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funseeker · 02-10-2013, 01:17 AM

I recently discovered, by accident mind you that my ex girlfriend/ex fiancée is escorting down in Austin. Apparently has been for the past
2 years. She claimed she didn't while we were together, but how would
I really know.
My question is.... Has anyone here ever discovered their wife, girlfriend, or ex was ever in the hobby. Ladies, this includes you as well. If so, how would you react? Would you break up, divorce them, etc. or since you are in the hobby yourselves would you just allow them to continue?

By the way, in case you are curious? When I found out I was upset at first ,
but then we ended up spending the night together. No, she didnt charge me. I think it more of her being my ex.
Anyway, just curious what all of you think.

Brooklyn Sky · 02-10-2013, 01:42 AM

With a doctor appt

threepeckeredbillygoat · 02-10-2013, 03:28 AM

Don't think I would ever be intrested in getting serious with an ex provider.

And no fuckin way with a current one.

Even though I hobby, it doesn't matter. I am a firm believer in the double standard when it comes to my real life relationships.

And a question I had out of curosity funseeker. When you reconnected after finding out, was it the same ole same ole as you remembered? Or was there a difference? Had the menu changed, did she seem more eager to please or go out of her way to show you any new tricks she had learned from being in the biz?

Throw up a link to her showcase, brother.

zebra · 02-10-2013, 04:10 AM

I'm not sure if that was appropriate....... ?

Throw up a link to her showcase, brother.

threepeckeredbillygoat · 02-10-2013, 07:05 AM

I'm not sure its inappropriate.

Certainly wasn't meant to be. Just curious.

That's funseekers call.

But there's always somebody that gets offended from out of left field that doesn't have anything to do with the situation.

bule84 · 02-10-2013, 08:26 AM

I would not bother me. I know a couple and she is a provider...they tour together. He just goes out while she has appointments. They have fun with it

I want to comment on the post about never considering having a relationship with an ex provider.....but it would not be nice, so i will keep it to myself

Each of us has different likes, dislikes, and limits....that is what makes the world interesting...would suck if everyone was the same. I think I am a bit more openminded that most

rylstone · 02-10-2013, 08:35 AM

Didn't happen without pictures.

threepeckeredbillygoat · 02-10-2013, 09:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bule84

I want to comment on the post about never considering having a relationship with an ex provider.....but it would not be nice, so i will keep it to myself

Its all good bule, I know its a shitty stance I take on the matter. I even said its a double standard, and isn't fair since I hobby myself. But I know me. And I know if I ever got in a relationship with an ex provider that it would be doomed from the get go, so I just figure why drag someone else through something that I know isn't going to work before hand, knowing it would be my fault and not hers.

Actually I think I would be doing a lady a favor by not putting her through that when it wouldn't be her fault.

Gentlemen Rendezvous · 02-10-2013, 12:26 PM

I would have no problem dating or getting serious with a provider or ex-provider. Obviously, there would be a lot of trust to build up first, and some steps to take on the way

whitechocolate · 02-10-2013, 01:05 PM

Being in a relatiionship with a provider can be very hotttt and a lot of fun if it turns you on that your SO services a lot of men and even women. I personally found it a big turn on. You just need to find the right provider and have good communication.

TexTushHog · 02-10-2013, 04:45 PM

Read The Scot's famous review on the subject.

Luke Skywalker · 02-10-2013, 04:55 PM

My first wife was an escort while we were married. However, I was the only client she had.

MUSHROOM MAN · 02-10-2013, 05:05 PM

I dont have a problem dating a provider since I hobby too, but it would be a different thing being married to one. I think it would be hard to keep the jealousy in check. If you had a wife that was into PSE type activities and you were her only customer, now you are talking, it is a small world when you find your ex providing, lol

Luke Skywalker · 02-10-2013, 05:16 PM

(sarcasm)

Jewish Lawyer · 02-10-2013, 11:07 PM

The Asian women I have asked if they were married or had a boyfriend said they would feel unloved if their man let them have sex with other men. Personally, I like hearing stories about previous sexual encounters women have had, but a surprisingly large number of women are shy about telling me, or they have had uninspiring sex in their lives, or perhaps because they are conditioned, even as providers, to be coy about their sex lives.
I'd have no problem marrying a provider if my wife would share....but she is the jealous type.