Why is it that.....?

[imamonger]

Why is it that when one finds a provider that he would like to visit more than once, she suddenly quits providing, and the ones that he does not wish to see again, won't go away?

Why is it that when one does not have the time or funds, the provider that he has been waiting to see is suddenly in town for the week, and when he does have the time and funds, the providers who are always in town have no availability?

Any one else wanna ask why?

[guest033012-2]

Murphy's Law.

[ez2plz]

It's the same reason for why you sit at your desk all day and the phone never rings, and you get up for 3 minutes to go get a drink of water and your boss walks by your empty desk, leaves you a hand scribbled note to see him, and wonders why you are NEVER at your desk.

[Allie_Kat]

Probably the same reason that providers are absolutely booked solid for a week, then the next week have zero appointments because everyone wanted to see her the week she was busy. LOL.

[incognito isis]

Yeah, well thats life. I wanna know why no one wanted to love me when I needed someone in my life. Now days I'm perfectly happy with being alone and in no way need or want anyone in my life, now, everyone wants to be in my life!! I honestly think god likes to test us by giving us things when we don't need/want them, and vice versa.

[SinsOfTheFlesh]

I always laugh at what I call the Murphy's Law of providing - the instant I agree to see someone at a certain time, I will be contacted by half a dozen gents wanting to see me at the exact same time.

I've often thought that perhaps I should create a weekly calender for the gents to discuss among themselves, decide who wants to see me on which day and at what time. Then, when they've all worked it out amongst themselves, just let me know what my schedule for the week will be. LOL wouldn't that be fun

[incognito isis]

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I always laugh at what I call the Murphy's Law of providing - the instant I agree to see someone at a certain time, I will be contacted by half a dozen gents wanting to see me at the exact same time.

I've often thought that perhaps I should create a weekly calender for the gents to discuss among themselves, decide who wants to see me on which day and at what time. Then, when they've all worked it out amongst themselves, just let me know what my schedule for the week will be. LOL wouldn't that be fun

I get that too. When it rains it pours. It always all or nothing :-(

[Guest102513-1]

The joys of being in the hobby.

It's never enough, lol. But sometimes at the absolute wrong times.

Guess that's what helps make it even sweeter, when the stars all align!!!

[lakecat]

Well said vk, so true

[FireSerpent]

I think peak & troughs of providing are often quite predictable. Half the guys you know blow your phone up every other week... some do it at the top or midle of the month. And those times are often based on a pay schedule. Evntually, those pay schedules match up and your phone rings off the hook. And othertimes, it is dead quiet because the offtimes of those pay schedules have matched up.

Unfortunately for us guys, we have short attention spans when it comes to money & desires. We rarely look for a long term solution for our short term desires. If we did, we would load a prepaid card with our play money, and when our favorite provider is available on an off wee we would have the funds available.