No references, requests for unheard of services like it is the NORM

[KatyLeigh007]

While I was away I kept getting request for frowned upon services and guys wo references wanting to meet. Hoping to have better luck here in KC guys I am back home...
Any info about what’s been going on here at home pm me ?

[dumars]

One's "frowned upon services" are another's deal breakers. Those same "frowned upon services" are another's bill payer. Just say'n!

Originally Posted by KatyLeigh007

frowned upon services

[Cherokeechief]

Originally Posted by dumars

One's "frowned upon services" are another's deal breakers. Those same "frowned upon services" are another's bill payer. Just say'n!

Have to Agree

[CaptainKaos]

The best deal is to politely shrug it off. People are going to ask you for all sorts of stuff, it doesn't mean you have to do it. The providers who do best on ECCIE are the ones who know how to be discrete, relaxed and forward-thinking.

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by KatyLeigh007

While I was away I kept getting request for frowned upon services and guys wo references wanting to meet. Hoping to have better luck here in KC guys I am back home...
Any info about what’s been going on here at home pm me ?

What, exactly, is a frowned upon service?
I don't understand, frowned upon by whom?

This is from one of your reviews:

Passionless(bbbj x 69 x CG x Mish)

So, tell us what you enjoy most.

[dumars]

The ones who do the best are the ones who flaunt the male ego! No matter what forum!

Case in point, had a girl friend, years ago, who told me at just the right moment "I want to eat you!" Turned me into an animal! My late regular would sometimes step into my apartment, drop to her knees and tell me to "feed me some nut" among many other things! Send that ego into high altitude orbit and the lady will win every time!

On the downside, don't tell a client to "come and use my mouth" then don't deliver. The last lady I reviewed was good for that. Shouldn't have recommended her.

Originally Posted by CaptainKaos

The best deal is to politely shrug it off. People are going to ask you for all sorts of stuff, it doesn't mean you have to do it. The providers who do best on ECCIE are the ones who know how to be discrete, relaxed and forward-thinking.

[Sonara]

I think she meant like bare full service it seems a lot of Verified Hobbyists think this is okay ?? Maybe just a Texas thang! I don’t know ... everyone had some great insight. I am taking heed “feed me cum” I may use that ...

[Chalkster]

Caller: "maybe some enthusiasm and engaging behavior"

Hooker: "OMG no. Bye"

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Sonara

I think she meant like bare full service it seems a lot of Verified Hobbyists think this is okay ?? Maybe just a Texas thang! I don’t know ... everyone had some great insight. I am taking heed “feed me cum” I may use that ...

I don't think so, not at all. The impression I got was: she doesn't like something, and she isn't going to say what she doesn't like - the guys have to guess what that is. If she doesn't like the answer, she wins.

Just another female game. Get around it guys. Kinda like going to a cafe: just come out and ask what is on the menu before you pay for the meal. Anything special today?

One lady, when I asked about what her rules were she said she hated greek: OK by me. But when we became friends, as soon as I she helped be become ready, she jumped on and had a full in BBFS before I knew what she was doing. Surprised me!

Don't want to kiss, BJ or Greek: OK. It is up to the woman to set her own rules. Just don't make the meeting a guessing game; because, no one can read your mind.

[Cherokeechief]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

I don't think so, not at all. The impression I got was: she doesn't like something, and she isn't going to say what she doesn't like - the guys have to guess what that is. If she doesn't like the answer, she wins.

Just another female game. Get around it guys. Kinda like going to a cafe: just come out and ask what is on the menu before you pay for the meal. Anything special today?

One lady, when I asked about what her rules were she said she hated greek: OK by me. But when we became friends, as soon as I she helped be become ready, she jumped on and had a full in BBFS before I knew what she was doing. Surprised me!

Don't want to kiss, BJ or Greek: OK. It is up to the woman to set her own rules. Just don't make the meeting a guessing game; because, no one can read your mind.

[dumars]

Engaged with OP for a short bit after reading ad somewhere looking for regulars. Replied with some details and I got nothing back.

Me thinks the circumstances might be sprinkled with fecal matter! Just think’n with my fingers!

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by dumars

Engaged with OP for a short bit after reading ad somewhere looking for regulars. Replied with some details and I got nothing back.

Me thinks the circumstances might be sprinkled with fecal matter! Just think’n with my fingers!

You think, but you are not sure. OK, you may like playing the guessing game; I don't.

If a girl can't communicate, it is time to move on.

I have had Greek. I really don't think it is something that I would request, or pay extra for - just not worth it. I have had great CBJs, but most women just don't understand the appreciation for a job well done - Good Year Condoms are something only a woman would purchase because of the cheap price.

Sex is more than physical: it is 95% above your shoulders. If a woman doesn't understand that, she is not worth spending time with.

[CaptainKaos]

Sonora,

A lot of old time and respected hobbyists and a lot of old time and respected providers don't find anything wrong with bbfs with people they chose to do it with. It makes no sense to frown upon them. I just assume that everyone in the hobby world barebacks someone, so it's up to me to do what I need to protect my safety.

[dumars]

Why do you think it is important to me what you think? I intentionally make some posts vague for my own reasons! Last time I checked, I wasn't required to divulge those reasons to you! If you can't understand or deal with that, move on!

This post ain't vague, is it?

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

You think, but you are not sure. OK, you may like playing the guessing game; I don't.

If a girl can't communicate, it is time to move on.

I have had Greek. I really don't think it is something that I would request, or pay extra for - just not worth it. I have had great CBJs, but most women just don't understand the appreciation for a job well done - Good Year Condoms are something only a woman would purchase because of the cheap price.

Sex is more than physical: it is 95% above your shoulders. If a woman doesn't understand that, she is not worth spending time with.

[ReubenShowalter]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

One lady, when I asked about what her rules were she said she hated greek: OK by me. But when we became friends, as soon as I she helped be become ready, she jumped on and had a full in BBFS before I knew what she was doing. Surprised me!