***The Honor Code****

[Kelly512]

Hello fine friends,

"How to eliminate online negativity in the hobby world."

(A topic worth discussing in my opinion.)

I have been thinking about this for a while. I know every single lady on this site has the right to decide how she chooses to run her business, and with whom. However, sometimes we may encounter a few rascals that tend to forget that. Instead of acting like the mature men they prefer to pretend to be, and writing a personal PM about it to the woman in question, they head straight to the forums to personally shame her like a bitchy high school chick with a yelp account, and a vendetta against small coffee shops lol.

I guess I'm just from a different era, mentally. I didn't join this site to have more problems. I came here looking for men who wanted to eliminate mine the way Clark Gable tried to eliminate Scarlett's in Gone With The Wind. He tried, but she was just too damn stubborn to appreciate him. I learned from my own personal "Ex"-perience that not appreciating a man will send him to our world FAST and FLYING! ha! So I figured if you can't beat em, join em, and dominate the game...

Which is exactly what I plan to do. I apologize if you have heard things about me, that seem in question, or if you're just curious to know my personal truth about it? Please feel free to be an adult and just shoot me a message. I'm old school, Hell I'll even call ya I just want the way I operate my new hobby life to be one that reflects only positivity, and happiness.

So I came up with a plan...
This is what I am personally going to do.
Any ideas or suggestions are welcomed.
As it will only improve what we all want from this?

I'm going to do a reward system I call "The honor Code."
It's for all the wonderful men I have seen, and would like to have the pleasure of starting over with or meeting for the first time. I will have cards that have rewards and personalized experiences for those who deserve the love of a loyal friend like myself. There will be a new rate structure in play. I will not post it, please just contact me directly. I will send it ASAP.

(Sexykellyk512@yahoo.com)

I will also be delighted to write my own "Lady's Review" which I will send an email directly to the client he may use to describe in my own words what a wonderful experience I had, and to skip past certain annoying miscommunications we all know have frustrated us into not meeting up because of online issues. This will speed up the screening process and allow us women to brag about the boys we like best!

Men will feel appreciated for having such a great reference they will begin to have even better things to say in the reviews. I know I could certainly use help with this issue. I hate just getting on here to complain. I want to celebrate the awesome things that have come to my life because of this site. I hope this post encourages the same. I also hate to brag, but I'm pretty damn good looking too! I hear that's kinda important to y'all so, I figured I'd at least mention it.

So there you have it. I hope this post encourages other women to feel as enlightened as I do this beautiful afternoon. <3

To remember to reward our best, and forget our worst. We just don't have time for the trolls. I understand all of America has taken to social media recently more than ever. I just wish we would all keep in mind our world isn't supposed to have that in it? This is a private place that has become a bit toxic. I think we are all better than that. I am personally going to seek to try to not only make amends instead of wars, but to treat those who do mean something to me, with much more attention than I have bothered to bestow upon the trolls who have forgotten this isn't facebook? It's Eccie?...

I feel like if we all remember that together, I think we could really benefit as a whole community to strive to speak kinder to one another, be more professional & punctual, refrain from posting hateful things, and try to seek out resolution with the person directly, (rather than going psycho online.) keep our comments light ...less dreadful, and above all try to remember why we all came here in the first place.

I know why I did...

How about you?

Love,
Kelly

I apologize for the length, but not for a single word.

[CoverMe]

[HedonisticFool]

ESCORT CLIENT COMMUNITY INFORMATION EXCHANGE

The title above is there to benefit us all. Your suggestion to handle issues one-on-one is a beautiful thing, but unfortunately, not everyone will agree. First off, most people, when it comes to a "negative" situation, can't handle face-to-face confrontation. Under those general circumstances, some may take the approach or personal contact, many others may do nothing at all, and the majority will complain to everyone else that's willing to listen.

If you and anyone else on this board want to squash the negativity, step up and do the noble thing, and accept responsibility for your actions, short comings, and wrongful doings that start the alerts, negative posts and reviews. Be more considerate, consciously aware, and proactive to the needs of your clients or providers. Make a plan beforehand to compensate when a situation goes wrong. But until then, EVERYONE has the right to speak freely on this board, to express their experiences, feelings, to warn others, to decompress any built up frustration and anger, and receive the feedback, empathy and support from our community.

[tpepsi]

Originally Posted by Kelly512

[SIZE="5"]Instead of acting like the mature men they prefer to pretend to be, and writing a personal PM about it to the woman in question, they head straight to the forums to personally shame her like a bitchy high school chick with a yelp account, and a vendetta against small coffee shops lol.

Like Hedo said, posting in the public forums about questionable provider behavior is pretty much the whole point of this site.

Its for us to share information so that we can avoid the providers who are more trouble than they are worth, who provide less than expected service, who use out of date photoshopped photos, and bring a high level of drama.

The simplest way for you to eliminate online negativity directed to you is to provide a positive experience before, during, and after a session. You should really consider it, because so far your press has been less than impressive.

[CoverMe]

Originally Posted by tpepsi

The simplest way for you to eliminate online negativity directed to you is to provide a positive experience before, during, and after a session. You should really consider it, because so far your press has been less than impressive.

OP Regret in 3...2...1...

[Guest070618]

Originally Posted by CoverMe

OP Regret in 3...2...1...

Hadn't she been a problem for years? The definition of crazy is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results?
She just doesn't understand the drama she created is a recurring theme
Most hobbyists try to avoid?

[Kelly512]

Thank you for all the messages and responses to my post! I love that the power of positivity has truly effected the right people

That's why I wrote this, and I got the exact results I wanted.
To anyone with anything else negative to say. You can PM me directly, as suggested.
I know you won't. That's just not how negative people handle things. Lol?

(Obviously)

I have nothing to apologize for.

I stand behind this post, and my intentions behind it were quite noble to say the least.

The wonderful, and private responses I received are a direct result of it.

I promise to get back to all of them first thing tomorrow.

It has certainly been a day!

Good night,
Blessings <3

Kelly