i Need to know reason they don't want to see?

[kush4luv]

This might be notting but I have try to setup three meeting with three different girls. The first contact works fine and everything. they also confirm the time and then they don't show after asking for my username. there is no more contact. I just need to know if there is anything in my profile that is a problem.
Just wanted to know what i did wrong. thank you all your help.

[escortrevier]

I think its the area, been having the same issue.

[ck1942]

Hoping I am that you are not referring to ladies in San Antonio, especially since your profile indicates North Texas.

Could be your very limited review and posting history.

Could be your "approach" in that you don't send a pm to the provider including everything that she asks for up front.

Most city forums have coed threads about "newbie friendly" providers.

Do your research.

People who have been on board more than a few years need to show proof of that.

ijs

Happy Hobbying!

[strawberry skye]

You have 3 reviews, and 2 of those are no's.
Of course, your honesty is appreciated by the mongers and you are welcome to give no reviews, but having only 3, 2 no's, is probably freaking the ladies out. I see they are on the same provider and 1 is in the recycle bin, but just clicking on your reviews, it shows 3 and that is probably what is killing it for ya.

[oldtiger]

Moved to proper forum.

OT

[RPM12]

ive been here a while and i cant even hook up with anyone. all the ladies ask for refrences unfortunanly i have none as the last two have left the site. anyhelp out there

[Bankshot]

P411 makes scheduling much easier. It is well worth it.

[TheBad]

+1 on Preferred411. Your reviews will be in there for them to look up and if the provider does not use P411, chances are they will just take your word for it that you have them.

I don't even bother with the ones who refuse to use P411.

[Dr Grey]

These threads ought to help out tremendously...I'd take the advice from the first one, and apply it to the ladies in the next.

Communication is vital....
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2009872

Newbie Friendly Women...
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1197311

Something good has to come out of that. I haven't needed p411 in years.

[DallasRain]

Wishing you happier playtimes

[escortrevier]

So after reading the threads I am gathering, that you always need a reference here if it's the first time with that provider? That might be my issues. I'm still not getting even a basic message back saying anything like can you add a reference, or just a no, I feel like I got blacklisted and I am not sure why. I got lucky with KK, that was pretty smooth.

[Dr Grey]

Originally Posted by escortrevier

So after reading the threads I am gathering, that you always need a reference here if it's the first time with that provider? That might be my issues. I'm still not getting even a basic message back saying anything like can you add a reference, or just a no, I feel like I got blacklisted and I am not sure why. I got lucky with KK, that was pretty smooth.

Just keep at it. Try to get one more lady and see about attending a social. Doors will open. Most importantly, always be a gent.

[Cheesecake7]

Originally Posted by RogueOne

... Most importantly, always be a gent.

Absolutely true!

[CoverMe]

Originally Posted by escortrevier

....you always need a reference here if it's the first time with that provider?

No, that's not always the case.

First of all, always make initial contact via PM and never by text or email, even after you're established. Some ladies have alternative screening methods. Work with those who respond to you on their screening criteria. If you're not comfortable with their requirements, politely decline and move on. We're all here to have fun, but safety and security will always be the top priorities.

Good luck! Have fun and stay safe!

[RichieValens]

Originally Posted by kush4luv

This might be notting but I have try to setup three meeting with three different girls. The first contact works fine and everything. they also confirm the time and then they don't show after asking for my username. there is no more contact. I just need to know if there is anything in my profile that is a problem.
Just wanted to know what i did wrong. thank you all your help.

I'd try cashmere, she's a transient I think to SA. I heard she's newbie friendly.

Good luck