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Mr.Lee · 06-05-2025, 04:09 PM

Okay a few weeks a go I saw a lovely lady from stg and we did our thing. A few days later she texts me saying she available but I was at work and would see her on the weekend. Before the weekend comes I jokingly say I'd throw a ring on your finger if it means I can get that everyday. She said she was only doing this to make a down payment for a car. Desperate me said I'd help her out. We meet on the weekend talked a bit then had sex. She leaves then asks if I can let her have the room for the night. I let her have the room. The next day she changes rooms , we hangout at the mall looking at bikinis and swim suits to buy , she picks one out but could pay for it gets up set and leaves. I'd offer to pay by going to the atm but between my headach (Staff edit) I might not have said those exact words. Then we talk about being serious together , she agrees to stopafter she gets the car. Yesterday and today I give her the money to make the down-payment. She's seems to like me I'm not going to lie I do like her. I keep checking all the usual places but she took down her ads , so she's being serious. Now she's talking about moving here to be closer to me. I am going to give this a go and hope it works out. But am I crazy or stupid this could be real. What should I look out for with her this does develop into something real serious to the point of marriage. Ps mods if dosent belong here my b.

dontbedummies · 06-05-2025, 06:28 PM

Hey man, I am happy for you. Get a prenup if you do get married. Wrap it before you tap it. Kids make legal proceedings complicated. Read my username.

Mr.Lee · 06-05-2025, 06:33 PM

Kinda failed on wrapping it up , she was in the doggy position and that ass making me act up. Luckily my pull out skills are good. Thanks for the advice though.

Mr.Lee · 06-06-2025, 05:35 PM

Well guess I'm a desperate dumb ass. Tried texting her last night but it was left on unread , tried calling her today went straight to voice mail. Can't believe I fell for it. I'm all torn up and don't know what to do.

Edgewoodisaboringplace · 06-06-2025, 07:23 PM

Really curious to know which lady on STG? Heard lots of sad stories, fell for a few myself. 1 in particular is still into me a ton, lesson learned hopefully…. For me I mean.

Edgewoodisaboringplace · 06-06-2025, 07:23 PM

Really curious to know which lady on STG? Heard lots of sad stories, fell for a few myself. 1 in particular is still into me a ton, lesson learned hopefully…. For me I mean.

Mr.Lee · 06-06-2025, 08:29 PM

Since she took down her ads I find her any.ore or the name she used.

Mr.Lee · 06-07-2025, 06:02 AM

Now I feel like a jack ass , she got in touch with me saying her phone got damaged.

edhardy1985 · 06-07-2025, 08:34 AM

You titled this post as ultimate hobby sin... like you know you tucked up... you seem aware of the uncertainty of a relationship...and the circumstances under which you met this lady...adds another wrinkle to the fold...bro just protect yourself...