Closed. 
Reminder posted by St C  here  
https://www.eccie.net/announcement.php?f=5
To all, 
I wanted to take a moment to call to attention a few of the site's  guidelines to be sure everyone understands and is on the same page with  what is expected and what will be enforced.
The following is not permitted on the site:
Insulting Others
Targeting other members for attacks
Harassing other members, groups of members, class of members, etc
Disrespecting other members on the site
General rudeness toward other members on the site
These have always been part of the vision for this site, although I'm  not so sure it's been enforced consistently mainly due to the site  growing so large in size over the years.
The moderators have recently been given a directive from Site Admins to  enforce these particular guidelines strongly and consistently across the  board, anywhere it may exist.   The key word is ANYWHERE.  Any forum,  public or private.  If someone insults you to your face or behind your  back they have still insulted you and that is that.
Also, a special call-out for those who may have participated in such  behavior prior to the day this notice goes live:  You can consider this  an early Christmas present for you.  You are being given a golden  opportunity to stop insulting, targeting, or harassing other members and  participate in harmony with the diverse folks that make up this  community.    
Should anyone not take this notice seriously and continue to display  behaviors that have been prohibited on this site since Day 1, I'm afraid  you won't be able to get by for very long flying under the radar  without consequence or reprimand.
We have always intended this site to be a place everyone can come and  participate, any gender, all walks of life, to seek and receive  information pertaining to their search for fun and successful  encounters.  Staff wishes to issue an apology that the rapid growth of  the site  seemed to throw us off in some areas from keeping this aspect  of the vision alive.  Corrections and adjustments are being made, and it  should be pretty noticeable in the days and weeks to come.
Thanks everyone! Have a great day!
St. C