Asking about rates

[Donkewash]

What’s the etiquette for asking about rates with providers with the new rules and the girls don’t have websites.
I have always read don’t talk about it, Lay it down. walk away. Have fun. Go home.
But you need to know what to bring to the party.

[seductrix4u]

Hi, check the lady's individual website first.

If not there, then check her ECCIE signature line.

If not there, then check her ECCIE avatar.

If no luck after looking at those places, PM/text/email her directly and ask.

Because trust me, we also want to make sure you're bringing the right amount of chips to the party, honey!

[Kat VonDee]

Check her website, read encounter reports, check P411 (if available & you have one). Rates should never be discussed through the phone or email. Most providers will stop responding when a guy asks about menu options or rates over the phone or computer.

[xomissmiab]

if they have no website just asking would Probably suffice .. donation for time .. not for “sex acts” 🙃

[Unique_Carpenter]

Originally Posted by Kat VonDee

....Most providers will stop responding when a guy asks about menu options or rates over the phone or computer.

KVD is correct.
Discussing rates/menu is a common method leo uses to prepare for stinging the gals. So yes do appropriate research.

Frankly, for a first time date, the only things discussed should be when, approx where (with final landing instructions when arriving), references, and amount of time desired for visit.

[SweetSuzanna]

PM me and ask
Simple is easy
Easy is good

[seductrix4u]

I think the problem now is that it's not always as simple to find rates for ladies as it used to be, especially if she simply uses her ECCIE bio as her webpage. Therefore, if she's not putting her rates in her Signature, then I can see the OP's dilemma. How is he supposed to know what to bring to the party if there's nothing published anywhere?

Before I starting talking to anyone about anything, I screen them. So it's up to a provider to do her due diligence, too. If a guy starts out asking rates, then screen him first. If he passes screening, continue with the convo. If not, don't. I don't think it's unreasonable for a guy to want to know the donation amount. Especially since it's no longer displayed in the Encounter reports.

LE lurks in many forms. I would daresay they are on this board, as they are on many boards. You just have to do your best to stay one step ahead of them. And if snagged, lawyer up and fall on your sword.

But I don't assume that every guy asking about rates is LE. I learned that the dangerous informant is a douche you trust who flaunts his status among you.

[Guest090920]

If a gentleman wishes to include a statement relating to financial considerations in the Rest of the Story section of his encounter reports, he is welcome to do so.

[IQ160]

Originally Posted by scorpio31

If a gentleman wishes to include a statement relating to financial considerations in the Rest of the Story section of his encounter reports, he is welcome to do so.

That's the problem. Because there is no specific place to make an entry for contributions or donations in the encounter template, most people will not enter that information in the ROS section. It might be a good idea to include a revision to the template to say "Donation information may be entered here".

[Guest090920]

The template was modified for specific reasons related to the current climate. The template will NOT be revised as you suggested. The ROS is a personal statement of the writer, not the site. Common sense should prevail.

The topic is how to ask, let's return to that discussion.

[yourdesire]

Mine is slipped in my bio but only 1 has caught it, when asked about my donation & menu I tell you give this for time w/me how you choose to spend that time is up to you within reason.

[bilbobaggin]

Don't ask about anything, but know everything. It's catch 22.

[Unique_Carpenter]

All the gals have their rates somewhere.

[Savannah Moon]

Keep it simple.
Ask her where you can find her current donation request.
It's just that easy.
She will either tell you what it is OR tell you where to find it.

[Boredinop]

Great advice Ms. Moon that sounds like the best solution if donation amount is not posted elsewhere.