Sorry for the OP's troubles, but as a guy, I'll say this much (not to pile on or anything). When we see you logged on (that little dot in the corner is lit green), and/or have placed an ad stating some measure of availability, and you're our 'provider of the day', i.e. we've narrowed our search down to YOU (because there's sooooo many of you), we send a pm or email, and expect a response.
After all you ARE logged on, and you DID place an ad. You did place the ad, right? I mean, it was YOU, and not somebody else who, has access to your account, pretending to be you? To us guys, and yeah, we may be a bit horny and thinking with other parts of our bodies, logged on and ad placement means go for if, you're the one we want to see today.
If you're logged on AND have an ad placed, but you're walking through the mall with your BF, how are we supposed to know that? Green dot and ad looks, feels, sounds, appears to, suggests that you're ready to set up appointments.
If you're not available, just let us know, and we'll put you at the bottom of our 'to see' list. If guys are like me, there's a shitload of ladies on the list. If you get bumped to the bottom, I may never reach out to you again (my list is long. Long.)
Is there anything I'm not taking into consideration on the part of the ladies here??
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