Seeking more out of a regular

[FatCity]

My current regular is a low volume girl and we get along well, but I need way more than what she provides. Logic says just to stop seeing her, but I plan to meet up next week to share that I need more out of our time together to make it worth my while. I'm 80% sure this is a waste of time and just move on, but I'm curious what others may think (flame away).

I see a provider once every week or two. Generally never see the same one twice. I have had a few that were regular, doing play dates, trips, whatever where we really got along. Once they fall behind in the pace, I just meet up and "officially" end it amicably rather than leave them in the lurch.



WHAT am I looking for, exactly? I don't know, but I'd imagine its more intimacy because we have shared a lot of personal life shit with each other. As a provider, she's not that great because she's very selective (it took forever to get her to reply so we could set up a first meet) and has a lot of sexual boundaries she outlines in her ads, to where its just fucking (no DFK,DATY,greek, CBJ, etc). No, not trying to date her,either, but she's at least not completely fucked in the head.

[Alyssa XOXO]

Good morning Two questions: How often do you see this current regular? And, how often have you been seeing this current regular?

Do you want My Honest Real World Opinion or My Alyssa Provider Sugar Coated Opinion?

*Blending My Protein Shake And Eating Half My Banana As I Wait*

[FatCity]

current regular has been every 3 weeks since June. When we get together its usually 4-5 hours. She's out of town for me, a stripper that offers escorting, she's trying to get out of both / has a kid...blah blah
the other girls its every week or two for 90-120 minutes, some personal chitchat but mostly sex

[ICU 812]

FatCity: Listen to Alyssa. SShe has insight into this stuff and is willing to share it if you are serious.


But coming from me: Maybe you should be reading the Sugar Daddy forum.

[ICU 812]

And FC . . .I wish I had the hobby budget to be half as active as you seem to be. . . . or the stamina.

[Unique_Carpenter]

Seeing her less than half a year?
I'll just finish my coffee.

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by ICU 812

FatCity: Listen to Alyssa.

she hasn't said anything



Meeting with the regular next week for drinks...just gonna share my position. If I didn't have other girls lined up after, I'm sure I'd be a little more desperate to 'keep' her, but she can take it or leave it.

We vibe real well, I'm just not getting all I need out of the current arrangement to continue.
If she wasn't as low volume and mature as she is, I would just move on, but she's not a complete train wreck personally. I should also clarify that she's probably more of a dancer than a true stripper. I've dated strippers before and most live at a pace to keep them distracted. She's not that high demand, just doing pole work and lap dances. As a fuck, I could take or leave, but its pretty good mostly because she's pretty tiny and gets into it.

I've gone through enough girls this year to have learned some valuable hard lessons and am only interested in high-$ gorgeous girls that know what they're doing NOW. I didn't always feel that way and thought I was missing out if I wasn't running through the entire city roster of escorts.

[BLM69]

They're low volume to every trick that ask her, if she's on the internet selling pussy, there's hundreds of guys wanting to stuff her

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by BLM69

They're low volume to every trick that ask her

OH SHIT!
THIS CHANGES EVERYTHING!
THANKS - CLOSE THE THREAD, EVERYBODY

[Jacuzzme]

Sounds like you want a GF not a provider. You pay a provider to fuck and gtfo (you or her), so there’s no interpersonal bullshit that comes with dating/marriage.

[Fizley]

Why would you want to limit yourself to one person. That is tge beauty of the hobby.

I am not a too fit kind of guy. In this market I try to rotate three providers. As your learning, providers come and go, if you only have one you see, then we she gives it up. You have none.

[FatCity]

Originally Posted by Fizley

Why would you want to limit yourself to one person. That is tge beauty of the hobby. .

where did you read THAT?

[Gotyour6]

She is a hooker
She fucks for money
That's it.

[BLM69]

I've known this for 25 years, this guy is just learning the game, this has to be viewed by the new generation of simps, they use to be called nice guys

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/6c2MquK7dsk?feature=share

[ICU 812]

Originally Posted by Jacuzzme

Sounds like you want a GF not a provider. You pay a provider to fuck and gtfo (you or her), so there’s no interpersonal bullshit that comes with dating/marriage.

^^++

As I said, maybe the Sugar Daddy/Sugar Baby option is the next hobby-stop for Fat City.