These ladies have msog listed in their activities on P411?
Perhaps when you make your appt request or your pre screening request you could mention you are interested in msog. Most ladies won't discuss activities. However, When introducing yourself (while saying all the nice things to get a ladies attention) you mention you would like msog.
For example in your pre screening or appt request on P411...
Hi xyz, I love your profile and reviews. I would love to spend some time with a lady of your caliber. You seem to enjoy "this" or "that" and I do too.
I also love msog. Hope that works for you. If so, I look forward to hearing back from you. Also, I really connect with (name the two providers who offer you msog with whom you've repeated) on my okay list. If you check with them they might give you insight into what type of gentleman I am and how I spend my time with a lady. Downside is the xyz provider needs a bit of time to contact these ladies and wait for their response before she gets back with you. So you might not get any "right now" appts. Plus side is you get your msog
I think the line i put in
bold is key. It lets her know yet she doesn't have to answer about activities directly. She either declines the appt, accepts, or tells you off because she didn't read the subtley. Hopefully that won't matter because she checks with the two ladies you mentioned. Be sure to ask those two ladies if they will let any ladies inquiring about you know you are msog (they can put it in the notes box) That keeps xyz provider from directly talking about activities with you. It's done through the ladies. If those two ladies are sharing and caring
I think communication is key. It's awkward, I know. Just don't expect them to answer directly to any activities.
Edit to say....yes, those are subtle hints that time is up. I'm impressed you understood the hints. Just wish it was closer to the hour time you paid for with her.