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bigtxhorseman · 03-16-2013, 11:56 AM

Its been a while since I've submitted a thread and I probably should've kept it that way....but I've never been accused of being smart.

It has come to my attention as of late, that in more recent provider ads there seems to be a need to state that they love older men. Not all ads make this statement but more and more of the new ads seem to make some similar statement.
Now me being in my early 40's, I am seeing this as a good thing since I'm making my way into the "older" crowd.
But I'm curious as to what started this new trend. Are hobbyist now becoming younger? Are older hobbyists starting to become sort of like AA or Middle Eastern? Or is "Older" a good thing? A badge of honor!

slowmover · 03-16-2013, 12:39 PM

It's where the money is. There was recently a poll that asked ages and older was the majority. Plus I suspect many older guys are one shot and gone or even are ok with a bj or maybe even just want to eat some pussy. To me it's sort of like how everyone is suddenly a MILF.

Amillia_Winter · 03-16-2013, 12:54 PM

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Originally Posted by bigtxhorseman

Its been a while since I've submitted a thread and I probably should've kept it that way....but I've never been accused of being smart.

It has come to my attention as of late, that in more recent provider ads there seems to be a need to state that they love older men. Not all ads make this statement but more and more of the new ads seem to make some similar statement.
Now me being in my early 40's, I am seeing this as a good thing since I'm making my way into the "older" crowd.
But I'm curious as to what started this new trend. Are hobbyist now becoming younger? Are older hobbyists starting to become sort of like AA or Middle Eastern? Or is "Older" a good thing? A badge of honor!

I don't post that in my ads, but I do find older men more sensual, CLEAN, easier to please, WAY more educated in pleasure & great convo. That is just my take on it though.

Fararri · 03-16-2013, 12:59 PM

This is very interesting. I have a hunch that more and more providers may prefer "older" men because of comfort and
compatability reasons. Younger men can also fall into that one shot and they're done crowd. It really just boils down to personal preference.

BBW Katrina · 03-16-2013, 01:30 PM

Older men generally know how to act and present themselves properly more so than younger gents. GENERALLY, NOT EXCLUSIVELY. Simmer down, there are young guys who know how to act, but they are far and few between

Rufnex · 03-16-2013, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Older men generally know how to act and present themselves properly more so than younger gents. GENERALLY, NOT EXCLUSIVELY. Simmer down, there are young guys who know how to act, but they are far and few between

I would be one of the ones who are younger and know how to act

guest032413 · 03-16-2013, 02:37 PM

I don't state that but I have a few times long ago and some of the requests I got all stated that they contacted me simply because I did state that I enjoy older gentleman and that made them feel comfortable contacting such a young provider.
Older gents show more respect, kindness and they make for a better session.
Some but not all younger gents can be very difficult and disrespectful and very cocky.
I have even seen a younger guy and two days later he called me and wanted to stop by for a free session because he assumed he was a great lay and that he is really hot and that I would be begging for his attention.

guest032413 · 03-16-2013, 02:41 PM

Also quite often when I get requests from older gents they tend to ask if I am okay with the age difference? I'm guessing the older gents appreciate it when they know a young provider caters to older gents, could give them more confidence in contacting a provider so young.

bigtxhorseman · 03-16-2013, 02:56 PM

Amillia and Cassie, I do like the way you think!

I was just curious. I do find myself looking for providers at least in their late 20's because of MY age. I may have to rethink my situation. I generally want both of us to have a good time and I often thought that an early 20 something lady may not have be able to enjoy a 40 something guy....
Thanks for your thoughts

guest032413 · 03-16-2013, 03:12 PM

Honestly being with an older gent feels more natural and comfortable to me. Younger guys can make me uneasy and awkward. With me being only 23 I have very little experience with guys closer to my age, I sometimes feel much older than I am and have not lived like my age. Could be that I have been on my own since I was 15 and matured very fast.

Sir Lancehernot · 03-16-2013, 06:14 PM

We older guys don't need to prove our studliness. Hell, we're just happy to see a pretty woman naked. Anything after that is gravy.

Hercules · 03-16-2013, 06:35 PM

It's nothing new. Ive seen women have age requirements since I started this at the tender young age of 35.

pyramider · 03-16-2013, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Cassie Blossom

I have even seen a younger guy and two days later he called me and wanted to stop by for a free session because he assumed he was a great lay and that he is really hot and that I would be begging for his attention.

Oh the delusional youngsters ... They just need to own up that they will never, never be able to compete with my 1.3" of dangling death.

Lookzfun61 · 03-16-2013, 07:25 PM

I feel over qualified at times ..... Damn AARP mailings !!!

Crimson32 · 03-16-2013, 07:38 PM

So what exactly is "Youngsters"? And what exactly do y'all consider "Old"? I go into a bar during ladies night and feel a lot "older" but then I could walk into a Bingo hall on a Wednesday afternoon and feel "younger".. Im much older than a provider that is 21-23, but younger than a provider in her mid to late 40's. I find myself in the younger category considering the statistics prove that the majority of y'all (Hobbiest) are between the ages of 50 and 60.. Not once have I ever had anyone complain about my age, some are surprised but none the less we have an amazing time.. Im strictly in this for the variety and the enjoyment of sex, Im not there to prove anything or expect free sessions because I am younger. I believe for the most part women will have a "preference" but ~ it all depends how the Gent treats her.. Younger or Older for that matter-- I've heard some pretty horrible stories from providers that say shit about older gents as well.. So just with Age; does not mean some one will act a certain way. It's more about respect and honoring boundaries...