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SweetSuzanna · 09-02-2015, 07:04 PM

I mean come on, we all have favorites. Some people we just click with, personality wise, and also in the bedroom.

Chemistry exists, and sometimes I REALLY feel it.

So what are the rules here
-can i message him and tell him how hot things were between us, or will he just think i am making cold calls

-should i just say what a great time i had and would like to see him again?

I dont want to be pushy or act like a salesperson, but some of you hot men i really, really wanna see again! pretty please?

BigDeal · 09-02-2015, 07:23 PM

Honey you can tell me right here go ahead I wont blush...go ahead tell me all your wildest dreams and how I can make them cum true!!

LOL

equation · 09-02-2015, 07:39 PM

Tell him you are in a generous mood and offer a freebie. He will certainly get the hint.

BigDeal · 09-02-2015, 08:01 PM

I would think from experience that one would try not to blur those lines just based on history IMO

Emmie · 09-02-2015, 08:11 PM

I agree with Big Deal on this. Honey, that is a very slippery slope and one that should really NOT be messed with.

DallasRain · 09-02-2015, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Emmie

I agree with Big Deal on this. Honey, that is a very slippery slope and one that should really NOT be messed with.

ditto......I have several clients I am close with and adore as "close friends"......but be careful and keep the line where it should be.

have fun babe!

Savannah Moon · 09-02-2015, 11:21 PM

Been there. Be careful, they think you want to run off to BORA BORA with them & live happily ever after

...JS...
It's an amazing feeling to have chemistry.. FUCKING AMAZING, but, I personally wouldn't ever take it any further.

stacy in kc · 09-03-2015, 12:40 AM

Stick to business, be professional. Let your guard down. offer a freebie and he will never pay you again. Cut him off, that's when the trouble starts.
Don't play with fire and you won't get burned.
I've been there and done that, I'm lucky to be alive.
Stay safe sweetie.

SweetSuzanna · 09-03-2015, 05:58 AM

Ok, i guess that came out wrong. What i meant was what if i think you are hot and i want to f your brains out!
You are a good customer, we had an amazing time. Can i tell u or pm you and ask to see u? Or just wait by the phone and hope your sexy ass calls me!
No, i didnt mean like a relationship

MrNyceGuy · 09-03-2015, 06:11 AM

Sure, if it were me, and I think it was, IM me. Tell me the time you spent with me was incredible and that if Im interested, offer me a special rate to intice me back. . Maybe 50-75 bucks off your hour rate. Tell me you faked orgasms with guys but with me, you are so excited you actually cum. Tell me I can cum in your mouth next time too. Do whatever it takes. Then when I am there, if the hour turns into 1 hr 20 munutes, who cares, just tell me I can leave till I make you cum again. It will boost my ego, you get a secy man to fuck, you get paid, everyone is happy. Only offer me anal if you really are into me and want to cum really hard.You get the point!

cmore197474 · 09-03-2015, 06:11 AM

I think it's ok to tell them you enjoyed the time. Maybe tell.then they qualify for a special preferred customer rate. That keeps it business, but increases the chances he will come back soon and often.

Guest013121 · 09-03-2015, 06:17 AM

The op didn't say anything about freebies--not sure why it's being discussed as she had...

If you want to tell him you had a great time, then tell him! I guarantee that will excite him to see you again!

Unique_Carpenter · 09-03-2015, 06:30 AM

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Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Ok, i guess that came out wrong. What i meant was what if i think you are hot and i want to f your brains out!
You are a good customer, we had an amazing time. Can i tell u or pm you and ask to see u? Or just wait by the phone and hope your sexy ass calls me!
No, i didnt mean like a relationship

But, either way, sometimes that's how a slippery slope, as Emmie mentions, starts.
Are there rules? No. So, as others have said, common sense must be in place.
Note Dallas' and Savannah's comments.
And, omg, favorites can turn into friends. Again, as others have said, boundary lines.
Frankly, I think there's benefits with a long term arrangement, even if it happens to be infrequent. A key item being quite easy for both folks to shift into GF/BF mode and have a lot of fun. But, those may take a while to develop.

So... a cold call? How would you actually phrase that? A key item being, how do you think the guy would understand that? Note Gemma's comment on that item.

winslow44 · 09-03-2015, 06:41 AM

I think it would be cool as fuck if "someone" called me because of the crazy sexual chemistry we had! I really do believe that chemistry exists! I was with a provider that neither of us wanted it to end. Everything that night was incredible! We had that "it"factor!!!!! I would be mature enough to know it was only sex she was calling about unless something else came up in our discussion, then the slippery slope begins. So if "someone" is reading this, I'm still sore!!!! Hee hee

lovethickgirls · 09-03-2015, 07:04 AM

I love it when a woman tells me I'm better at something than most of the other guys it's a huge ego boost for me..... personally if a provider went out of her way to tell me that she had a wonderful time with me and couldn't wait to do it again that would probably be enough to have me coming back for more it's much more enjoyable when everyone's having fun...... girls with no enthusiasm suck lol .......so ladies if you see me and we have a great time and you wanna do it again feel free to tell me you will probably end up with me as a new regular......... we like to heat that shit and most of us keep it professional