Why board presence matters!

[The Infamous One]

I usually always study someone's reviews and post's to see if I think we would be a good fit. I was reading an article about trolling & psychopathy. It turns out, they really do translate into real life! At least a few studies have shown this to be true.

Most people can't fathom this, because they don't act like this or aren't motivated by psychopathy. I used to be a highly reactive person. It never occurred to me that people trolled strictly for reactions. I used to waste so much time & energy getting upset and taking things personal. The things a troll does or says online has nothing to do with you or me, personally.

I just thought I'd leave this here for those of you who get really upset by trolling as I used to.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...hs-and-sadists

[DocHolyday]

Just a bunch of Psycho babble.

[TemptationTammie]

Most things that people say on here can be taken many different ways.
Some things can be taken as an attack, even if it's meant as a joke. Or vice versa. Something can be said with feeling or just matter of fact.
I know I try not to take things personally unless it's an outright attack.

[Passion2015]

I do watch what ladies write here because, it directs my interest for or against them. There are a few here that because of how they write and communicate here, I wouldn't see them if they were free or paid me.

I don't care how beautiful they are, a bad attitude on here is a complete turn off for me.

I like my ladies submissive and sweet, so they taste good til the last orgasm.

[The Infamous One]

It may be pop psychology, but I think there's definitely something to it. www.anti-troll.org has some interesting things to say about it. But don't believe me, trolling and It's relation topsychopathy is all over the interwebs. It must be true!! Lol

[Alana kay]

Good point especially the last part...submissive and sweet.
I interact on the boards in certain topics but do not like the drama parts...that does not interest me in my real life nor on here.

[TxHarleyGuy]

Originally Posted by The Infamous One

It never occurred to me that people trolled strictly for reactions.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...hs-and-sadists

That's pretty much exactly why trolls do what they do; to garner reactions, stir the pot, and push people's buttons. This never occurred to you? Been on the Internet much?

People will always write what they write. The Internet affords them a very easy vehicle to do so. How one chooses to react - is quite literally - entirely up to them.

[The Infamous One]

Originally Posted by Passion2015

I do watch what ladies write here because, it directs my interest for or against them. There are a few here that because of how they write and communicate here, I wouldn't see them if they were free or paid me.

I don't care how beautiful they are, a bad attitude on here is a complete turn off for me.

I like my ladies submissive and sweet, so they taste good til the last orgasm.

Submissive & sweet or tolerant with low self-esteem or just good sense not to pay attention to what you say & put the $ in the bank?

[tzv13]

I can see the validity to this. I'm glad that you're not taking things personally The Infamous One.

[tzv13]

Originally Posted by TxHarleyGuy

That's pretty much exactly why trolls do what they do; to garner reactions, stir the pot, and push people's buttons. This never occurred to you? Been on the Internet much?

People will always write what they write. The Internet affords them a very easy vehicle to do so. How one chooses to react - is quite literally - entirely up to them.

+1

[Claire She Blows]

A farmer once told me, "if you feed it, it'll grow. If you starve it, it'll die." So I don't feed the trolls anymore, try as they might to get a reaction out of me, lol.

[knotty man]

Im just here to fuck bitches and kick ass.
And im all outta bitches.

[The Infamous One]

Rofl. Good try, Knotty man. Sorry. I'm not buying it!

[knotty man]

Ok. Ill buy. You just bring the peanut butter

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by TxHarleyGuy

People will always write what they write. The Internet affords them a very easy vehicle to do so. How one chooses to react - is quite literally - entirely up to them.

How they react provides the entertainment. It would be damn boring if people realized they own their emotions and can choose how or whether to react.