NBA Policies from Providers

[Austins1hobby]

I understand race is a soar subject with most ppl, however I am beginning to notice an increase number of girls upon arrival state that "sorry I do not see AA's". It would be a great idea if you listed that somewhere on your profile so an AA would not even think about looking you up. I do understand some pimps do not allow their girls to see AA's and some ladies have there own preference which is respected, but please consider placing this important fact somewhere in your showcase it saves us time gas and frustration. I really just do not understand how race even is still a factor in 2013 but it is and will never go anywhere especially here in the states unfortunately. I personally thought green was and is the only color that matters but some still live in the 50's I guess.

[Yssup Rider]

Wow! I thought this was a basketball thread!

[Candi Staxx]

Thats such a horribly awkward moment for an Escort to turn someone down due to the color of they're skin, sorry if and when you or anyone is subjected to that!
I agree, if for some odd reason that does matter to lady, she should definitely make it known yes. As long as I can verify a Gentlemen, color means absolutely nothing, nor do I see why it would even matter IMO.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

I understand race is a soar subject with most ppl, however I am beginning to notice an increase number of girls upon arrival state that "sorry I do not see AA's". It would be a great idea if you listed that somewhere on your profile so an AA would not even think about looking you up. I do understand some pimps do not allow their girls to see AA's and some ladies have there own preference which is respected, but please consider placing this important fact somewhere in your showcase it saves us time gas and frustration. I really just do not understand how race even is still a factor in 2013 but it is and will never go anywhere especially here in the states unfortunately. I personally thought green was and is the only color that matters but some still live in the 50's I guess.

Yes, it sucks...however might I suggest you be proactive and disclose this upfront? Save yourself the frustration and some providers may make an exception because you were so forthcoming.

[shayla84]

It stinks yes, and I am a lover of all races, BUT...Its a ladys preference just like its a males preference to not see bbws or spinners, or people with brown hair...
But I do agree they need to put it somewhere on showcase or signiture, thats not right to do that to someone and waste peoples time not only that but making another feel bad. Sorry this happed sweets, xoxo

[Little Monster]

[Austins1hobby]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Yes, it sucks...however might I suggest you be proactive and disclose this upfront? Save yourself the frustration and some providers may make an exception because you were so forthcoming.

Well Sweetie when I am searching for a potential provider looking through ads I am not thinking about my skin color but instead which provider catches my eye. Time and heart ache would definitely be saved when looking at an ad and seeing on their showcase that they do not see AA's. Hobbyist correct me if I am wrong but does a Caucasian have to reveal or be forthcoming when you contact a provider? All I am saying most of us hobbyist when we see a ad first thing we do is look at pictures then read up on reviews that were posted and then rates but not in that order so if I were to see on their showcase that they do not see AA's then I would stop looking and would not even bother contacting that provider.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Well Sweetie when I am searching for a potential provider looking through ads I am not thinking about my skin color but instead which provider catches my eye. Time and heart ache would definitely be saved when looking at an ad and seeing on their showcase that they do not see AA's. Hobbyist correct me if I am wrong but does a Caucasian have to reveal or be forthcoming when you contact a provider? All I am saying most of us hobbyist when we see a ad first thing we do is look at pictures then read up on reviews that were posted and then rates but not in that order so if I were to see on their showcase that they do not see AA's then I would stop looking and would not even bother contacting that provider.

Yes, "Sweetie" I get it, but I'm saying that many of the ladies who don't post it up front, may have a different view when you nicely state something like the following:

Dear Blanca del Ivory,

I'm a mature and respectful, professional 35 yo AA male (6'0", 200 lbs, clean cut). I've looked at your profile and I'm very interested because you seem wonderful, beautiful and have all the qualities I really admire in an open minded lady. Please let me know if I would be able to schedule an appointment with you in the next few days (Thursday afternoon is best for me) and what kind of screening information you require. I have several current references I can provide upon your request. I look forward to hearing back from you.

Kindest regards,
Austin

That way neither of you are being forced to make race the deciding factor...and she has all the pertinent info upfront.

I also suggest not using terms like "sweetie," it rubs some ladies the wrong way and can seem a bit condescending unless you know the lady well. ijs

Just my thoughts, in a perfect world, you wouldn't have to deal with this, but the world isn't perfect. Sometimes taking control of a difficult situation makes me feel like it's a little closer to perfect for me at least...

[Austins1hobby]

I will definitely keep that in mind and I normally reframe from using sweetie unless I do know the lady. My apologies if I came off condescending. It may just be me but my only question when sending a request is "are you available" or "I would love to schedule a meeting" and once a reply is made I then volunteer info. To me if race mattered so much to them then they should then ask what is your race? This is a great hobby to me and I love what I do here and plus I am the customer in this situation. Not to seem too rough around the edges but even back in the 40's and 50's restaurant and business owners had signs posted No Blacks. ijs

I do respect what you are saying and I might even try that once or twice to see how far it gets me.

[Mr.Crowley]

Where it says premium access put tasty chocolate or something like Bad Boris did. I'm not saying you should be required to, and I don't condone racism, but when PMing a provider they would see it, and could tell you, keeping you from having your time wasted. It is a shame that it is an issue, but might be a timesaver for your hobbying.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

I will definitely keep that in mind and I normally reframe from using sweetie unless I do know the lady. My apologies if I came off condescending. It may just be me but my only question when sending a request is "are you available" or "I would love to schedule a meeting" and once a reply is made I then volunteer info. To me if race mattered so much to them then they should then ask what is your race? This is a great hobby to me and I love what I do here and plus I am the customer in this situation. Not to seem too rough around the edges but even back in the 40's and 50's restaurant and business owners had signs posted No Blacks. ijs

I do respect what you are saying and I might even try that once or twice to see how far it gets me.

FYI, that note is the same I'd suggest to any hobbyist of any color.

[playingnthedark]

WTF, She should just put it in her showcase or ad. He is not the racist. She is. So stop all the bullshit……He should not have to do any thing on this board, that other men don't do (PERIOD)

And PUSSY spelled sdrawkcab STFU!

[Mr.Crowley]

Originally Posted by playingnthedark

WTF, She should just put it in her showcase or ad. He is not the racist. She is. So stop all the bullshit……He should not have to do any thing on this board, that other men don't do (PERIOD)

And PUSSY spelled sdrawkcab STFU!

Really??? playingnthedark you've already done what you're telling him not to do! So why not STFU! The chicks that have NBA policy that don't list are not going to because non racist will be offended, and they far outnumber the racist. ssa ym ssik os.

[gfx]

Originally Posted by Candi Staxx

Thats such a horribly awkward moment for an Escort to turn someone down due to the color of they're skin, sorry if and when you or anyone is subjected to that!
I agree, if for some odd reason that does matter to lady, she should definitely make it known yes. As long as I can verify a Gentlemen, color means absolutely nothing, nor do I see why it would even matter IMO.

+1

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by playingnthedark

WTF, She should just put it in her showcase or ad. He is not the racist. She is. So stop all the bullshit……He should not have to do any thing on this board, that other men don't do (PERIOD)

And PUSSY spelled sdrawkcab STFU!

I'm not here to discuss girls and their silly policies...but rather give a good tip that will enhance his hobby experience and cut down on aggravation.

My opinion is that taking control of the situation is better than sitting around and griping with a wussy, that's not fair attitude like you have.