Is there such a thing as a sure thing?

[britishboydallas]

Hey folks. Long time admirer here. Just wondering if it's actually possible to meet a gorgeous woman without repercussions. Tried out of state a bit ago and had some asshole texting me that he was going to contact my family. Is anyone truly trustworthy. Does anyone do what they say?

Love to hear the discourse.

[corona]

This isn't a dating website. Aside from the occasional scammers, this hobby is full of sure things. Research. Select a reputable companion, perform any screening and set an appointment.

[pmdelites]

"Is anyone truly trustworthy. Does anyone do what they say?"
yes and yes.
as corona said, gotta do the research to find someone who is close to trustworthy and does what they say.

however, there are kinda sure things, not sure things, and way way less than sure things.
just like there are in the real world.

caveat emptor. and if you dont do the research and then get burned, hopefully you'll learn the lesson(s) and how to notice/read yellow and red flags.

good luck in your search for delites.

[pmdelites]

system did a duplicate post for me. how nice!

[Ultimate Jessica]

It a real thing and an awesome thing with the right companions!! You just have to do your part by doing your OWN research.. Read profiles and definitely look for reviews. If you cannot find any information on a lady you are wanting to see on any other sites.. keep looking.
Don’t get scammed by ladies who are NOT reputable who are asking for deposit for you may never see her or that deposit reimbursed.
Stay Safe!
Xoxo,
Jessica

[Greented]

Originally Posted by britishboydallas

Hey folks. Long time admirer here. Just wondering if it's actually possible to meet a gorgeous woman without repercussions. Tried out of state a bit ago and had some asshole texting me that he was going to contact my family. Is anyone truly trustworthy. Does anyone do what they say?

Love to hear the discourse.

No

[Spoljana]

Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

It a real thing and an awesome thing with the right companions!! You just have to do your part by doing your OWN research.. Read profiles and definitely look for reviews. If you cannot find any information on a lady you are wanting to see on any other sites.. keep looking.
Don’t get scammed by ladies who are NOT reputable who are asking for deposit for you may never see her or that deposit reimbursed.
Stay Safe!
Xoxo,
Jessica

Jessica knocked it out of the park here! I’ll add a few points that might be beneficial:
– Never ever pre-pay! You will get F’d… just not in the way that you imagined in and not a good way
– Respect the lady’s screening process. But… Only share information you feel comfortable sharing. You might find that you weren’t the match that you wanted to be discretion is key for both parties.
– Maintain a positive coed board presence! Fortunately for me, I have had ladies reach out to me based off of positive remarks that I have made on post that they have made. It goes a long way and some providers scream, looking at your board post history.
– Most, but not all, guys will respond to questions in regards to interactions or visits that they have had with a provider

Best wishes and happy hobbying!

[TinMan]

Originally Posted by britishboydallas

Hey folks. Long time admirer here. Just wondering if it's actually possible to meet a gorgeous woman without repercussions. Tried out of state a bit ago and had some asshole texting me that he was going to contact my family. Is anyone truly trustworthy. Does anyone do what they say?

Love to hear the discourse.

Sounds like a random listcrawler ad. Those are almost a sure thing…for scams like that.

[Financeman22]

The only sure thing in life is Death & Taxes, all the others are a Crapshoot!

[Wile E Coyote]

In a word OP, NO. Too many providers telling hobbyists, directly and/or indirectly, that they are doing a favor to guys by taking their money. The service is terrible most of the time because they get conditioned that it is ok to be average at best. It is a crap shoot and when you do find a provider or providers whom you like and want to continue future visits with, keep them mainly as your secret unless she wants you post a review.

Originally Posted by Ultimate Jessica

It a real thing and an awesome thing with the right companions!! You just have to do your part by doing your OWN research.. Read profiles and definitely look for reviews. If you cannot find any information on a lady you are wanting to see on any other sites.. keep looking.
Don’t get scammed by ladies who are NOT reputable who are asking for deposit for you may never see her or that deposit reimbursed.
Stay Safe!
Xoxo,
Jessica

I agree for the most part.

Researching providers whom you have not seen BCD is more complicated than reading reviews and the profiles of the providers. Reviews are opinionated based on the reviewer (should be anyway) and unless there are multiple reviews by different guys that post the same thing or thereabouts in each of their reviews of the same provider, then the consistency of service is not going to remotely be determined by reviews. Profiles, just like ads, can say whatever to bait business in the door, then more times then not, just to do the opposite BCD after a guy is naked and vulnerable. There is no such thing as all inclusive, this is how and when the providers try to upsell as well.

Getting the screening out of the way to make sure neither is affiliate with LE or a bad individual first. And by doing so, it is best to talk to people they have actually seen BCD, not the ones they have not for their opinion. Anyone that takes to heart the word of someone who has not seen the individual in question for a session or even met them in person (good or bad words) is a complete idiot who deserves to rely on having to constantly post ads, having to see mainly one and done clients as she has no regulars.

After screening, the best way to research a provider whom you have not seen BCD is to let a provider know what you like in a session you pay for. Hopefully, she is honest one way or another so you can weed out the ones you do not want ceasing communications and move on with the ladies you do wish to continue conversing and setting up a sessions with. After a session is over and she was not what she proclaimed to be just so that you will set the appointment, there is this and a few other sites you can post your experience with her (review, backchannels, ect.).

[Laura Lynn]

There are lots of reputable ladies in this lifestyle that are exactly what they claim to be and do exactly what they say they will do. The key is to think with your big head and not be impulsive in your actions.

There is something for everyone here, it may just take a little time, a lot of research and a fair amount of patience to find that which you seek.

Happy Hobbying!

[Wile E Coyote]

I agree.

There are lots of ladies who do and are exactly how they proclaim to be just take a look at the hateful and insulting posts by some of them. I have no doubt that they are who the portray themselves to be. And why I would not see those ladies BCD if they paid me triple their rate! The time and patience you are referring to usually involves seeing providers most of whom you are not going to see again for a 2nd visit, mainly because those ladies are deceiving con artists and you have to navigate the waters before you to that island you want to drop anchor on.

There are also ladies who want to make sure the paying client is happy and will bend over backwards to make that happen. That is why I have a handful or so that I see regularly.

GFE is an attitude, not a set of activities. Some guys are just happy to be in the same room with a provider and getting a nut that they do not have use their own hand to obtain, so the GFE experience for them is pretty much mute. I prefer the ladies who make sure I am happy with my entire experience with her (not just the ending) and those are the ladies who get my constant business.

[Wile E Coyote]

double post

[ClevererHandle]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I agree.

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There are also ladies who want to make sure the paying client is happy and will bend over backwards to make that happen. That is why I have a handful or so that I see regularly.
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I'm pretty sure some of those ladies were in a hot yoga class I used to go to. Very flexible.

[Candi Staxx]

*raises hand*