Assertive Providers

[surtur]

The submissive types thread got me to wondering about the other end of the spectrum...not necessarily dom/bondage, but take charge kind of ladies. Being introverted, it is somewhat comforting to be lead sometimes.

[Jack Daniels]

I agree. For me, an aggressive woman is a huge turn-on. Part of that is because I'm an introvert and part of it is that I enjoy the feeling (illusion) of being wanted and desired.

[FlyingGorilla]

Assertive women get a big +1 from me.

I never liked the idea that I might be forcing myself on a woman, who would rather not be in bed with me if she wasn't getting paid a lot to do so.

An assertive woman helps me feel like I'm the one being picked up, and I like it. On the other hand, I'm not up for feeling humiliated, so a dominatrix is pretty much out.

Here are some assertive women I might recommend from personal experience:
Samantha Thom (on second thought, keep away, I want to hog her for myself)
Whatever Jacqueline (just returned to the fold)
Holly aka Sexyindallas (may be retired, may not)
ItalianaPrincess (in a funny sort of way, she can be assertive that you should be dominating her)

I haven't seen but have heard similar remarks about TNT Angie and Jenna Tailya.

[Iaintliein]

I am convinced that Lindsey Lacey can be anything anyone needs. . . except submissive. Communicate ahead of time to let her get to know you. I took this less than 24 hours ago, so wysiwyg. Yes, indeed, she is very flexible.

[surtur]

Thanks for the suggestions....plan on seeing Lindsey again, but change it up the next go around.

[LindseyLacey]

thank-you Iaintliein...
thank-you surtur...
...
i am not aggressive...
i am not submissive...
but...
i am dominant by nature...
and prefer to gently lead the way...
...
my in call is my playground...
whether it be the blue room...
for massage...
and so much more...
or the red-room...
for something more intense...
i have put so much time and effort...
into every little detail...
i do prefer to be your tour guide...
and show you the best and most fun things to do...
and like a good tour guide...
if there is something that you want to do...
all you have to do is ask...
i will show you the way...
...
thank-you!......lindsy

[true_whatever]

Originally Posted by FlyingGorilla

Here are some assertive women I might recommend from personal experience:
Samantha Thom (on second thought, keep away, I want to hog her for myself)
Whatever Jacqueline (just returned to the fold)

I agree with Samantha on this list, although turning the tides on her a bit can be fun too. At least it was fun 4 hours ago Review to come soon. (and no, I won't stay away :P )

WhateverJacqueline is on my list. I mean, come on...look at my handle. I HAVE to see her! It's like a law or something.

[hotlips_houlihan]

I think I fit the bill

[Guest020720]

thanks for the shout on this one FG-

I think I'm bossy by nature.
Type A personality.

I like to get down both ways. I'm never much of the dominant, other than learning to be more "forceful" with my footies. (these size 12's have started to gather a fan club of their own.)

Sometimes, it's really all about the mood I'm in.

Like at the moment - I'm in dire need to release some aggression. Hence - the bossy, bitch side of me really starts to shine. (ok, so it's not a stretch for me to take it in the bedroom - but of course it stays fun. If it's not fun, it's not right.)

FG probably picked up on that about me from reviews where I sorta demand where things must go - right then and there.

But I personally think it's an amazing sight and feeling when a guy grabs your ears and helps control the speed and depth.

I think it's the most fun when there is a lot of back and forth. I'm all for spankin asses. Mine or whomever else is in the room!

But I'm also down for fun like this phat assed fine blond gets here.....skip to the 8 min mark. (I tend to do so.....) Just please, don't flip me over and put me on your shoulders. I'm a bit tooooo tall for that shit.
http://tinyurl.com/68ckulp

[FlyingGorilla]

Oh great, now she's watching internet porn and knowing how to use tinyurl.

Dammit, my list isn't getting any shorter.

Okay, TNT, just for you, here's one of my favorite 'demanding' stars, Chayse Evans:
http://tinyurl.com/3e4ypdu
My favorite 'skip mark' is about 23:30, where she gets so turned on she starts choking and slapping herself. Not the only time she's done that, either. I'm not one to get rough with a lady, but it's kind of amazing to see her get rough with herself.

[Guest020720]

FG - I'm REFUSING to watch it - till I know I can get myself off.

Fucking tease.

[FlyingGorilla]

Originally Posted by tntangie

Fucking tease.

Heh, heh. Oh woman, you don't even know... yet.

Moving on up the list...

[LovingKayla]

Holy cow LL I want you too. You are perfection!!! Well done photos ial!!













Crap I can't take out the sig line. Sorry about that. I just wanted to tell her how freaking beautiful she is.

[LindseyLacey]

thank-you SoftPlaceToLand.!...
thank-you for two compliments.!...
very much appreciated...
ladies are welcome to visit...
for a cup of tea...
and a chat...
......lindsy

[Iaintliein]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

I think I fit the bill

Be sure to piss her off here first, or wait for someone else to, then go for the "grudge fuck"!