Love and the hobby

[joseywales204]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

I can absolutely assure you there was no acting going on.

Well, I can't imagine anything more convincing than the assurance of a hobbyist, so no doubt you are right.

I cautioned that he should prepare himself for the more likely event that it really is about the money & enjoy the feeling while it lasts. That shouldn't offend you.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by joseywales204

Well, I can't imagine anything more convincing than the assurance of a hobbyist, so no doubt you are right.

I cautioned that he should prepare himself for the more likely event that it really is about the money & enjoy the feeling while it lasts. That shouldn't offend you.

So how would you possibly critique my assurance. I've known the lady in question for 12 years. The last 6 have been after she retired, and she's never asked me for a dime. My financial support has been very minimal in regards to the time we've spent together, and I have met 3 of her four children and we've had dinner with them and her mom. They all treat me with respect and appreciate the lady having someone who cares about her in her life. I generally stay in her home when I visit. The OP asked for other posters who have had "outside the box" as it relates to the hobby experience. I shared mine, and never said his would be the same. I've obviously never met his lady friend.

[FocusedGamer]

Originally Posted by Mr69Jones

What's love got to with it. It's all about can you provide her life style. The broke bad boy will always get the pussy for free.

Sounds about right....

[Mplay]

Originally Posted by joseywales204

I have had women in the industry say to me that working girls are actresses, nothing they say to you is real. While I try to resist such a pessimistic view, I have never seen any evidence to the contrary. My caution would be, while that feeling of an authentic connection is worth any money you spend, the crash back to reality can be a real buzzkill.

I definitely agree some are. I’ve meet girls that screen cautiously. If the sex is amazing I usually repeat. A lot of these girls will start telling you their life history within a few dates. Since I tend to do longer sessions there is a lot of down time. It still astounds me the shit they will share. At first I bought into a lot of it. Then I realized most of it is to retain a client. Now as a seasoned old man. I just nod my head and go along with whatever direction they are taking me.

It’s always interesting to sort the lies and truths. I just view it as entertainment

[joseywales204]

Originally Posted by Mplay

It’s always interesting to sort the lies and truths. I just view it as entertainment

Yes, I do enjoy visiting with them & find some of them interesting. The best lies are partial truths so they always tell you some truth while the truths that matter remain elusive.

[SomeRandomGuy88]

It happens. People are people. But don’t let yourself get taken advantage of. Many of these hookers will interpret kindness as weakness. This ain’t Hollywood and the hooker with a heart of gold archetype is few and far between.

Good luck! I’m not saying it never happens obviously but make sure you protect yourself.

[victoryformation]

I rendezvoused with My K-Girl ATF 78x!
(I would shamelessly eat her asshole (with Reddi Wip)!)
Ya think ... she knew I was a little bit sweet on her?

[GutterFund]

Originally Posted by Seline

This happens a lot more than you think. ...

That's probably right. I've played more years than I'll admit to any of you and I've seen it several times. More often, I've seen couples just gradually become friends and hang out together more and more. It's nice, in a way. The world is a lonely place. I for one am glad to see friendships regardless of the circumstances.

[KCFalcon77]

Originally Posted by GutterFund

That's probably right. I've played more years than I'll admit to any of you and I've seen it several times. More often, I've seen couples just gradually become friends and hang out together more and more. It's nice, in a way. The world is a lonely place. I for one am glad to see friendships regardless of the circumstances.

This. Well said GF.

[Goose7093]

Originally Posted by KCFalcon77

So how would you possibly critique my assurance. I've known the lady in question for 12 years. The last 6 have been after she retired, and she's never asked me for a dime. My financial support has been very minimal in regards to the time we've spent together, and I have met 3 of her four children and we've had dinner with them and her mom. They all treat me with respect and appreciate the lady having someone who cares about her in her life. I generally stay in her home when I visit. The OP asked for other posters who have had "outside the box" as it relates to the hobby experience. I shared mine, and never said his would be the same. I've obviously never met his lady friend.

My experience is similar to yours. I’ve met all her kids, her Mom and Dad, her sisters, and her Aunt. I have no reason to doubt anything’s she’s told me or said to me. And her actions have backed that up.

I know I’m not the only one here who has had this type of experience. It happens. I think it’s rare, but it happens.

We just enjoy being together. We know one another, both inside and out of the room.