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					Originally Posted by Old-T  I agree with much of what you say--certainly the part about good folks and flakes on any web site.  However, I think you understate the value of reviews and info exchanges that happen on sites such as this, that do not happen on BP, etc.  I have nothing against ladies who use BP--and in many places that is about all there is available to them.  However if a lady ONLY uses BP and I have no way of doing my homework about her, she may still be a very fine person however the risk of the unknown is more than I care to take.  In that sense I do think some clubs are of more value and safer than others. | 
	
 
I agree completely Mr.T.  In fact, I did point out how verifications, reviews and PM's (which is my prefered way of communicating) can be found on eccie.  However, as a guy from NM (where things are pretty slow) and on the way  to Florida (where it seems to be like pulling teeth to get responses), there is a valid reason why many girls and guys use BP.  I think there is more than enough friction on whatever site a person goes on.  Even the P411 seems to draw out a good amount of friction.  Bottom line, check everything out.  Google (along with all other sources) is our friend.  
Play safe!