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Bibi Joy · 03-08-2011, 12:16 PM

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LikiNikki - you have some very valid points, let me explain: If I can't see someone I will let them know I'm not available - but certain gentleman over the phone argue back and continue to beg over and over - my patience runs thin and I'm not well at dealing with those situations. I should just continue to say no and put my foot down but I find from time to time I say yes when I really mean no and by the time there already close all I want to do is go home ... I'm young and find my mood changes quickly, I get bored easily . I admit it isn't right and will try to cut this habit out. Thanks for your words <3
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I had someone (NOT GONNA SAY WHO YOUR GUESS) argue with me that this is not an apology.

Tall_Cat81 · 03-08-2011, 12:33 PM

In all due honesty, sounds like the person heart is somewhere else. If you read the entire statement, I get the hint that they wish for something else. Being a provider requires a lot of hard work especially when dealing with clients and unwanted individuals. This world is full of opportunities and to me that person isn't ready to be a provider. They need to be doing something else that makes them happy.

Guest032213-02 · 03-08-2011, 12:44 PM

I know nothing of the situation. That being said, it just seems like an explanation of a reaction. Then the motivations behind the reactions. With a "I'm sorry I am that way," at the end. Not an apology for what was done, but an apology for her motivations, not her actions.

JSmith2010 · 03-08-2011, 12:49 PM

Nope.

Bibi Joy · 03-08-2011, 12:52 PM

Tall Cat81 honey ALL providers in here are providing for one good reason or another. I seriously doubt any of them are doing it because it makes them happy. Happiness is a huge word that a majority of people never experience in there life.

It takes years to get to a point as a provider to accept who she is and what she has to do to simply survive. She made a mistake and she apologized in her own way. What more does she need to do in order to satisfy the hobbiest that simply wont let it go?

Theres only a few good providers that exist now. I dont think the hobbiest around here would agree that she should simply stop providing all together. I as a provider dont agree simply because none of us providers can possibly see all of you hobbiest. And Im not 20 years old either and shit alot of the hobbiest that only like gals that age will be even more aggravated.

Budman · 03-08-2011, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Bibi Joy

I had someone (NOT GONNA SAY WHO YOUR GUESS) argue with me that this is not an apology.

Is this a apology or not please give me your opinion?

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Originally Posted by Bibi Joy

Tall Cat81 honey ALL providers in here are providing for one good reason or another. I seriously doubt any of them are doing it because it makes them happy. Happiness is a huge word that a majority of people never experience in there life.

It takes years to get to a point as a provider to accept who she is and what she has to do to simply survive. She made a mistake and she apologized in her own way. What more does she need to do in order to satisfy the hobbiest that simply wont let it go?

Theres only a few good providers that exist now. I dont think the hobbiest around here would agree that she should simply stop providing all together. I as a provider dont agree simply because none of us providers can possibly see all of you hobbiest. And Im not 20 years old either and shit alot of the hobbiest that only like gals that age will be even more aggravated.

I dunno this was just a YES or NO question anyway>>>

You ask for opinions.

JSmith2010 · 03-08-2011, 01:10 PM

I get that some girls want to defend her, because you know much better than we do how difficult it can be to do what you do, but at the same time I think it's a slippery slope to defend this girl because some people might think that you think her actions are okay.

I'm not saying anyone here thinks her actions are okay, but things can be misconstrued that way.

I'm also not sure this girls actions deserve anyone's defense either.

Bibi Joy · 03-08-2011, 01:10 PM

Yup I edited it my bad for even asking>>>

Opinions are like assholes everyone has one>>>>

I already said and I will say again I DO NOT CONDONE her actions. I totally get that its fucked up to do such a thing. I personally would never do it because perhaps I have empathy for others. Some dont have that quality on a majority of subjects.

Im defending the fact that she did wrong and now a few hobbiest have ganged up on her to go away? Even after she aknowledged her wrong doing in her 20 year old way. None of us around here are perfect and we all make mistakes. Wouldnt it be fucked up if one of your mistakes was placed in three threads with pages and pages talking about it>>???

MsPrittiKitti · 03-08-2011, 01:32 PM

nooooo bibi! i like u!
lol dont get suckered into the sillyness

JSmith2010 · 03-08-2011, 01:40 PM

I don't think anyone wants her to go away, but I'm also not sure how much she acknowledged her wrong doing. I mean she basically said she was playing hard to get because that's what guys like, when in reality she was leaving guys stranded in parking lots waiting for her after having driven for an hour.

Master Vader · 03-08-2011, 01:45 PM

Doesn't sound like an apology but more like an explanation.

Bibi Joy · 03-08-2011, 02:09 PM

LOL awww I like you too! Naw I love all the free entertainment! Im a sucker for free shit!

That happened to one hobbiest that lived an hour away thats rare most hobbiest are here in town living or visiting. Who knows how many she did this to but what I am saying is she realized that it was wrong that should be enough. Actually one hobbiest even said she called him and apologozied and offered a discount.

Look I have never met her all I can say she must really fucken hot and overwhelmed with to many hobbiest requesting to see her. Im sure from now on she will at least think twice on doing such a thing.

Take care,

Bibi

JSmith2010 · 03-08-2011, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Bibi Joy

That happened to one hobbiest that lived an hour away thats rare most hobbiest are here in town living or visiting.

I just don't see how or why you want to excuse it away.

It doesn't matter if he lived one hour or one minute away. Everyone's time here is valuable, and we should all treat each other that way. Just like providers need time to get ready, so do we. We have to shower, shave, get dressed, get our donation together, any other supplies we may need, and in some cases even a gift. Also in some cases that one day that we set aside might be the only day we get for weeks, so to be left hanging, and in such a way it just not cool One hour away or one minute.

SAKnight1982 · 03-08-2011, 02:46 PM

There's a new thread about the said provider just about damn near every day. Nope, I did not see the last one as an apology. It was more of an explanation to let everyone know it is what it is and this is why. Just pure honesty but I respect that. It should have been left at that... but Bibi i do agree with you that everyone has an opinion and of course, everyone wanted to put in their 2 cents. I have yet to see her but every time I read more about her it makes me want to see her even more. Do I want her to go away? Hell no. But these threads are starting to get ridiculous. My universal solution: We need less talking and more f***ing. But that's just me.

Bibi Joy · 03-08-2011, 03:14 PM

Hell yes SAknight I totally agree>>>>YUMMY

LMAO honey theres no way to shoo or excuse this topic away like a fly theres three threads about it. One review thats not a review. One apology remark or whatever you wrap your head around it and you think it is. Hell theres more talk about this one situation than any of the losers that SCAM. Wether its an apology an explanation or a remark. It definately is what it is now.

Silly isnt it now I gotta get back to what I do best mmmmm>>