No call no show

[Congratulations]

It wasnt a apartment.

[TemptationTammie]

Ladies may still want to watch out of a hotel window to see who is coming. That does not mean that she has a pimp.

[Cap'n Crunch]

Do we really want to make a spectacle every time there is a no show? I had an indy provider sleep through our appointment time and I wasted the whole morning. Did I make a big post to shame the provider? Heck, no! I respect you girls and allow that sometimes things happen. Guys should get a little leeway as well.

This guy, whether warranted or not, may have gotten spooked. Right or wrong, I think you should cut him some slack, just as we often do for providers. Granted, if he was to do it a second time to that same provider, I might feel differently.

We are here to enjoy our crazy and wonderful community. I hope things work out.

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by Cap'n Crunch

Do we really want to make a spectacle every time there is a no show? I had an indy provider sleep through our appointment time and I wasted the whole morning. Did I make a big post to shame the provider? Heck, no! I respect you girls and allow that sometimes things happen. Guys should get a little leeway as well.

This guy, whether warranted or not, may have gotten spooked. Right or wrong, I think you should cut him some slack, just as we often do for providers. Granted, if he was to do it a second time to that same provider, I might feel differently.

We are here to enjoy our crazy and wonderful community. I hope things work out.

Of course people get spooked all the time. It kinda comes with the hobby and hooking up with total strangers .

This guy had no right saying this:

Originally Posted by Congratulations

No one tells you where to park unless they have a lookout/pimp. I then blocked you because you kept calling me insistently.

You are the provider not me.

This guy just said this provider had a pimp because she told him where to park and we should cut him slack. Did he see a pimp? No! Was there a creepy guy hanging around outside? No! Does she have alerts saying so? No! This new provider with 16 all yes reviews now will be linked to having a pimp because he got spooked with out proof? Nope he could have simply said that I was nervous.. throwing out the pimp part with out facts is BS!

[Congratulations]

She should have thought about it before she posted the alert. How do you know all of those self answered questions were no?

[Britttany_love]

Because you would have said for sure if she had a pimp etc in your rebuttal! You aren't gonna forget that shit! Come on bro!

[alexatx78]

Originally Posted by Samcro84

About time the guys get called out. Now it is all about a he said or what she said. At least she gets to defend herself.

Sam

You mean there should be integrity in this business? I kid!

I've seen BCPowder before and can vouch for her, but if a client or provider feels unsafe and bails, that's understandable. There are a lot of variables in play and ones safety is the highest priority. Things could happen that's beyond their control. Yes, the party bailing should call or text, but I don't think it's fair to either party to get called out for NCNS, regardless of how shitty it is for them to do so.

[Cap'n Crunch]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

This new provider with 16 all yes reviews now will be linked to having a pimp because he got spooked with out proof? Nope he could have simply said that I was nervous.. throwing out the pimp part with out facts is BS!

Brittany, you are forgetting something. The PROVIDER is the one who brought this dirty laundry to the forum. She was the first to disparage and practically try to blacklist the guy. Had she let it slide, as so many of us guys do when we get NCNS, she would not have to read a rebuttal.

If a guy posted in "ALERTS" of all places, that YOU were NCNS and that all hobbyists should avoid YOU, I don't think there would be a simple response like "I was nervous." You would come back full barreled, no holds barred. If you are honest with yourself, you will admit that is true.

The provider was the first to cast aspersions and attempt to trash his reputation. She opened herself up for a rebuttal, no matter how fair you or I think his answer was. Like I said before, it would have been prudent for her NOT to post this kind of minor dirty laundry, in the manner she did and in the forum she chose.

LESSON TO BE LEARNED: It is best not to sensationalize minor issues. Let them slide and you'll be happier in the end.

[FirePhoenix]

Look the hobbiest known as "congratulations " had been known to be a bit of an issue work with. Just as much as hobbiest research providers the providers also need to research the hobbiest. Every now and then 1 bad apple does manage to slip though. As far as parking goes absolutely pay attention to instructions whether it be hobbiest or provider. More than likely it's meant to save you from having your car towed, but hey if that's how a person wants to spend their money then let them do so.

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

This guy just said this provider had a pimp because she told him where to park and we should cut him slack. Did he see a pimp? No! Was there a creepy guy hanging around outside? No! Does she have alerts saying so? No! This new provider with 16 all yes reviews now will be linked to having a pimp because he got spooked with out proof? Nope he could have simply said that I was nervous.. throwing out the pimp part with out facts is BS!

I have two words for you Tina Latina and Carly. Both were being pimped out for years before it all came out in the open. I was sold down the river on that one. Was even threatened.

Also to answer your question. If your incall is in a nice apt complex then it does not matter where I park.

Also My SAFETY IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS YOURS.

[Austin Ellen]

I just want to clear up the towing problem. Unless you are parked in a handicapped zone or Fire zone or a no parking zone - the tow companies and the property management companies are required to give you notice. Notice is usually given by placing a sticker on your car. The last time I checked it was a 48 hour notice. You cannot get your car towed unless you are parked in a designated area that tells you - you will be towed. So listen to your providers when they tell you where to park - they know the areas to avoid.

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

I have two words for you Tina Latina and Carly. Both were being pimped out for years before it all came out in the open. I was sold down the river on that one. Was even threatened.

Also to answer your question. If your incall is in a nice apt complex then it does not matter where I park.

Also My SAFETY IS JUST AS IMPORTANT AS YOURS.

Girls get pimped all the time. I could have told you that years ago about Tina Latina. I new that the minute I had requested references from her back in the day. However that is not my business to post that shit. Some people just fail to see the warning signs.

If this girl was pimped.. why did he not come on the board after the fact and post an alert about it? He waited til she called him out for him to say something? He has no problem talking shit on everybody else's alerts about girls being pimped and managed but he would have kept it quiet had she not said something.

As for the towing part. Since im the one living at MY residence im pretty sure im the one who knows what you do not. We have very limited guest parking so those without proof can be towed. This is so the residents living here are able to park. I have even had people park in reserved spots. Those will be towed by the person who owns that spot. We call a number and they are here immediately and will tow once you show your card. I see it happen all the time. That's why I tell you what area is ok to park in. Im not going to force you to park there but if you come out to a towed car I dont want to hear you bitching. My Rep is stellar ive not had any problems with guys and the parking.

No body said your safety isnt just as important.. where did you get that from?

[Congratulations]

Please take note the only "ladies" commenting are washed up has beens. You people live for drama. And how do you know where and where I haven't discussed it?

[Britttany_love]

Originally Posted by Congratulations

Please take note the only two "ladies" commenting are washed up has beens. You people live for drama. And how do you know where and where I haven't discussed it?

We are talking about this post. Drama nope, im here calling your bullshit out. The alert right here that you posted shit in. Own up and prove your facts here since you called her out or you can hide and make up some shit in the locker room.

Look in the mirror bro! You're the biggest shit talker on here!

[Austin Ellen]

+1- Me thinks he protests too much. And you know what they say about that...........

Originally Posted by Britttany_love

We are talking about this post. Drama nope, im here calling your bullshit out. The alert right here that you posted shit in. Own up and prove your facts here since you called her out or you can hide and make up some shit in the locker room.

Look in the mirror bro! You're the biggest shit talker on here!