Restraints/spanking 101 wanted
Hi all,
I have an FWB that has brought up the subject of her being tied/restrained and being spanked (either together or separately) and I'm somewhat embarassed to say its challenging my imagination. It's not an area I have any experience in but with/for her I'm willing to give it a go. So do any of you have any suggestions, ideas, tips, things to try, or things to avoid while I plan for this (probably sometime next week and she wants me to surprise her).
Safe word: This is a given
Location: A hotel
Restraints: What's better/preferable for the first time? Fuzzy handcuffs? Soft rope? Just tied up, or tied down (immobilized)?
What to do once she is restrained? Tease? Spank? Oral? Intercourse? Candles/wax (is this too advanced)?
Spanking: How hard for the first time? Manual or use devices? For how long?
Outfits: Is there anything to wear that makes it better?
Things I know she's into: intercourse, oral (both), fingers for her, objects for her, kissing, sensuality/tease, occasional spanks during sex, massage (both)
Are there some basic mistakes to avoid?
I would especially like some views from the ladies as to why ladies find this erotic/exciting. She seemed to be getting horny just talking about it (I was too but for different reasons).
I did some searches on several Eccie forums and on the web, but there's almost too much info available or its for people looking for something more extreme than I am.
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