The I don't look anything like the picture fee

[pooh520]

So although I have been lurking the boards for sometime, I finally decided to post something out there that I am looking for feedback on. Today, against my better judgement, I made an appointment with someone from BP. I specifically asked if the picture was accurate, and she responded with a resounding "yes baby, guaranteed." Well after a 25 minute drive, and 3 phone calls, I arrived at the location. Upon entering, the first words out of her mouth were "well, what do you think?," and I responded with " You look nothing like the picture.... at all." So after a brief pause she asks "well, may have $20 for a fee for getting ready?," I almost laughed, and then responded " I almost think you should give me a fee for driving out here and not looking anything like the person in the pic." As I began to walk out, she asked if I wanted to take a peek, and I politely responded "no, thank you."

Now, I am relatively inexperienced at this, but is it common to pay a fee to someone who completely misrepresented themselves in the phothograph? I mean inaccurate hieght, hair length, skin color, all together not even close!

Am I just insensitive or when you are paying $200 per hour, should you at least get what you thought you would?

[pantherpawz1]

I don't know why, but anytime a provider calls me "baby" over the phone I am instantly turned off, and end the conversation right there. I guess when you talk like that, to me you sound like a con artist

[Dr J]

Hey Pooh... you did the right thing!
BTW - What was the bp link so we can avoid her?

[BrookeButtons]

Never ever ever give a girl $ when you don't feel you should!!! And a great provider won't ask for money if your unhappy with us. I would never make a gent give me some money after luring him over to my place with a fake picture. But then again, none of my pictures are fake haha. Cough this up as a learning lesson! I am not all that educated with BP and here, but many men will post BP ads and ask if the gent's have seen the lady in question. Get a feel if its legit or not. I believe most of them are in the requests and ISO's section.

Don't feel like you were insensitive. You made the right call by just leaving w/o leaving any money.

[jimny]

Brooke hit it on the head....

There is a danger and that is if she's not alone or carrying.

Originally Posted by BrookeButtons

Never ever ever give a girl $ when you don't feel you should!!! And a great provider won't ask for money if your unhappy with us. I would never make a gent give me some money after luring him over to my place with a fake picture. But then again, none of my pictures are fake haha. Cough this up as a learning lesson! I am not all that educated with BP and here, but many men will post BP ads and ask if the gent's have seen the lady in question. Get a feel if its legit or not. I believe most of them are in the requests and ISO's section.

Don't feel like you were insensitive. You made the right call by just leaving w/o leaving any money.

[Maximum4]

It's a tough call for me. I would have probably given her a cancellation fee and said you are not what I was hoping for before she even said anything and then ran! In my eyes, the provider is just trying to make a buck, I can live without a $20. It's my hope that it goes to feed them (or their kid) and not to any kind of bad dependency. Call me naive, I don't care.... In any case, I tend to trust e.com pics more than other sources (BP, etc), but even there I've been duped once.

[TommyD]

Can we have a sliding scale discount for every activity she lists in her ad that she doesn't really provide?

Those BP girls will promise you anything on the phone. That "yes baby" comments just rings so true.

[retone]

almost as intriguing , is the line..."if it's not me, then it's free".

now tell me, has anyone had a provider tell them..."oops, you caught me. that's not me in the picture. i guess this session is on me"?

[m2244]

okay I will tell you when i was with vixens I had this happen once because it was a lonng time ago and well for those of you who knew me know I sort of went from akward still really young slighty chubby girl to ....well model .............and the guy opened the door and said oh wow your a bit bigger then i thought i thought you were just a little chunky......and i like sunk......it was horrible i said okay well jane is in the car and i called "vixen guy" and he said it was his mistake and felt really bad because i actually was balling.....it hurt my feelings, but in your case if the pictures really weren't her that's really messed up and i would never make someone donate for that , I dont know why anyone would ever use false pics anyway i mean they are going to know when they see you DUH LOL...................but all im saying is this is a sticky thing it can go either way....the gent did see jane and then months later wanted to see me really bad after my "transformation" LOL but felt really akward trying and I didnt care at all told him " no harm taken"

[m2244]

sorry if that didn't make sense im trying to type quickly here guys

[Guest091813]

ummmm... ( thought I do a lil twist on ya)... what if the girl that answers the door is hotter than the lady in the pics??

[offshoredrilling]

And why would you be opening the door of another provider?

[cnym]

Originally Posted by anita germane

ummmm... ( thought I do a lil twist on ya)... what if the girl that answers the door is hotter than the lady in the pics??

OMG, when was the last time that ever happened !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Guest060614]

Originally Posted by cnym

OMG, when was the last time that ever happened !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Linda in Cortland is a good example of that.

[cnym]

Originally Posted by armortib

Linda in Cortland is a good example of that.

Agreed, she is much better looking than her pictures.