Regulars and Rates...

[Ms Francisca]

Regulars and Rates...

Many ladies offer special/discounted rates for regulars. I admit I offer a very small discounted rate, if at all.

Now, if you are my regular.....
You have priority. It is rare that I am not available for you whenever you desire.
I often extend the time of my dates, allow 30min for chit chat, catching up, having chorizo tacos ....
I will offer variety bcd, make sure you never get bored with me.
I will communicate with you from time to time when I am not available; because I do think about you, not just your wallet.
Many times, I have met you for just coffee, or lunch, or a drink..... Having a friendship (with set boundaries of course) makes bcd time soooo much more comfortable and enjoyable for us both. If I am happy, you are happy.
Several gentlemen have joined me for Flamenco night

I am wondering from the hobbyists and the providers, what do you feel is a fair trade for regular visits or "having a special connection" with someone?

What do you offer/pay regulars??

Besos,
Francisca

[Dr Grey]

I personally would just like a great connection with a lady whose company I enjoy (while also find them attractive) and a regular rate of $$.50 for the hour if wanting to see that lady once or twice a month. Fits the budget and makes it better if I have a connection. Any extra time to talk, drink or whatever is a bonus but not required. Sometimes it happens. If a dinner date is involved, a fair rate could be discussed. But that's typically what I look for if I'm to consider seeing someone regularly.

Typically why I stick to ladies with posted hours at that price range. I'm fairly timid seeing ladies who are posted higher, even when grandfathered sometimes. While I'd love to visit, even just once, I'd hate to want to see them regularly as I know my limitations on my budget get as explained in a recent "price" thread, so I stick with what works for me. Currently looking for new regular visitors myself. Getting tough out there, but may have one or two.

Any specials or discounts are completely up to the lady, but wouldn't ask for them. They are nice when they happen, but are not required. I also ask what is fair if I have seen someone more than a few times if planning a longer than hour visit. Especially for nights out or drinks. Haven't been out in a while though.

I've had the pleasure of flamenco night with you, and had a blast with another special friend of ours. One of the best nights ever. Ole!!

[handyGiraffe]

The best plan is to post your rates. Everyone knows what the minimum expectation is on your part and then can add whatever they want to that to their own level of comfort. If you want to make private arrangements with someone that is your business and simply ask that they not disclose it.

Cheers
HG

[mitch p]

I think providers that offer discounts for regulars makes good business sense. That's guaranteed income and helps out the hobbyist wallet. It seems like a win win situation. However a regular should be defined as someone who visits frequently. Maybe twice a month.