Sadly, the cycle usually doesn't end if someone makes mistake after mistake and raises their children to make mistake after mistake. There is an entire generation of children being raised by grandparents and/or welfare. I think it is sad. I hope some of those children make something of themselves. You don't always follow in your parents foot steps or I would be a Doctor Lmfao. I do however enjoy dressing up like a naughty nurse

[bigkid69]

Not to be a dick but why is it my fault she decided to fuck her worthless boyfriend without a condom or any birth-control?


The business/hobby has been in place for thousands of years, would single moms be better off without a revenue stream? Maybe even more would be on the government teet.

[pyramider]

Many do not know what a condom is. Abstinence as sex education is at work here. Abstinence has been the only state approved/funded sex education for over 15 years. You get what you paid for.

[bigkid69]

Regardless of what is taught, why is it my fault if and how many kids a provider may have?

Does she wonder how many kids I have? Does she care if the money I spend on her should be going to feed my kids?

[Guest121613]

Great set of questions. I see it as one of the problem sets of the "new normal". The current new job market is bleak, and for these young woman, it turns out to be a better income than entering the job market. I once was the job interviewer for a $12 an hour job, and 4 out 5 applicants had better jobs 1o years ago, and the 4 had bachelor's degrees. I am seeing more children being raised by grandparents than ever before, more so because of the bad economy, and grandparents from a better era are supplementing child rearing, and day care.

I also see that many of these young woman, seem to enjoy the work, or at least the cash it brings, and made the conscious decision to be in this business, and know the problems associated with being a provider. I feel for the stress it must bring them, in being a mother, with poor father figure as the father, in that they are most likely doing everything they can to shield their children from it.

[jokacz]

Originally Posted by bigkid69

The business/hobby has been in place for thousands of years, would single moms be better off without a revenue stream? Maybe even more would be on the government teet.

Thanks for bringing up my second pet peeve. Nearly all of these girls are double dipping. In Canada especially there is a cottage industry of collecting welfare from the government for their bastard children while they hook or strip or both and don't report it. I know one that collects welfare on herself, additional payments for two children, and to top it all off, disability because she is crazy and a recovering addict. And she still strips once a week at Seds (if she gets her ass out of bed) and turns the occasional trick.

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[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by taggert

I've often asked myself those same questions. It is sad that human life has become so devalued in so many segments of society.

It has become devalued because society in general glorifies every vice you can think of. You ever watch some of the shit on MTV? We idolize trash like Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian. What good can come of that. Could never understand how so many women love rap music when much of it badly degrades women. We live in a politically correct culture that's more concerned with not hurting peoples feelings than actually dealing with the truth. Sadly America has become a narcissistic place. Everyone has the right to live their lives the way they see fit. Well that sounds nice but there are consequences for living recklessly. But don't talk about that because you may have to actually point to individual behavior and we can't have that. We've become an entitlement culture which allows people to screw up and Uncle Sam will bail them out. Very little emphasis on personal responsibility. Won't solve too many problems thinking that way.

[cowboy8055]

Originally Posted by pyramider

Many do not know what a condom is. Abstinence as sex education is at work here. Abstinence has been the only state approved/funded sex education for over 15 years. You get what you paid for.

I don't buy that for a second. Kids know what condoms are they just choose not to use them. Guys don't like using them so they whine to their girlfriends. Then stupid girls let their stupid boyfriends convince them not to use them. They get pregnant and the guy ditches them. Around 70% of black babies are born out of wedlock. That doesn't happen because they don't know what condoms are. I know many women that have more than one baby-daddy. I find it hard to believe they don't know what condoms are. You can teach kids all the sex ed you want and many of them will still do what they want. We live in a culture that doesn't care much about consequences so it makes little difference what you teach them.

[bigkid69]

I can't agree more with your 2 posts Cowboy, you hit the nail on the head.