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Snood273 · 07-22-2025, 11:45 AM

Well folks, it has been a good run. I just went thru probably the most frightening time of my life. Call it a 90 day scare and you can probably figure it out. Well, I finally got the all clear. Ironically, it was not hobby related, but caused me to rethink the risks I am willing to take.
I am 100 percent retired from the escort hobby, and pretty sure (though not fully sure) that my days of FBSM are also done.
I am getting out with my health and freedom intact - I wish you all the best, and most importantly, I wish you all good health.
Stay safe, fellas and ladies.

FreeLancer40 · 07-22-2025, 01:27 PM

I wonder how this 90 day scare isn’t hobby related? If it’s not, why the alarms going off to quit?

Jack_Wilson · 07-22-2025, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Snood273

Well folks, it has been a good run. I just went thru probably the most frightening time of my life. Call it a 90 day scare and you can probably figure it out. Well, I finally got the all clear. Ironically, it was not hobby related, but caused me to rethink the risks I am willing to take.
I am 100 percent retired from the escort hobby, and pretty sure (though not fully sure) that my days of FBSM are also done.
I am getting out with my health and freedom intact - I wish you all the best, and most importantly, I wish you all good health.
Stay safe, fellas and ladies.

Good luck, and God bless. I understand your concerns. And believe this: you won't be missing anything at all, based on the talentless trash that dominates the business in this area. Look in on things in this area from time to time, you'll find you won't regret your decision.

Tomb8871 · 07-22-2025, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by FreeLancer40

I wonder how this 90 day scare isn’t hobby related? If it’s not, why the alarms going off to quit?

Scare with civilian gf most likely, of the same nature as you might get from being with a provider

FreeLancer40 · 07-22-2025, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Tomb8871

Scare with civilian gf most likely, of the same nature as you might get from being with a provider

Yeah, except clearly the gf was nice and bare. I haven’t seen any posts I can recall that snood went bareback with providers.

You’re probably right.

Loneli · 07-22-2025, 03:34 PM

Yeah well, easy to say now. Let us know in 6-12 months. I think we've all been there, I know I have. Somehow you'll justify some modification to jump back in. Or maybe not.

Snood273 · 07-23-2025, 07:06 AM

Correct. Went bare with a hookup.

Funtimes44 · 07-24-2025, 09:40 AM

same thing happened to me but not bare... its been 8 months fell off the wagon got a hand job yesterday from a parlor baby steps lol. ... I think I would of gotten more but showered in there and there was a bottle of vagisl body odor scrub in there that was a big turn off ... it sucks but our cock eventually wants more again ... still staying retired my self but its a struggle hand jobs don't count lol

Funtimes44 · 07-24-2025, 09:42 AM

once you think you have something .. your mind will play games with you... I get what he is saying happened to me ... it consumes you its all its on your mind ... your afraid to go for that test because it will tell you ... it sucks but time heals ..you start google every symptom etc

Funtimes44 · 07-24-2025, 09:47 AM

hate to chime in so much on this topic ... because this site hates it and will flag you and ban you ... I think health should just as much as discussed as anything else but this site doesn't think so... say a peep about something about that and they will block the topic and give you a violation ... we need new rules ... because if you can talk about being robbed or scam which you could lie about ... you should be able to warn others about something they could catch... sad but true ... til you go thru that scare you will never understand

Gambitbbc699 · 07-26-2025, 12:41 AM

I agree with this all

Southgate18 · 07-26-2025, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Funtimes44

same thing happened to me but not bare... its been 8 months fell off the wagon got a hand job yesterday from a parlor baby steps lol. ... I think I would of gotten more but showered in there and there was a bottle of vagisl body odor scrub in there that was a big turn off ... it sucks but our cock eventually wants more again ... still staying retired my self but its a struggle hand jobs don't count lol

Do foot jobs count? Tit jobs? Hotdogging? BJs?

That is a slippery slope FT44.

I have changed my status from retired to sabbatical because I know it is inevitable.

soldierboy44 · 07-26-2025, 05:57 PM

Maybe because I have looked death in the eye too many times and despite my sinful ways, I still believe ST Peter will let me in.......we are all going to die someday.......fuck it I might as well die happy.

Funtimes44 · 07-27-2025, 02:06 AM

but that's not a fun death .. no death is .. but dying with that deadly sin .... can't say it I will get banned ... has to rank up with cancer ...it can be treated but you better have insurance or be piss poor or it will bankrupt you quicker than a er0s columbian whore lol

Billgoat · 07-27-2025, 11:31 PM

You're prioritizing your health, mental and physical. All the best. Folks here see some few degenerates glorifying unsafe sex practices and they feel they wanna do it. That 90 day wait teaches lessons that are long forgotten in a way that scars u for life. After the 90 day course, you will be a changed man, traumatized but better.

Houston leads in STI infections, new ones, and estimated for those who have, but don't test. You go unsafe, and definitely will catch it but try saying that on here.