Sugar Baby

[Citori]

So I've been trying my hand at the local to STL Sugar Babies. I know there is a thread for this alone, but I can see that when I don't have full access.

So far my efforts at find a SB while in STL has been one meet and greet that result in me buying a lunch and no arrangement.


Any other gents like me looking for a STL sugar baby?

[TheDoc]

Have you tried some of the sugar baby sites? Like Seekingarrangement? Or arrangement finders? Seems like a fairly target rich environment.

[Citori]

I'm on a couple of those sites with paid membership.

The amount of first responses is very high, the follow-up with these SB are weak.

And some of them are not too bright. They respond with their real name, I can find them on Facebook, and then they stop responding.

[sweet.nikki88]

I tried out a few of those sites but never really had any luck.... From what I understand you will be going through a lot of lunch dates before someone will commit... Hope you can find what you are looking for!

[bluffcityguy]

Originally Posted by sweet.nikki88

I tried out a few of those sites but never really had any luck.... From what I understand you will be going through a lot of lunch dates before someone will commit...

That makes a bit of sense, though... I don't know how it is from the lady's perspective, but keep in mind that for a lot of hobbyists their motto is: "I don't pay you for sex, I pay for you to leave afterwards." A sugardaddy/sugarbaby relationship doesn't have that dynamic; it's more of a "girlfriend with explicit financial benefits understood". Given that, it's more important that there be very good chemistry between the parties, because it's intended that they'll be spending more time together more often than in an escort/client relationship...

That's how I see it, anyway...

Cheers,

bcg

[2tits]

I have had good success finding SB from the various sites. The major problem is one of managing expectations. Many of the girls assume guys are going to pay 1500+ per month for them. I make in the upper 93% income bracket. With family obligations I couldn't afford that. So I lucked out and have found a few real SB types which wanted friends with benefits. Worked great for me. Don't get me wrong, I still spent nearly a grand a month, but I would have spent that anyway being married (again) or in a committed relationship .... so this was icing on the cake for me.