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Originally Posted by BulleitBourbon
Here i was thinking I was bad for the hobby, because I always go for the best value. I know I few girls off BP that offer hh at odd hours of the night and I'm used to seeing them and they respond to me. Especially those im attracted too. I understand and have had bad experiences in the game all across this great land ours. But I'm not about hour long facades or bngs, however I feel I'm also the easiest client to see, be honest, discret, and fair and I'd likely be back to see you.
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Why did you think you're bad for the hobby?
We choose our hobbies. The hobby that we choose serves us, or if it doesn't, we find a different hobby that does.
A hobby doesn't suffer because of bad hobbyists.
If you're a stamp collector who specializes in a certain type of stamp, and someone else comes along and corners the market on that type of stamp, then your circumstances have changed. That doesn't make you a bad hobbyist.
It's nobody's fault. It's just the way things worked out. You may blame it on someone else, but maybe it's just a sign that you're really not into stamp collecting that much, so much as a particular aspect of stamp collecting.
Maybe it's about the type of people that you met while seeking out that particular type of stamp. Or maybe about collecting stamps at a particular price point. Whatever, and now you all have nothing in common. That would totally suck.
But maybe you can find other interests with those people, or find other people with similar interests in different areas. Life is all about doors opening and closing at various times and very unpredictably.
We all try different things at different times. If we find something that works for us, we do it again. And then if it keeps working, we keep hitting it again and again.
ECCIE isn't the gold standard because it's ECCIE. It's the gold standard for those of us that it has worked for reliably because it's worked for us reliably.
If something else works for you better, do that instead. But I figure that you're here because you're finding this works more reliably.
If so, keep doing it. If BP works better for you, keep doing that. Don't dog yourself either way. Just do your thing, until it becomes clear that you need to do a different thing. Then do that.
It's not common sense. Sometimes it takes some serious thought. Give yourself time to give it the attention that it needs.
Or alternatively, you could rail against the universe because everything doesn't comply with your preferences. You will probably find that path limiting.