One more question from Sindi overnights.

[sin.di.vine]

Okay so I threw this question to the ladies in the ladies room.. with no response at all..
So here it goes..

I have never entertained overnights in my hometown... but have received some interest in SA..

What are the expectations in an over nights entail..
How many hours? What time does it start? What time is departure?
Is it from 10:00 p.m. to 6:00a.m.?

What is the expected donation?
Any and all advice is taken with serious consideration.

Signed me.. Sindi..

[pickupkid]

Well That is all up to client... some will pop twice and sleep. others like to have dinner and then pop/ sleep, others party all nite. of course these are just examples.

[tpepsi]

Hi, the short answer is there is no answer. Every overnight I've done has been different hours, and different donations.

Most providers advertise very high prices for overnight, which IMO is unreasonable. Unless you find a jackrabbit young stud, your just simply not going to be sexually engaged constantly overnight. Most of the time is "downtime" or sleeping. And why would a guy pay for downtime?

Then consider the fact (at least in my case) that you are going to be fed, served drinks, and provided with party favors. The pool or hottub awaits as do other diversions.

Some providers live on the edge and a overnight in a fun clean and safe place has its appeal, so they set the overnight rate very low.
I've had overnights for less than the average hourly rate on this site.

Some providers are living just fine, and a night away from home is a bother and/or expense for them. So they want to be compensated at or very near their normal hourly rate.

In the end, its up to you and your trick to come to an agreement. Only you can decide what its worth to you, and only the trick can decide if its worth it to them.

[CoverMe]

I personally wouldn’t book an overnighter with a lady I had never met before. If you get together and there’s no spark or chemistry, it’s going to be a long and uncomfortable night. Or else it’s going to end quickly and badly. You might get lucky and the two of you hit it off and get it on, but it’s an expensive gamble.

I’ve only done one overnighter so far and it was with an ATF who I have known for several years. We tore that room and jacuzzi apart for 14 hours and crawled out of the hotel the next morning. Money very well spent.

[ck1942]

^^^
Add to what he said that, imho, any unknown male who out of the blue seeks an overnight or multi-hour session is to be avoided and indeed suspected of nefarious potential.

But, the above is not just mho, since I know of many instances where ladies were taken advantage of.

Travelers and all providers (gents, too) should always be wary of

IILTGTBTIUS

syndrome.

If it looks to good to be true, etc.!

[sin.di.vine]

Wow!! You guys are awesome with info!!
Really appreciate this!!
You all reinforced my own feelings about multi hour/ and over nights.
I guess I was thinking that it was the "fashion" to entertain these requests..

I'm not usually influenced to changing my comfort level.. and surprised that I was considering such events.. simply out of fear of not doing the "in " thing..

From this day forward.. I will only do what makes me comfortable.. and overnights do not make me comfortable..

I have also encouraged gemtlemen that I have not yet met.. to make hh aappointments with me iniatally.. just in case I may not be their "cup of tea"

Dam thanks guys!!

[saustin]

There was a lengthy discussion about overnights in Dallas Coed forum: https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2316001

[FootLong]

I agree with CoverMe that an Overnighter is an advanced session type which you should only do with someone you’ve seen before and feel comfortable with. With the right person, they can be quite awesome.

[sin.di.vine]

Thank you saustin!! That was a good read.. and amusing too..
Reminded me of an experience with a young buck I have seen several times.. he decided he might want a multi hour with me..I agreed.. he popped..ohh about 10 minutes into what I thought was "round one" few minutes goes by ..I go down.. he says "I dont think I can go again tonight" ???
"Oh ok" rate adjusted to a quick stop.. and out the door he went.. with his 4 pack ..( was a 6 pack when he arrived)..of beer..lol..

[sin.di.vine]

And I agree with you Footlong..I had one regular a couple years ago that I was extremely comfortable with and would sleep over his house alot..
He is now engadged!! Lol.. puts a damper on sleepovers these days.. but not his hobbying .. I'm sure..

[Dr Grey]

I, like cover me, only did an overnight with an atf. She doesn't advertise them, and we negotiated a deal I and she was comfortable with. And like Tpepsi stated, the rate was reasonable. No where near what you see advertised these days. But the subject came up one day they I had never done one, send she threw out the offer. Was one of the best times I had.

I personally recommend them with someone you may consider as a regular client. That way you both are comfortable and the night can just flow. We started with a dinner around 6 or 7, than checked out a few places around town, than retired for a great time at her place by midnight or so. Rince and repeat in morning, than I was out by noonish. No clock really. Just one great evening and morning. Haven't done one since. Chemistry is everything.

[sin.di.vine]

Very well said Dr.Grey..!! Maybe I was over thinking the process to much..?
I will develop a a natural flow of chemisty with someone.. before I contemplate the idea of an overnight.

One of the girls from upstate contacted me about this question I had.. and said that her and her girlfriend do doubles when overnighting..lol.. man in the middle!!! Now that sounds fun!!!

[tinyisgreat]

Originally Posted by sin.di.vine

Thank you saustin!! That was a good read.. and amusing too..
Reminded me of an experience with a young buck I have seen several times.. he decided he might want a multi hour with me..I agreed.. he popped..ohh about 10 minutes into what I thought was "round one" few minutes goes by ..I go down.. he says "I dont think I can go again tonight" ???
"Oh ok" rate adjusted to a quick stop.. and out the door he went.. with his 4 pack ..( was a 6 pack when he arrived)..of beer..lol..

trust me guys when u see her body naked next to u and realize how cool she is u wanna make it a multi month appointment

[Guest010619]

Like Cover Me said it wouldn’t be with someone he had never met before. I had an opposite experience and a lady I met for the first time (although we had texted many times before) offered for me to spend the night with her, and I would have loved to do so. Unfortunately I had to be elsewhere, and I was already turning into a pumpkin pie. Sometimes an overnight can be just spending five or more hours from morning to afternoon and having a leisurely period of pleasure.
Welcome to San Antonio.

[Samcro84]

I prefer extend day sessions. Have fun then go to lunch / movie etc then go back play / watch TV then dinner (if at her place cook it) then more play. This option gives her time to rest. Plus I prefer not to pay lady to sleep.