Newbie

[TommyDCat]

Hi all,

I've recently dipped my toes into the hobby after thinking about it for a while. I've only seen one provider so far (recommended by a friend who is a client of hers), and the experience was positive, but I know there's a lot I don't know yet.

I'm here to learn from you vets – what are the biggest tips for a newbie like me to avoid common pitfalls? Things like:

Best ways to screen/research providers without getting scammed?
Etiquette dos and don'ts (e.g., hygiene, payment, communication)?
How to handle screening as a client with no references yet?
Any red flags to watch for?

Appreciate any advice you can share. Looking forward to being part of the community and contributing once I have more experience.

Mods please move to correct location if this doesn't belong here.

[Hawtanhandsome]

Welcome and good luck
General advice
1) don’t use your number use a hobby phone or atleast an alternate number like google voice or using an app
2) don't send identifying information like actual id, address, work, social media etc
3) don't send deposit unless you have a way of it not being traced

Those were the main items I could think of to protect you

As far as references, see newbie friendly providers and ask them if they will vouch for you
Luckily for you Htown has plenty of hot sexy ladies to choose from

Hygiene, shower before and if there is one at the incall use it. You can do a quick rinse. Manscape if possible, most don't like hair. Ask the lady you are seeing about cologne, aftershave etc. some don’t like it
Communication wise pm them on here or follow their directions. Some say they dont check pms. Be honest and respectful. Give them some info about yourself like height weight age range race/background. Read their bio and ads. If there is info provided there, don’t ask again.
Think longterm not short term. Always be respectful. If a session isn’t to your liking, remain respectful and after write an objective respectful review. With trial and error, you will get better at seeing ladies that you will enjoy.

Your budget will play a role. If your funds to play are limited, you can opt for shorter sessions to check out one of the fine Htown ladies and if you enjoyed the session you can book a longer session the next time.You can even ask if the session can be extended and if you are having fun and want the session to continue, you can ask during the session to extend. Only do this if it was discussed before your session. Meaning ask during your screening communication if its possible to extend the session for example if you booked a 30 minute session to extend to an hour.

It also depends on you. What you like and how your body functions. it makes no sense to book a 2 hour session if your body can’t handle it.
If it takes you longer then a qv 15 min doesn’t work either.


Research reviews and coed discussions for types of ladies that you like and the menu they provide. There is plenty of useful info on Htown ladies here and elsewhere.

Good luck and welcome to the hobby.

[MarcellusWalluz]

You began your journey with a top notch provider, I doubt you'll have difficulties meeting others.
Always carry prophylactics (unless you don't believe in them).
Try to keep mentions of your family, personal life, pets & wisdom to a minimum.
Good luck.