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Tatiana M. · 11-04-2012, 11:56 AM

I keep seeing people mentioning BBFS, and how some ladies are offering it to give them an "edge" over others in a lax economy. I find this quite alarming. But I'm wondering if it's really on the rise? Or is this just chit chat/rumors? I don't want to judge anyone, because what one lady does with her body, and what she does behind closed doors is really none of my business. However, if one lady is practicing unsafe activities, it could potentially effect many people in the community.
I will admit that I've had men ask me for BBFS. I say No, and they don't understand why not! I explain, how would you feel if I did BBFS with everyone before you? You probably wouldn't like that, and they agree, they wouldn't. So guys think about it. If you seek out BBFS, and a lady offers it, do you think your the only one shes doing it with? Chances are your not.
Ok so thats the public service announcement for the day
I'd like to hear everyones opinion on this. Namely, is BBFS really on the rise? If so, why do you think it is? Just general thoughts and opinions on this alarming subject. Thanks!

jokacz · 11-04-2012, 12:07 PM

Not on the rise, just coming out of denial.

Tatiana M. · 11-04-2012, 12:35 PM

I realize no one is going to just come out and admit they seek this out, or provide it on the menu. But I still would like to understand why people are willing to take such a risk. So if it's always been on the menu, why now, are we hearing about it more and more on Eccie? Seems left and right everyone is mentioning BBFS. I'm not complaining about everyones honesty, I'm just wondering if BBFS really is something many people are doing. From the sounds of the Eccie crowd, it appears it's frowned apon, which is a good thing.

cny6969 · 11-04-2012, 01:02 PM

I don't know if it is really on the rise or just being discussed more but it is disturbing. I am sure that this is a relatively small community so there is a potential to put a good number of us at risk.

There is no doubt that sex feels better without the cover but this is one time to "think with the big head".

Guest091813 · 11-04-2012, 01:14 PM

bbfs has always been around..the guys know who to go to if they want it..since the computer age has come about you hear about it more often...I know alot of provider's that have offered it..regardless the reason..they just have... its always gonna be around..just gotta be cool and cover..if a guy asks..politely decline..and keep it movin..

Guest070916 · 11-04-2012, 01:17 PM

In pre-aids times bb was the norm for just about everything. Back then the biggest fear was getting someone pregnant. Now in post-aids times it's best to play safe and bbfs is widely frowned upon by many but some will take it if offered. I don't think the risk is worth it and think it's better to play safe in this regards.

JONBALLS · 11-04-2012, 01:26 PM

I get horrified at just the thought..

cowboy8055 · 11-04-2012, 02:50 PM

I don't think there's a lot of BBFS going on. Looking at all the reviews on this site BBFS seems to be fairly rare. From my own experience I've never had a provider offer it.

pyramider · 11-04-2012, 02:52 PM

Tatiana,

BBFS will always be around. The fucktards that engage in bbfs will always ask. The fucktards that engage in bbfs understand why you may not offer bbfs. They are just trying to manipulate you into doing something you are not comfortable with. Believe me, they know what they are asking for. Do not be fooled, some are smooth talkers.

pyramider · 11-04-2012, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by cowboy8055

I don't think there's a lot of BBFS going on. Looking at all the reviews on this site BBFS seems to be fairly rare. From my own experience I've never had a provider offer it.

It may not be what is offered ... some take advantage when the lady turns her back into K9.

Guest120615-3 · 11-04-2012, 04:40 PM

Oh there's a lot BBFS around!

I'm up to seven women (in hobby career which only spans 8 years) who have offered without any hint of a request on my part. Never will entertain the thought of partaking.

Funny... recently found out a provider got pregnant from offering BBFS. She's keeping the baby. That'll be a tough one to explain to her other kids. I never want to receive that phone call.

offshoredrilling · 11-04-2012, 05:15 PM

mmmm wounder if the same that I heard????? errrrrr restocking !!!!!!

guest032013 · 11-04-2012, 05:16 PM

The bbf rage is over...it's all organic and renewable condoms and taint worship!

cowboy8055 · 11-04-2012, 06:21 PM

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Originally Posted by pyramider

It may not be what is offered ... some take advantage when the lady turns her back into K9.

I know there are idiots who take advantage during K9. Low lifes they are. I can only go by what I've experienced and have read on here. In close to 4 years of doing this I've never had it remotely offered to me. I've only seen a few reviews in which it was "admitted" to. Admitted being the keyword. I know it's out there but probably not as common as we think. I think a relatively small percentage of providers engage in this.

dominic716 · 11-04-2012, 06:52 PM

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Originally Posted by mwebber

Funny... recently found out a provider got pregnant from offering BBFS. She's keeping the baby. That'll be a tough one to explain to her other kids. I never want to receive that phone call.

wow didn't know thats how she got pregnant im almost positive i know who it is if shes a buffalo provider with great reviews