Donations BEFORE or AFTER The Session..

[Hobby Jon]

Originally Posted by xxpokeracexx

Nina, don't you think it is safer to get the money 1st, go and deposit it in at the bank and then come back and start the session so that he does not steal it back from you?

BAHAHAHAHA!!

[phildo]

Just pay the bitches up front, it solves so many problems.

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by xxpokeracexx

Nina, don't you think it is safer to get the money 1st, go and deposit it in at the bank and then come back and start the session so that he does not steal it back from you?

I'm not sure if this is sarcasm or not but OF COURSE I'm NOT going to go to the bank while I'm with my client. I know how to handle a asshole if he gets crazy . he sits the donations down in my dresser draw, I close the draw, and we get to business. I'm very alert in my business. U can't walk over me & get away with it.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by phildo

Just pay the bitches up front, it solves so many problems.

Oh boy

[beachcomber789]

Originally Posted by Nina_Love

My lips just might make u rethink that. I'm very good and even though I get donations first u would WANT to tip after so DONT knock it till u tried it babes

But as someone else said, history on here & p411....if you do your research you will know that the hobbyist is not going screw you...oops I meant rip you off

[Nina the Dicknapper]

Originally Posted by beachcomber789

But as someone else said, history on here & p411....if you do your research you will know that the hobbyist is not going screw you...oops I meant rip you off

And Same Way for you baby. If you do your research on me u will know I do not and will not rip u off, upsell u, or provide lame sessions. Gone head put your donations on my dresser & let's get to work baby

[Hobby Jon]

Originally Posted by beachcomber789

But as someone else said, history on here & p411....if you do your research you will know that the hobbyist is not going screw you...oops I meant rip you off

Not always true. Had a lady that had been around for a long time with lots of reviews "disappear" when I was getting in the elevator at her apartments and realized I left something there. I called, sent text, and left messages. Bitch just never answered and stole my stuff. Like I said don't trust anyone in this game and always remember that's exactly what it is and somehow everyone always interprets the rule book for either side as....get as much as you can from the other side (hopefully ethically but if you have to bend the rules just don't get caught) Anyone who doesn't want to admit that should just laydown their donation right here for me. lol

[Bliss of DFW]

I don't ask for the donation up front but because I've never had an issue, I treat the visit like most Coorporate American buisnesses where I provide the service first then handle the transaction at the end. But if I start running into problems, then I may have to change it up.

[bojulay]

Originally Posted by jmoor

Not always true. Had a lady that had been around for a long time with lots of reviews "disappear" when I was getting in the elevator at her apartments and realized I left something there. I called, sent text, and left messages. Bitch just never answered and stole my stuff. Like I said don't trust anyone in this game and always remember that's exactly what it is and somehow everyone always interprets the rule book for either side as....get as much as you can from the other side (hopefully ethically but if you have to bend the rules just don't get caught) Anyone who doesn't want to admit that should just laydown their donation right here for me. lol

I had the opposite happen.
I left a fairly expensive leather jacket behind in a closet and the girl started texting me,
even offered to meet me somewhere half way sense it had been
a little while. I was like wow..... that was a cool thing to do.
I went back and she was in the parking lot with it.

[lily blake]

And this is why I no longer see hobbyists... They think this is a fucking game.

[Hobby Jon]

Originally Posted by lily blake

And this is why I no longer see hobbyists... They think this is a fucking game.

Not trying to be a dick but...... you just hang out on these sites then because....... your looking to pay for some strange?

[lily blake]

Originally Posted by jmoor

Not trying to be a dick but...... you just hang out on these sites then because....... your looking to pay for some strange?

When I get bored I check out the dallas coed... Sue me

[jdkees]

Originally Posted by lily blake

When I get bored I check out the dallas coed... Sue me

So, how you doin?

[moondoggiz69]

I am so dick stupid ... I have to donate first thing as I walk in, because providers like bella ,bliss ,and Cassandra make me forget it's a hobby....gfe....u know...

[L.A.]

Congrats Nina, your topic has created a 6 page thread so far so it seems this topic is pretty relevant.
Apart from Lily who never has anything positive to contribute you're getting some good discussions.

I've already commented on this a couple of times but I thought about it a little more.
I rarely see anybody new. I almost always go see my ATF. And even when I see her I almost always lay the money down before we get started. Not too long ago I didn't and I had already gotten undressed and on the bed. I then remembered I didn't leave her anything yet and to help me and her remember I just asked her to not let me get dressed when done and leave without paying. Just saying that helped me remember.

Another time during my AMP days I truly forgot to pay. She was so nice and didn't say a word. I realized it on my way home so I called and talked to her. She was so nice and told me to just come see her again and that would be good enough. I did make a special trip to see her the next day just to pay her the fee plus a little extra for being so sweet. I then saw her almost weekly for the next couple of years.

One other time I saw somebody who was on here a lot, had been reviewed a lot, placed lots of ads. She had an ad for a certain amount which is what I brought. We had talked about my session in chat, and thru PM for a few days ahead. When I got to her incall and pre-paid she told me that wasn't enough and for my session it would be the full rate and not the rate in her latest ad. She kept 100 and gave me back the rest and I left. I got me a $100 hug that day. That was the only time I've ever been burned in the hobby.

I'm not telling these boring stories to say what's right or wrong. I'm not telling anybody what they should or should not do. These are just 3 things I remember that are relevant to paying and how things can work or not work out with the donation.

If the provider wants me to pay up front then I'm going to pay up front if I haven't remembered to already. If I lose $200 to some type of scam then I've lost $200 and the next provider I see...I'm STILL going to pay her however she prefers.