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Eva Damita · 01-16-2015, 07:25 PM

Mallory, the more you respond, the less you make sense and prove us all correct in our skepticism. Please, invest in even an education at Paul Quinn Community College so you can A) communicate efficiently and effectively B) to be better equipped as a mother.

I hate to say this, but unfortunately society sees all sex workers as a typical Mallory. Don't be a societal statistic - there is no future in it. Give up everything that is preventing you from getting your children back. Honest, I will pray for you and especially your innocent babies. When a child is taken from MOTHER, it's serious, not child's play, hearsay, etc.

Get well

wellendowed1911 · 01-16-2015, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Mallory Ray

no that is what I said

Mallory, I don't you from Adam's house cat and I tried to give you the benefit of the doubt- it's been stated that at least one person has already took you to get food- are you expecting every day someone to bring you food? Because it goes back to the old saying: "Buy a man a fish and he will eat for a day- teach a man to fish and he will eat for a lifetime.."
You are improving your situation by daily asking for food hand outs- now I have no trouble buying someone food- but forking over cash with the hope that you will purchase "food" is not happening at least not with me, but people have stated valid points-what shelter doesn't feed it's residents? Are their any family members that can help you. Where are your "friends" if I said it a million times- if you want to know who your true friends are call them up when you are down and out.

melannie_star · 01-16-2015, 07:31 PM

Mallory.. I really want you to know that a lot of us ladies have made bad choices in our life at one point or another. It may seem like everyone is against you right now, but after reading everyone's comments I do not think the ladies are meaning it to be ugly towards you. None of us know you. What we do know about you so far is only what has been shared. I for one, wish I could tell you an easy way out that will be the cure to all life's problems. Unfortunately I cant.. What I can assume is that you are alone with out family or friends to help you. This is a time for tough love from all of us. Only because I know where this path can lead you if you do not make steps to get your life in order. This may all sound like just words right now, and honestly I am worried about you. If I was in a position to help I would.. unfortunately I can not.

What I can do is not make it any harder on you by telling you all things you have probably already told yourself. I am sure you have already been through the front and back of your mind wondering how the hell you got here. You are a Mother, Daughter, and a Human being most of all. No matter what happens from here on out.. Take care of yourself because you deserve it.

Look at it this way, If you have not hit your bottom yet. This will be a good time to be real with yourself and humble yourself to what it is you really need. Personally I think you should not leave the shelter. I am sure that is not where you really want to be right now and despite what anyone says,. I do believe you need to be there. This World is a dangerous place and I know thinking out of desperation or on impulse can lead somewhere even darker than the place you are in now. Talk to some of the ladies in your shelter. I guarantee you may have more in common with them than you think.
No matter how you got to be there.. You are there and you are safe.

Again.. This may all seem like words right now.. and it is not going to make sense. I do not want to down you or make you feel bad. Stay strong and know that you can make this change. Once you do.. and do it all on your own, You will be a better person because of it. I really will keep you in my prayers and if you want to pm me feel free to. I am sorry if I rambled on too much. You are a beautiful girl and once you know that about yourself, you will see what all the ladies have been trying to tell you.

When all else fails... Give it to God.

Melissa Madyson · 01-16-2015, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Mallory Ray

no I asked them if I was going to jail and they said no and I said I wanted help and to get out of this business cuz u have a child to story about and they said they were here to help me I want trying to avoid going to jail.....so....... I'm not trying to use anyone cuz I don't want no one using me

When the police are going to arrest you on pros. charges, especially on a 2nd time offence, they don't hesitate to arrest you on the spot. YOU clearly told ME that it was gonna be your 2nd offence so that is when you concocted this story of being trafficked to avoid the jail time.

The child you have does NOT deserve to be the center of your obvious BS.

You told me you were staying with this man and his wife, and that he drove you to your calls, and that is when you got busted.

If YOU truly want out, then DO IT!! Don't put others who would have tried to help you at RISK, and make people feel sorry for you.

If you are over the age of accountability,(18+), you darn well know what you are doing and if you truly want a better life then you will try and do so, not sit on here all day and respond to this threAD....

You are taking up real space for real people who are abused, and worse just to avoid something you created upon yourself. YOU got busted, so YOU should of took your lick.

Were you thinking at all about your child when this happened?? If you wouldn't have been caught would you still have said you wanted out. This is NOT a pity party... Boo -hoo.

Some of us ladies and gentlemen actually love the hobby, and you my dear are still a child playing a grown ups game...

You just made a birthday so you say in another threAD, so act like you are 25. I know if I am 46 almost 47 years old, and I can make it, you are nearly half my age, and should be able to really take off.

CPS just doesn't baby snatch kids, you have to be doing something pretty lame to get the child taken from you...
So if you truly want out, then ACCEPT all of the help the SHELTER offers you, if you are just looking for a quick fix to get out of jail, then you will definitely reap what you have sewn.

I hope you grow up and realize that what you have done is LIED to the police, LIED to us, and LIED to yourself.

I feel really stupid , for almost believing and helping you. And you see why I wouldn't western union you some monies??

Please save yourself some dignity, and put a stop to this useless threAD...

M.M.

wellendowed1911 · 01-16-2015, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Melissa Madyson

When the police are going to arrest you on pros. charges, especially on a 2nd time offence, they don't hesitate to arrest you on the spot. YOU clearly told ME that it was gonna be your 2nd offence so that is when you concocted this story of being trafficked to avoid the jail time.

The child you have does NOT deserve to be the center of your obvious BS.

You told me you were staying with this man and his wife, and that he drove you to your calls, and that is when you got busted.

If YOU truly want out, then DO IT!! Don't put others who would have tried to help you at RISK, and make people feel sorry for you.

If you are over the age of accountability,(18+), you darn well know what you are doing and if you truly want a better life then you will try and do so, not sit on here all day and respond to this threAD....

You are taking up real space for real people who are abused, and worse just to avoid something you created upon yourself. YOU got busted, so YOU should of took your lick.

Were you thinking at all about your child when this happened?? If you wouldn't have been caught would you still have said you wanted out. This is NOT a pity party... Boo -hoo.

Some of us ladies and gentlemen actually love the hobby, and you my dear are still a child playing a grown ups game...

You just made a birthday so you say in another threAD, so act like you are 25. I know if I am 46 almost 47 years old, and I can make it, you are nearly half my age, and should be able to really take off.

CPS just doesn't baby snatch kids, you have to be doing something pretty lame to get the child taken from you...
So if you truly want out, then ACCEPT all of the help the SHELTER offers you, if you are just looking for a quick fix to get out of jail, then you will definitely reap what you have sewn.

I hope you grow up and realize that what you have done is LIED to the police, LIED to us, and LIED to yourself.

I feel really stupid , for almost believing and helping you. And you see why I wouldn't western union you some monies??

Please save yourself some dignity, and put a stop to this useless threAD...

M.M.

+10000 also Mallory- if you truly want to be out of this profession/business which I honestly think you will return to one day- you would not in anyways be connected with this site. If this is your 2nd offense it's time to wake up and put all of this behind you.

Guest021817-2 · 01-16-2015, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Mallory Ray

dude it wasn't my fault

That is probably..... Your problem.........

I bet.. nothing EVER is your fault.... The world is conspiring against you..

TheRealJohnnyRingo · 01-16-2015, 08:23 PM

Hey mods how about a mercy killing for this thread. Please

Bridgette Ann · 01-16-2015, 08:25 PM

I know I was harsh on her before. So I'm gonna lay this out there. Every one of us girls are not trying to bash you. But we see a train wreck only one person can stop and that person is YOU!

We've all had struggles especially as providers. I have hit rock bottom and I left eccie for a while was in a shelter and started waitressing. I only came back when the puzzle pieces of my life made more sense and I could make goals. Long term stable goals to move forward.

If you had come to me and I'm sure fellow providers in honesty and with a true desire to change to be a woman who respects herself and her childrens future and carries herself with her head up despite the circumstances. We all would of handed you resources you needed to start over and leave this chapter behind you and help you along the way.

I wish you nothing but the best. Love yourself and love your kids

broes · 01-16-2015, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Mallory, the more you respond, the less you make sense and prove us all correct in our skepticism. Please, invest in even an education at Paul Quinn Community College so you can A) communicate efficiently and effectively B) to be better equipped as a mother.Get well

So having a mixed kid gets white girls into historically black colleges? Does she have to carry the kid around with her when she is on campus as her student ID?

Mallory Ray · 01-16-2015, 09:11 PM

I'm trying to leave this fucking life ugh. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO DO THIS NO MORE OK. THANK YOU

Grace Preston · 01-16-2015, 09:22 PM

Then leave. You are currently supposed to be in a shelter that is specifically designed to get ladies out. If you would get the fuck off the hooker board and do the things you are supposed to do, you will reach your goal. I guarantee you are not supposed to be here... yeah, you're asking for food-- but they DO provide food where you are.. you just don't want it. That falls under the heading of "suck it up, buttercup".

It is not easy. It is not meant to be easy. Not a damn thing in life worth having is easy!! But it also won't happen if you keep violating the rules you are supposed to be following. Tough love... nothing more, nothing less. You have at your fingers all the resources needed, you just have to have the will.

wellendowed1911 · 01-16-2015, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Mallory Ray

I'm trying to leave this fucking life ugh. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO DO THIS NO MORE OK. THANK YOU

Mallory if you saw an alcoholic at a Liquor store and he told you I really want to stop drinking because I don't want to do this no more- would you see the irony? You want to leave this business and yet you are asking for help on a hooker board? You are quickly losing credibility- if you don't want to do this anymore- deactivate your account and seek some help.

Crzytxn · 01-16-2015, 10:43 PM

I need to apologize for the shit I said earlier in this thread. As I don't know the lady.If this hobby is not for her, and she wants out, I wish her the best. On the other hand Mallory, I think you've been given good advice by some of these ladies. Texas has a lot of resources available to help you. Probably even CPS, can help guide you down the right path. But you're being on here is kinda like an alcoholic that's trying to quit drinking, hanging out in a bar. Doesn't make any sense. In addition, it probably violates the rules of the shelter where you are staying.
Good luck to you

TexasCowboy · 01-17-2015, 12:08 AM

I would like to voice my insight whether it is taken in a positive manner will be seen for there is no harm.....Has the fact been proven that the OP is in shelter, or is she asking everyone for money and seeing just how many fish are going to bite the hook...

The shelter will feed her, watch the kids while she works in the daytime for a small fee and the state or social services will help with other avenues such as living assistance and money, programs to go to school and a roof over her head. So the final catch is just how many individuals can she get money from for free, this adds up depending on just how good the sob story is told to others.

Guest031919 · 01-17-2015, 08:48 AM

If you do have shingles, I wish you a speedy recovery. I've heard how terribly painful they can be. Sometimes God has a way of slowing you down or steering you in another direction through what can (at the time) seem like a crisis..
Good luck to you and I hope you feel better.

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