Providers and Financial Supporters

[Owlman]

I know one former provider (who worked under the name Jacy) who found a sugar daddy and has lived a relaxed, comfortable life since. Her sugar daddy is quite a bit older than she is, but they seem very loyal to each other.

I am surprised that more providers who service the successful business and professional man clientele do not develop relationships with a client that will change their lives. This is particularly true for providers in their late 30s and into their 40s. They meet lots of potential candidates.

[carkido45]

Originally Posted by Owlman

I know one former provider (who worked under the name Jacy) who found a sugar daddy and has lived a relaxed, comfortable life since. Her sugar daddy is quite a bit older than she is, but they seem very loyal to each other.

I am surprised that more providers who service the successful business and professional man clientele do not develop relationships with a client that will change their lives. This is particularly true for providers in their late 30s and into their 40s. They meet lots of potential candidates.

It happens a lot more than you think ever see a hispanic agency provider come on the scene next thing you know she's gone and doesn't come back.

[The G.O.A.T]

I thought that was because you overbooked her to death or a disgruntled hobbiest called "INS"

[Owlman]

I have been with a few mature escorts over the past few months. It perplexes me how these women have not taken steps to increase safety and security.

[Brooke Wilde]

Not all women wanna be "kept" ... I'd rather keep making $200/hr ... enjoy my freedom and live life the way I want to rather then get 15k a month to be at some mans beck and call.

Lots of my friends have sugar daddies and I don't envy them in the least.

[FatBastard]

Having kept several latinas over the past few years, and having traveled extensively with them, I can say it's nice having variety. Of course, I did have to buy some tits.....its the gift that keeps on giving the whole year long.....yoli, eva, sylvia....

[toehead]

Originally Posted by Owlman

I am surprised that more providers who service the successful business and professional man clientele do not develop relationships with a client that will change their lives. This is particularly true for providers in their late 30s and into their 40s. They meet lots of potential candidates.

That type of arrangement would offer income security and reduced personal risk for the provider, but she would have to accept the risk that all her eggs are in one basket. If the daddy died, got tired of her, or thought she wasn't acting properly, she would lose her entire income.

[boardman]

shouldn't this be in the sugar daddy section?

[Owlman]

Originally Posted by toehead

That type of arrangement would offer income security and reduced personal risk for the provider, but she would have to accept the risk that all her eggs are in one basket. If the daddy died, got tired of her, or thought she wasn't acting properly, she would lose her entire income.

That is a risk if the provider uses bad judgment in who she accepts as a sugar daddy. She needs to develop a relationship with a guy who really likes her for herself and not just for sex. In other words, she needs to be a good companion.

[Super Head 713]

Their are alot of providers and guys that seem to find a good chemistry with one another. I have a guy friend that I am very close with from here. Me and another provider will go to his house, go eat, and enjoy ourselves off the clock. By a guy being a hobbyist doesnt make me look at him any different. I dont believe that the providers that do seem to settle down with a guy from here is all in it for the money it's the bond that they build during the time

[ilsjs]

Originally Posted by Owlman

That is a risk if the provider uses bad judgment in who she accepts as a sugar daddy. She needs to develop a relationship with a guy who really likes her for herself and not just for sex. In other words, she needs to be a good companion.

+1
Exactly, same thought here ... failed miserably.. However, no regret and it was a very interseting lesson to learn about human-being behavior.

[landon]

I think the SD game can be a suckers game for guys who want to buy a GF. I do pick up gals off SeekingArrangement for fun and when POP is in 100-150 range; usually offer them 120. But I never let myself get sucked into the steady $1000+ a month thing to them as there are too many other distractions like my ViP membership at a coupla clubs and an x stripper I have been getting at $60 a throw (known her 7 years).

I regard women off the SD sites as providers (they may be in a state of denial about that) but as long as I am getting POP I want they can believe what they want.

Providers may have long term regulars and I have known of married ones who keep on providing with a select group of clients. They are usually in early 30's or older and deliver really good service. Irregardless, these women want to have their independence and don't want some relationship where the guy "owns" them. In conversations with one she referred to a friends SD as a sucker paying thousands for a GF who was doing other clients (he was unaware of).

Lately, I have come to prefer COM (Club Operational Mode) for variety at an extras club where I am VIP.

[ilsjs]

Brooke said it all, women of 21 century love freedom... lol.
Only a fool would believe SB is "exclusive" for him, no matter how much $ he gives her!

[Tiffani Jameson]

So I guess this is the male equivalent of a threAD...

Owlman, are you just putting it out there that you're open to being a sugardaddy, or you talking to someone specific? Otherwise, pushing total financial dependence on one man on a P4P board makes it Sugardaddyforme. Or worse yet, marriage.

There are some very successful companions who forego the Sugardaddy route for freedom. I get lots of offers. But it takes a very special breed of man to be a sugardaddy, and everyone that offers isn't the right one. It's very rare to find someone that truly understands what being a Sugardaddy means.

[deanna_bell69]

I've got to say that I have started staying with someone i met off this board and who provides me with everything i need and am enjoying the hell out of him --of course vice versa --- poor man ...

anyway i've cut my hours wayyyyyy back but don't want to ive the hobby up completely because really
I LOVE THE HELL OUT OF IT