tall & thin Cubana (day) @ Babydolls

[Alfred456]

This is a story of a friendship that I had with a dancer at BD’s Dallas. I know that most of you will not be interested in this, but I am sharing my experience because it was a scheme that I am not familiar with. She works days. She is tall, thin, older, attractive.

I know the types of gals at BD’s. The dance churners, the HJ queens, the VIP and give you nothing, the VIP and give you all, the FS in the chairs upstairs. She presents herself well, better than most Cuban girls. She had a story of a tough life in Cuba, of her crossing into the US during Covid and getting stuck for 2 years, her desire to earn money here and send back to help family. She was single and said no to Cuban guys. She comes across as very open and always says she has nothing to hide. I thought she was a strong, independent Latina. Our relationship grew as we spent a significant amount of time together. Including her house. Texting and talking, seeing each other inside and outside the club.

The next step was serious, she indicated she would sign a prenup as it was not about the money. I know that there is a certain financial support that comes with a dancer from Cuba.

I hired someone to check her out. I found out she crossed the border with a man and has lived with him since arriving. I found out so many other details.

The information i found out shows they were working together as a team to deceive me. He has no work permit or history here.

I have no idea what their master plan was with me. I’d love to hear some insight if any of you have have similar experience or knowledge.

I consider it the best 10k I’ve ever spent to hire a PI, and very fortunate to get out of it as I did. But I’m not signing up for some douchebag to tag along.

Pimp/manager/boyfriend? I’ll never know.

PM me for her name or more details.

[BabygotDak]

I am sorry. I guess go meet a nice woman at church.

[phmzee]

Sorry this happened but be thankful you found out before she took you to the big "cleaner" We all have had mistakes in this hobby world. Just learn and thank you for sharing to remind others of this danger!
First read flag "this is a story of a friendship" hold on .. Anyone you have to pay to be your friend is not a friend. rule #1. If they require $$ for time and companionship they are not a friend. You are a business transaction not a friend to them so do not get worked up in all the BS they throw your way. I would love to know who it is to protect myself! I sent you a DM.

[TomCollins]

I’m glad you found out before it was too late. Better question is how many other guys in that situation did NOT! I’m betting it’s far more than we would ever guess.

Pay attention to how many of the Cuban girls drive themselves to work, and how many are dropped off by a Latino guy driving a luxury car of some kind, usually with the paper tags.

To be fair though, that type of grift is not limited to the Cubans. So be careful with all of them!

[CG2014]

Originally Posted by Alfred456

He has no work permit or history here.I’d love to hear some insight

Here my insight

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[Ogre2002]

Thats a sad story especially the part where you fell in love with a stripper. I can see how that happens, your lonely etc. The part that gets me is that you believed she was in love with you. It sounds like you got some coin. Ever try bumble, tinder or sugar dating sites. 10k would have gotten you months of tail .

[Doug4343]

There's a story out there like this only once the girl got access to the guys money, they killed him and then split. So I consider that you got very lucky. If I can dig up the news link later I will. This wasn't in Texas, I'll have to look.

[Alfred456]

Yes, i agree with everyone. I fell for it and deserve it.

My purpose in sharing is the hope that this information helps another. I did not hire a PI expecting to spend that much. It just kind of grew and grew as i kept finding out more information. What shocked me was the scale and scope of the deception and that another guy was involved. It's bizarre because without me asking she would always bash Cuban guys and said they were all losers. She said she would never even give them dances. Then i find out she came from Cuba with one and has been living and supporting him here for years.

[rcusa]

Originally Posted by Alfred456

Yes, i agree with everyone. I fell for it and deserve it.

You fell for it, but that does NOT mean you deserve it. We who visit clubs like BD show a willingness to share resources in atypical ways, perhaps...but for her to conspire with another guy to steal by manipulation and lies is uncalled for. It's just garbage behavior, and not deserved. It's too bad if we have to assume every stripper is a thief, but that may be the only way to avoid getting robbed.

[nfhs04]

Originally Posted by Alfred456

Yes, i agree with everyone. I fell for it and deserve it.

My purpose in sharing is the hope that this information helps another. I did not hire a PI expecting to spend that much. It just kind of grew and grew as i kept finding out more information. What shocked me was the scale and scope of the deception and that another guy was involved. It's bizarre because without me asking she would always bash Cuban guys and said they were all losers. She said she would never even give them dances. Then i find out she came from Cuba with one and has been living and supporting him here for years.

the few times I gotten close to a stripper I always get their social media to cut thru all the BS and know there real names. its best for them to ask you so they don't hide stuff. Some on here are probably against it but if your single and no kids then no harm. but some are good at deception and play game and still shady so still not a sure thing

[Bdregular]

Don’t know if this is true or not, but one of the girls I know at BDs told me a trick to know if they have a pimp or not is too see if they have a social media profile. If they do, they most likely don’t have a pimp, if they don’t, then there is a chance they do have a pimp. She said because they don’t want anyone to know their business.

[Alfred456]

I've been frequenting strip clubs for a long time. I've seen alot. During my time with her I knew she had been around the block. But i also felt that underneath it all she had a good heart. When i look back at the last 5 years. Everything was a set up for something. Literally every single detail was a lie to make me believe that she was single and looking to leave the hustling life behind. There was never any notion of another man in her life on any social media.

I was ready to make that commitment involved. I didnt even want to hire a PI but some people close to me demanded it.

I don't know. She might treat other customers different or tell a different story. I would love to hear from someone else who has spent time with her and compare notes.

The only real red flag i can remember is that she never invited me over to her house spontaneously. It always had to be a certain day. I found out that's because they had to clean up and move shit out to make it look like she was alone in the house.

When they crossed the border together the guy went silent on social media. The PI said he's like a ghost here. I can only speculate they are on a mission.

She's a smart girl. I'm sure she will take this experience and try to learn from it to improve her game. They are looking to catch a whale.

[stpam]

I feel you. Same thing happened with a popular girl here named m* who moved to Miami. We got close and I had her Social Media and Facebook. I ended up getting her an APT where she paid but we were both on the lease. Come to find out she had a boyfriend of 10 years and he lived in the apt the whole time. He never showed up on her SM but she was all over his.

[phmzee]

Originally Posted by Bdregular

Don’t know if this is true or not, but one of the girls I know at BDs told me a trick to know if they have a pimp or not is too see if they have a social media profile. If they do, they most likely don’t have a pimp, if they don’t, then there is a chance they do have a pimp. She said because they don’t want anyone to know their business.

Or you can create a social media profile to help make your scam seem true! It can go both ways guys!

[Alfred456]

That sucks STPAM. They are all in on it. I visited with several of her friends over the years. Friends who knew each other from Cuba and for 10-15 years. They all painted the picture of this girl alone, no pimps, no managers.