One good way to ease her in is to introduce her to another provider. Most of us are very willing and experienced in helping newbie ladies learn the ropes. Even someone moving from another city greatly benefits from learning the local scene from someone who's been here awhile. 4 years ago Just Alisha did that for me in Austin and more recently NJ here in SA. Local ladies know the gents who are just "too eager", those that choose not to follow standard etiquette, and we keep a keen eye in those that like to push the limits with a lady that is too new to know better. Even better, we can introduce her to the gents that will treat her with respect, follow etiquette, and never push her past her comfort zone. IMO the latter type of gents outnumber the former when dealing with the "core group", but new ladies are unfortunately easy targets.
Bottom line is find a well established provider you trust and currently has the time to show her the ropes and let the San Antonio Sweethearts guide her from there. Thanks for looking out for her and the rest of us
As far as your advice for the gents: most follow it already, many others would be well advised to follow it, but unfortunately the worst offenders will be clueless that it applies to them.
NOT an Expert buy,,,,,,
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