If a dancer just comes to my table and sits down without asking permission like many of them do and then start chatting me up, I won't pay them for their time because they didn't say [when they sat down] that it would cost me to chat with them.
Especially those who I said No Thank You when they come by and ask if I want company and they still sit down anyway.
Now if they are nice or I am a bit interested, I might offer them a drink. Then if I am even more interested in taking them somewhere for a lap dance, that's all I am paying for is the lap dance or lap dances.
But I won't pay for their time sitting with me to chit chat.
Now if I see a dancer I am somewhat interested in or just want to meet to get a feel of thing and I get her attention and asks her to sit down or I grab a waitress to get her attention, I will offer her a drink and chit chat and if I don't get the vibe for a lap dance with her, I will give her a couple of Lincoln and Washington for her time.
I had dancers at The Lodge, Bucks, Men's Club who sat down without permission, didn't notify me when they sat down that there is a money clock starting, chatted with me about nothing for 5-10 minutes with me just not paying attention to them, and then when they got up to leave they tell me I owe them $, always $100-150.
I don't pay and I tell them why and none of them had tried to collect by getting a manager or a bouncer.
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