Pm/email/text

[jazzguy]

Just wondering......

If a pm/email/text requesting an appointment or confirming an appointment or just chatting to have a great experience at an appointment is ignored for a couple of days...should one just move on to the next provider?

What about if ignored over the weekend, set up plan b, but then original provide gets in touch? What is the right thing to do?

It would be nice if everyone had great tcb skills but they don't.

At what point do you consider original appointment null and void and move on to the next?

I guess I'm one of those clients that's good to go unless something better comes along...lol

I look forward to your response or pm.

[gearslut]

Originally Posted by jazzguy

It would be nice if everyone had great tcb skills but they don't.

I think you just answered your own question. Whatever you feel is a reasonable amount of time to respond then draw your own line. The first rule of fight club is have a plan B. There will be more time later. Sometimes schedules don't match up and sometimes see your original post.

[Sarunga]

jazzguy [Friday, 10 AM]: Hey Babe, would like to see you this coming Monday at 3 PM for one hour. Let me know, if possible.

Babe [Friday, 12 noon]: Sure jazzguy, just send me a text Monday morning to confirm.

jazzguy [Friday, 12:01 PM]: Thanks Babe; will do.

jazzguy [Saturday, 4 PM]: Hey Babe, please wear those black fishnet stockings, ok?

..........No response from Babe..........

jazzguy [Sunday, 10 AM]: Hey, we are still on for tomorrow, right?

..........No response from Babe...........at 10 PM, jazzguy sets up plan B.

Babe [Sunday, 11:15 PM]: Sure.

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Are we talking about the above scenario?

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by jazzguy

Just wondering......

If a pm/email/text requesting an appointment or confirming an appointment or just chatting to have a great experience at an appointment is ignored for a couple of days...should one just move on to the next provider?

What about if ignored over the weekend, set up plan b, but then original provide gets in touch? What is the right thing to do?

It would be nice if everyone had great tcb skills but they don't.

At what point do you consider original appointment null and void and move on to the next?

I guess I'm one of those clients that's good to go unless something better comes along...lol

I look forward to your response or pm.

We do have a life just like you some of us have a real job and attend school... ijs I hate when guys.. pm text call and email we see the message grrr dont be annoying...

[Eccie Addict]

How long to wait is a personal choice so I have nothing to offer but if you set up a plan b and are good to go I think it'd be pretty shitty to cancel on them.

[jazzguy]

Originally Posted by Sarunga

jazzguy [Friday, 10 AM]: Hey Babe, would like to see you this coming Monday at 3 PM for one hour. Let me know, if possible.

Babe [Friday, 12 noon]: Sure jazzguy, just send me a text Monday morning to confirm.

jazzguy [Friday, 12:01 PM]: Thanks Babe; will do.

jazzguy [Saturday, 4 PM]: Hey Babe, please wear those black fishnet stockings, ok?

..........No response from Babe..........

jazzguy [Sunday, 10 AM]: Hey, we are still on for tomorrow, right?
..........No response from Babe...........at 10 PM, jazzguy sets up plan B.

Babe [Sunday, 11:15 PM]: Sure.

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Are we talking about the above scenario?

Close but without the initial confirmation.

Thursday.....hey babe, do you have some time to meet next Tuesday or Wednesday?

Friday....nothing
Saturday nothing .....
I set up plan b

Sunday....hey...I would love to see you on Tuesday.
Me.....sorry, I set up something else.
Babe is now pissed....WTf?

[pyramider]

Oh so providers cannot take a weekend off?

[Dorian Gray]

[Guest021217]

Originally Posted by jazzguy

Close but without the initial confirmation.

Thursday.....hey babe, do you have some time to meet next Tuesday or Wednesday?

Friday....nothing
Saturday nothing .....
I set up plan b

Sunday....hey...I would love to see you on Tuesday.
Me.....sorry, I set up something else.
Babe is now pissed....WTf?

We have a personal life we dont work 24/7 yall need to realize we have a life just like you... You moved on to quick come on dude your making an appt for the next week & you already booked another appointment the same week.. fucktard

[RoxyG]

I've had a few get butt hurt over me not responding to text messages, but like most hobbyist, I don't keep my phone on 24-7. There's been times where I might not even see it for a week. The only time it gets pulled out of it's hiding spot and powered on is if I'm expecting a call or text from someone around a certain time. Any small talk must be done by PM or email unless we set up a time for phone talk or text. It's always been easier that way for me and also cuts down on text and calls from creeps.

[Dorian Gray]

I've been telling y'all for years that Walmart needs to stock hookers
:sarcasm:

[tbone77494]

Scheduling for me is always tough - job throws a lot of last minute changes my way so I seldom schedule days in advance. I usually do same day if possible and I just realize it's gonna be hit and miss as my favorite hookers aren't sitting in a PI awaiting my call. That's why I like agencies for plan b. You can pretty regularly be balls deep in a hot little Latina within an hour of picking up the phone. May not be my first choice of lady but I almost always get great service for a good price and there is no scheduling drama.

[Lauren Mayfair]

Originally Posted by jazzguy

At what point do you consider original appointment null and void and move on to the next?

Originally Posted by jazzguy

Close but without the initial confirmation.

Thursday.....hey babe, do you have some time to meet next Tuesday or Wednesday?

Friday....nothing
Saturday nothing .....
I set up plan b

Sunday....hey...I would love to see you on Tuesday.
Me.....sorry, I set up something else.
Babe is now pissed....WTf?

In the scenario you're describing here, there's nothing for you to consider null and void. You don't actually have an appointment.

There's also nothing for her to be pissed about. Don't sweat it.

[Short bus driver]

Originally Posted by Lauren Mayfair

In the scenario you're describing here, there's nothing for you to consider null and void. You don't actually have an appointment.

There's also nothing for her to be pissed about. Don't sweat it.

I agree with the above. An appointment becomes an appointment once it's acknowledged and agreed by both people. Until then, there is nothing to cancel.

If asked, I wouldn't mention appointment with another provider just that I had other plans.

[Brooke Wilde]

Originally Posted by jazzguy

Close but without the initial confirmation.

Thursday.....hey babe, do you have some time to meet next Tuesday or Wednesday?

Friday....nothing
Saturday nothing .....
I set up plan b

Sunday....hey...I would love to see you on Tuesday.
Me.....sorry, I set up something else.
Babe is now pissed....WTf?

You're being too kind (and kind of overthinking this). There have been plenty of times when a gent contacts me and another lady or 2 and I'm not able to reply fast enough so he books with one of the other ladies.

It's really not a big deal at all and any provider that gets pissed because you booked with someone else because it took her 3 days to respond, sounds like a pretentious bitch.