Appropriate attire

[green_betta]

This might seem like a silly question, but what would be the appropriate attire for us guys to show up in for an appt? Or more specifically, is it ok to show up in a suit or business wear? i have this concern of looking too out of place if i show up at an incall (ie low end motel) after leaving the office. Or maybe i'm just paranoid...

how do you women prefer we dress?

[Guest102513-1]

I always like dressing up as a scarecrow.....keeps those pesky birds away. And with an envelope, marked with a big bold red marker, DONATION

Seriously, I'm thinking as long as you show up on time, with the proper donation, not acting like a jerk and not smelling like a scarecrow....well beyond that, you might be over thinking things

And of course, the same in return. She does in fact confirm your appt., does in fact text/calls you in a reasonable time for directions, doesn't leave you sitting in the parking lot,does not have a room that a 3rd World person would be embarrassed about, also does not smell like a scarecrow, etc, etc.

BTW, really not trying to be a smart ass....just some friendly advice to do your research, build your references, think w/ the big head...at least until showtime....and then just relax and have fun.

[DestinyInKC]

A suit is fine. Could always say you are my attorney or something if someone asked...

[KCSmutMonkey]

Yeah, you will probably get more looks for following a girl half your age back to her hotel room than from whatever your dress level.

[hairyhoudini]

I treat all my encounters like a first date with a hot girl that I want to impress,(Freshly showered,shaved and trimmed where need be, dress nice,fresh breath, etc.) because I may want to see them again. I want the lady to feel the same way. PS a suit at a motel 6 maybe not but I will still dress nice but a suit at a nicer hotel no problem.PS just take the jacket and tie off if you are uncomfortable.

[Wizard of Ahhhhs]

As a guy who does his playing during the weekday (either early morning breakfast meetings or extended lunch meetings), I will take the suitcoat and tie off prior to arrival, so I'm just in pants and dress shirt.

[sweet.countrygirl]

Long dark trench coat cowboy hat covering eyes big boots nothing to suspicions......

I don't mind the suit at all especially if your wearing a tie darling wear what you feel comfortable in love that's what matters :x

[Grizzly]

Originally Posted by sweet.countrygirl

Long dark trench coat cowboy hat covering eyes big boots nothing to suspicions......

I don't mind the suit at all especially if your wearing a tie darling wear what you feel comfortable in love that's what matters :x

ok Tori, I will show up in nothing but a black duster and cowboy boots.

[sweet.countrygirl]

Think it be time for a hay ride and picking some wild flowers I got a spot way back in the woods we can go to darling

[sweet.countrygirl]

Originally Posted by Grizzly

ok Tori, I will show up in nothing but a black duster and cowboy boots.

Now that's some sexiness right there darling but you need the hat to ill wear it
I'll hold you to it lol ill b wearing mine as well lol

[Dondo7]

Who wears a suit and tie anymore? You guys must be real old

[sweet.countrygirl]

Ties can be very useful my darling
Age is just a state in your mind only u can decide to feel to act young or old my love

[The DarkSide]

I wear a suit and tie! It would be the last thing I want to show up with! My attire is what I would use to go to a strip club, shorts with easy access and a beer!

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

TBH it depends on the hotel you're coming to ..... sometimes a suit is stuffy and too much. Really just look clean and try not to look out of place. Some hotels are more business-minded (get more business types), some are more family oriented, tourist oriented etc.

[i'va biggen]

A barrel with suspenders and a sign stating I'm a John.