Are you a Switch? Can you Switch?

[Zena]

Are you a Switch ?
Can you switch from one extreme to another...
Its ummm...occasionally...hard .... :/

What do you do to get your mindframe right ???
What allows you to

TOTALLY SWITCH FROM

SUB TO DOMME ??? OR
MALE DOM TO MALE SUB??

(please dont say porn. As porn is so so so easily accessible these days, its pitiful,)

Sigh...
This is all so much more mental and satisfying

Than physical....
Just my thoughts. I may be wrong.

Thank you..... Zena.

[Solemate62]

I’m bisexual but I know that’s not what you mean. Foot lovers such as myself, we are servers, subs or whatever title you bestow on us. Being a Dom is not my nature!

[redbeard087]

For me it generally depends on the vibe I get from the person I'm with. I have a naturally dominant personality so if I get that naughty girl who needs a strong hand vibe I can assume that role very easily.

With that said my desires are definitely in submission. It's a RARE occasion when I get to cede control but when I do oh my God does it turn my lust up to 11.

[King MoMo]

Stress! I am naturally dominant. When I am under a lot of pressure from business or personal life, relinquishing control in the bedroom becomes very appealing...

[King MoMo]

Also, I find a sexually aggressive woman VERY arousing. It is fun and "validating" to be desired by a dominant woman.

[Naughtyandbad]

I am a sub/switch.
I can easily go from sub to Dom for the enjoyment and pleasure of my Domme (i find often that they may like to give up control every now and then with someone they like and trust in private) but i am always ready to revert once they get off.

I guess i've been trained

[redbeard087]

Originally Posted by King MoMo

Also, I find a sexually aggressive woman VERY arousing. It is fun and "validating" to be desired by a dominant woman.

I think that hits the heart of it. Submitting to a dominant makes me feel wanted.

[oksensualadventures]

Im not a switch or sub. I like to call myself a "dominant leaning kinkster", foot fetishist, tickling affectianado. I like being the top, its always so exciting!

[Zena]

Thank you guys !!!!
You guys are THE BEST !!!! & VERY TALENTED!!!

[SweetDulce]

I can't switch.
I have tried.
I had a sugar daddy that was very dominant and I would get pissed off when he would tell me what to do.
I like being in charge.

[KissableMelissa]

I tend to be submissive and I love it! Switch is hard for me, but I’m getting better at it! Practice makes perfect! Right y’all? ❤️❤️

[john_doe1978]

I’d like to think I can switch. Most of my sexual experiences are middle of the road....”normal” for lack of a better term. But I frequently fantasize about the other two ends of the spectrum. I would love to dominate a naughty, nasty submissive slut and make her do whatever pleases me.

On the hand, I frequently fantasize about BEING that naughty, nasty slut.

I’m sure someday I’ll get to explore them both. Hopefully someday soon!

[topnbottoman]

I am definitely a switch. The mode I am in (dom or sub) depends on which is the best fit with my play partner. I am capable of switching at the drop of a hat, but can recall only being in just 1 or 2 encounters where my switching worked to enhance the fun, because I have found the women I explore kink with are usually not switches themselves. I have never had a problem 'staying in my lane' during playtime.

Having said all that, I am naturally more dom than sub, so in my vanilla encounters I will be in a traditional male mode. But it is my submissive cravings that brought me to the world of kinky fun in the first place.

[Deja Tha Doll]

I myself am a sassy little switch. I like variety. And my dual nature, definitely helps allow this title to be ever so fitting. I absolutely love role play. And if I'm into a scenario, I can lose myself in the role of a dom or sub. As for a sub, I love to serve and please my master. For satisfying my master, pleases me greatly. I love being told what to do. For I know doing what I am told will make my Master happy. And I get absolutely soaked while I'm on the giving end in situations. I crave the satisfaction I get knowing I have succeeded in submitting to all my masters wishes and desires . But I admit, sometimes I'm a naughty sub....only because I crave a good spanking once in a while As for being dominant, when someone needs to submit to all of my glory, in whichever way I want, need, and see fit, ....well I can say this is just as exciting!!! All in all, I think I love the versatile nature of a being a switch. Because in the end, I'm just a naughty little nymph who likes to switch it up. Because pleasing others whether it be me submitting or me calling the shots, I know in doing so, will in turn leave them and me in a state of bliss and satisfaction afterwards.

[Deja Tha Doll]

And to answer your question more specifically Zena, i think that when someone clearly states what kind of fantasy and role play that they are into, that itself can help a lot with the switch-ing up part. For I can prepare myself in numerous ways, such as mentally, physically, supply wise and even with a certain outfit or music. The anticipation, and preparation to these kind of scenarios always excites me. whether it be knowing i may soon be spanked, tied up, etc or that i shall be the one doling out punishment and prizes, these pre-encounter preparations help set the mood for this sassy little switch.