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Old 09-25-2012, 04:13 PM   #1
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Unhappy Not Mind Readers....

It would be nice if guys would actually express what they like in their profile, or a private email, or just discuss it when you are with us.
If you like Russian, GFE, or whatever, you need to express yourself. I hate to read later that I "didn't do something" I will usually ask if you like what I'm doing, what else you like, but if you want Russian and you don't say it, but later criticize in a review that it wasn't done that's not fair. Remember we aren't mind readers, but I am sure most ladies are more than happy to accomadate if it's something they are ok with.
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Old 09-25-2012, 05:39 PM   #2
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It is a pretty fine line....
I dont mind a guy telling me AFTER hes been screened, of things he may enjoy. (If my reviews, pix, profile, still leave one in question.) Given its still discreet & tasteful.
By all means...when were in the sack, DO TELL!!
im very much a pleaser, and follow directions very well
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Old 09-25-2012, 05:57 PM   #3
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True how are we suppoese to know what you into? Its not difficult to ask us what you want or if you try a fetish, but to turn around and reticule you is not cool at all there needs to be communication from both parties.
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Old 09-25-2012, 06:56 PM   #4
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It is a pretty fine line....
I dont mind a guy telling me AFTER hes been screened, of things he may enjoy. (If my reviews, pix, profile, still leave one in question.) Given its still discreet & tasteful.
By all means...when were in the sack, DO TELL!!
im very much a pleaser, and follow directions very well
There is a fine line and that will vary from provider to provider. I've had several gents say "I really like the activities listed in xxxx review" I may not be able to read the ROS but I was there, remember what happened, and have the list of activities to confirm. Even guys that don't have premium access can see the activities list.

If there's something a gent would like to try with a particular provider, that he hasn't seen in a review, he should ask the lady if she would prefer to discuss it before or after the appt.
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Old 09-25-2012, 07:10 PM   #5
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Here is a little list of things I like (in alphabetical order).
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Old 09-25-2012, 08:59 PM   #6
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It was always my understanding that we are not supposed to discuss particulars with someone we have not seen before. There are some things I really love to do and I try to somehow work in a few hints but not before I'm screened. So if I were to say I like to spend some time in Another Realm, the provider may be ready for a little kink or may even look at a few of my posts in there. I'm sure this is not an efficient way. I'm open to suggestions.


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It is a pretty fine line....
I dont mind a guy telling me AFTER hes been screened, of things he may enjoy. (If my reviews, pix, profile, still leave one in question.) Given its still discreet & tasteful.
By all means...when were in the sack, DO TELL!!
im very much a pleaser, and follow directions very well
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Old 09-25-2012, 11:35 PM   #7
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Agreed +1
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Old 09-26-2012, 09:13 AM   #8
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In my experience, each provider has different comfort levels with this. I would suggest after you've been screened to ask them how specific can you get in a private message to ensure you can communicate what kind of session you want without making them uncomfortable.

Giving them links to specific posts would also make it easier for them so they don't have to search on their own.

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It was always my understanding that we are not supposed to discuss particulars with someone we have not seen before. There are some things I really love to do and I try to somehow work in a few hints but not before I'm screened. So if I were to say I like to spend some time in Another Realm, the provider may be ready for a little kink or may even look at a few of my posts in there. I'm sure this is not an efficient way. I'm open to suggestions.
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Old 09-26-2012, 09:22 AM   #9
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Saying that you post there, is a discreet & tasteful way to hint at what you like
If im screening a gent, ive probably browsed his post history. But you pbringing attention, to your postd in a certain area, is cool with me.

DONT pm me telling me how much you want to pound my back entrance good & hard...in your introduction pm & make it worse not even give any references. Lol
(Not that id even bother at that point. Lol but just an example of how backwards & distasteful many would take it)
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Old 09-26-2012, 10:56 AM   #10
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My signature line line "perfect first contact" has helped me a LOT in getting guys to make the initial post what I ideally would like.
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Old 09-26-2012, 11:26 AM   #11
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Remember we aren't mind readers, but....

Hey now,speak for yourselves ladies..Im Miss Cleo, you didnt know??

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Old 09-26-2012, 11:29 AM   #12
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JJ..DID YOU HAVE TO LIST EVERYTHING WE DID LAST WEEK WHEN I RAN INTO YOU AT WALMART?

jeesh.

............nothings sacred anymore.
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:22 PM   #13
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I want to know what they DON"T enjoy!

I'm WOMAN and I know how to pleasure and ENJOY a man. BUT, if they don't like BJ (yes there are men who don't) or if they have a germ phobia and don't allow any kissing or spitting on the cock (yes there are men like that). Or if they don't of ALL things, like Greek. (yes there are some who don't and they only do it cause I enjoy it knowing full well they don't like Greek. Come on man that's horseshit!).
Speak the heck up. And express what you DON'T enjoy!
Cause there are women like me who are uninhibited. And we don't mesh well with men who have too many NO's/ Don'ts.



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It would be nice if guys would actually express what they like in their profile, or a private email, or just discuss it when you are with us.
If you like Russian, GFE, or whatever, you need to express yourself. I hate to read later that I "didn't do something" I will usually ask if you like what I'm doing, what else you like, but if you want Russian and you don't say it, but later criticize in a review that it wasn't done that's not fair. Remember we aren't mind readers, but I am sure most ladies are more than happy to accomadate if it's something they are ok with.
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Old 09-26-2012, 01:26 PM   #14
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DONT pm me telling me how much you want to pound my back entrance good & hard...in your introduction pm & make it worse not even give any references. Lol
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Old 09-28-2012, 05:05 PM   #15
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JJ..DID YOU HAVE TO LIST EVERYTHING WE DID LAST WEEK WHEN I RAN INTO YOU AT WALMART?

jeesh.

............nothings sacred anymore.
Did he really do that to you?
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