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twobullhunglow · 11-09-2014, 12:01 AM

I have seen a provider several times now and I know that gifts are not required but I have brought a gift each time along with the donation.

Here are my reason why and these are what I would like comments on.

1. I believe that women, not matter their profession should be treated like ladies and a gift is the way I would treat any lady that I would see.

2. The provider is going out of her way to accommodate my hectic schedule which I believe should be shown gratitude.

If I continue to do what I believe is only right, do I come off as clingy or weird in some sort of way that could jeopardize the activities that I so enjoy?

Thanks

splitlog · 11-09-2014, 08:32 AM

Keep doing it! I have a regular as well. We have become friends outside the hobby. We know our boundaries and respect them. I get her gifts as well. Last year she was snowed in and a went and picked her up some groceries to get through. She never asked. I offered. Makes me feel good so who cares. Keep it up as long as she doesn't try to take advantage of your kindness.

Ginger Doll · 11-09-2014, 09:18 AM

I think most ladies really appreciate gifts! It's a very sweet gesture.

As long as you don't show up unexpectedly on Thanksgiving with a turkey, you should be okay.

DallasRain · 11-09-2014, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I think most ladies really appreciate gifts! It's a very sweet gesture.

As long as you don't show up unexpectedly on Thanksgiving with a turkey, you should be okay.

ditto

Ginger Doll · 11-09-2014, 10:43 AM

But if you give us the turkey before Thanksgiving, then we won't have to cook one. Don't forget the pumpkin pie. I'm just saying. LOL

DallasRain · 11-09-2014, 10:53 AM

lol silly sexy girl!

I hate turkey--I eat ham on thanksgiving! LOL
And bring some southern bourbon laced pecan pie too!!

Ginger Doll · 11-09-2014, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

lol silly sexy girl!

I hate turkey--I eat ham on thanksgiving! LOL
And bring some southern bourbon laced pecan pie too!!

Dallas, if you and I get together & combine our gifts, we can be lazy & full.

Sometimes, I amaze myself with my brilliance.

DallasRain · 11-09-2014, 11:13 AM

lol a sexy brilliant redhead nympho from Arkansas and a slutty, feisty & sassy redneck from texas.....wooohoooo what a combo of fire!!

watchoutthegameisrigged · 11-09-2014, 11:44 AM

I'm kinda thinking that when guys envision you two together, the last thing on their minds is turkey. Or ham. A little bourbon? Yeah, I can see that.

arkansas_hobbyist · 11-09-2014, 02:44 PM

I understand where you are coming from and don't see anything wrong with it at all. She appreciates your kindness and I am sure that it is returned in spades..

arkansas_hobbyist · 11-09-2014, 05:31 PM

And to watchoutthegamisrigged point.... Even though I have not met either of these two ladies I'm sure anybody that came over on Thanksgiving would have their mind on thighs and breasts... the turkey be dammed.

twobullhunglow · 11-09-2014, 06:45 PM

Thank you for the input, I feel more comfortable now and will continue on doing what I feel is right.

DallasRain · 11-09-2014, 07:22 PM

yall are so sweet...I hope to do some doubles with sexy Ginger when I get that way!!

Sidinman78 · 11-09-2014, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

yall are so sweet...I hope to do some doubles with sexy Ginger when I get that way!!

Oh damn! Why haven't I thought of a double...

willro · 11-10-2014, 09:53 PM

If a provider is your special regular or a close "hobby friend" I think gifts can be a nice touch. For most hobby experiences, I would say the agreed upon donation is plenty. They're not your girlfriend. As for your point about 'treating her like a lady," this should always happen, and it can happen with or without bringing a present. I'm sure they like to receive gifts, but I don't think any hobbyist should view it as necessary.