Providers that are Newbie Friendly

[Tallguy135]

Hello i am looking for Newbie friendly providers, i haven't seen a thread on here about this subject. It's hard to know who is and who isn't, so i thought i would just ask. Thanks.

[aspenp]

It depends on being able to have some type of verification, but with this business the less risk we have to take the better. I do feel as tho since I am new I can respect the idea of clients being new and not having references but we all have to start somewhere....

[Adam0220]

We do need some type of list, so people know who we can and can't contact when we are short on references. Nothing more frustrating than browsing ads and seeing a girl you want to mee up with and not having references that they require. Nothing against those girls because they are protecting themselves, would just like to see a list of the local providers that will see new guys.

[Allie_Kat]

I think the reason there isn't a list of newbie friendly providers is the fact that they don't want to make it easier for LE to pick them off one by one.
I could be wrong though.

[simplyme]

P411 has a newbie friendly list. Or at least the ladies say who they are comfortable meeting.

[Adam0220]

At the risk of giving an idea up, how about something as simple as an "nf" in the ads of the girls would let everyone know they at least are willing to work with new guys.

[Muffrider]

Not sure if the OP is talking about the problem of newbies having no references, or just finding a provider who can make a newbie feel more comfortable?

Generally (but there definitely are exceptions), the more experienced providers will probably do a better job of making a newbie feel at ease.

As for verification, that shouldn't change. It keeps us all safe, although there are definitely providers who are a little more laxed with the verification process.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Adam0220

At the risk of giving an idea up, how about something as simple as an "nf" in the ads of the girls would let everyone know they at least are willing to work with new guys.

Gee Wizz guy,

Take a little time. If you are a new guy, go slow - slow - slow. You should be scared as hell about what you suggest. Hi officer, put a simple "nf" in your add and you will get an idiot who thinks with his small head instead of his big head come running to get the cuffs put on.

You are meeting a potential friend for the first time; TALK TO HER, meet her in a public place to let her see you are not a crazy, buy her lunch for the first meeting. If you are not happy with her pay her for her time, and walk away with no regrets. Not every lady you meet is right for you, but you can be nice to everyone.

Very few LE will take the time to meet with you first, and if the lady or the guy is rushing things on the first meeting - walk away. Nothing was promised, no money was spent, you were just trying to make a new friend.

I understand how some of these ladies are scared for a first meet: think about their situation. Take time to put the lady at ease first. If nothing goes smoothly. Just say "Sorry I just remembered I have to do something I forgot about, I have to go. Thank you, I appreciate your time" Leave, and leave a gift in an envelope, and walk away.

If you are sure it is LE, well I am not sure about that because if she doesn't want to talk first to cultivate business I haven't got that far.

What, money for nothing. Not quite, she will remember your kindness.

Besides, if things are not right; you are not going to have any fun, unless you really are a sickO!

JR

[MsElena]

Adam,

Most ladies will see a newbie if you can pass their screening. There's more than one way to screen a guy besides provider references.

I would suggest sending an email out to a few ladies who have caught your eye, explain your situation to them and ask them if they have another way of verifying you besides provider references. If they don't respond, they weren't worth your time to begin with.

Any lady who runs this as a business will at least respond to your email and/or have another way of verifying you.

[6ULDV8]

Some of us older guys can't pass the screening these days so don't despair. lol. I was traveling to Seattle last year and wanted to see this gal. She grilled me to no end. I even gave her my company website with my bio! She said men have highjacked sites and blah blah blah. Fuc.

Just keep trying buddy but above all, be smart.

MsElena's perspective is valid but be prepared to spin your wheels and waste alot of time. It's never been easy to get into a womans pants and this hobby's no different.

[Adam0220]

I will keep trying, it is just that I don't want to chance most the ads on bp cause you never know. At least on here we have verified providers so you feel a little more safe contacting them. They are also reviewed often so you know their attitude during a session and what to expect.

[astroker]

Best bet would be to just get a p411 account. For some reason most providers think that's a good bet, I got lucky and got verified with EF and that was good enough for most.

[Marie Bella]

I think you should just contact a few ladies "Talk" & Explain your NEW BABE, give her References Like "job" ect. I like the suggestion of meeting & having lunch "see how that goes"...Plus 411 is a good idea! Good Luck sweetie!!!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Adam0220

I will keep trying, it is just that I don't want to chance most the ads on bp cause you never know. At least on here we have verified providers so you feel a little more safe contacting them. They are also reviewed often so you know their attitude during a session and what to expect.

Patience: The ability to tolerate delay, or suffering, without getting angry or upset.

Have a little patience in evaluating the women you want to see. Even when you first call, it is you who neet to evaluate the person you want to spend "quality" time with. There are some great women on here that I would never see, just my personal preference. There are a couple who were on my short list to contact, and then I see a different person by their comments.

It's just like life outside of the hobby; why should one waste His time and money on a woman that he don't enjoy?

There are more women than men, you can be selective both inside and outside of the hobby.

JR

[kcbill]

Originally Posted by Princess Bella

I think you should just contact a few ladies "Talk" & Explain your NEW BABE, give her References Like "job" ect. I like the suggestion of meeting & having lunch "see how that goes"...Plus 411 is a good idea! Good Luck sweetie!!!

The more your are comfortable in revealing about yourself, the more these ladies are going to be comfortable with you.

Bill